Healing Marriages
Joseph Garlington (Covenant Church, Pittsburgh,
Pennsylvania, USA) reminds us that we must choose between being right or being
reconciled. We need to give up our right to be right.
This is
especially true
in a marriage or family relationship. Un-forgiveness is the
root of many
diseases, especially those that eat
the body, like cancer.
The Lord reminds us that vengeance
is His. We need to give God permission
to be
in control, of not only others, but also of ourselves. This is true,
especially for those who feel the need to
control or fix everybody and
everything. As long as we are in control, God is not.
When we quit,
then God can begin.
June Hunt reminds us to have our confidence in Jesus
rather than in our mate when we
are
looking for a reconciliation,
and to place
our priority on our relationships rather than
our hurts.
www.hopefortheheart.org
Bill Johnson (Bethel Church, Redding, California, USA)
warns us NOT to look back, unless we do
it with the blood of Christ.
Be
reminded of the story of Lot's wife who looked back and turned
into a pillar of
salt.
It is a stumbling block to us and an open door to Satan each time we
reminisce about the past of others or ourselves,
and neglect to put on God's eye
glasses.
If He has forgiven, it is a sin for us to uncover, ruminate, and expose wrong.
It is wrong to be offended. Both Stephen & Jesus
when dying prayed, "Father forgive them." We need to repent
of gossip,
even if it is gossip about ourselves.
Any testimony should be told in
light of what God
has done for us. For instance, if I need to share a
secret, then that should be told in the context
of how Christ redeemed what
Satan intended for evil. For instance, if my mate had depression
and was
suicidal, then I would share how Christ intervened. Even then, that could
be wrong,
for it is NOT our
job to share the testimony of others, because often
it is only a form of gossip,
a way of puffing up ourselves and putting down
others.
Prayer groups are often just gossip
centers. Beware...
Another aspect of forgiveness is reminding ourselves that we
do NOT have the right to judge
another.
Christ is the final judge.
In the name of Jesus, we remove that person from our
judgment. Scripture
warns us that in the way we judge others, we will eventually be judged by
God.
(Forgiveness has nothing to do with protecting ourselves from harm.
In this case,
when
necessary, we 1st remove ourselves from danger; 2nd we cover ourselves with
Jesus' blood.)
Henry Wright's ministry in Georgia, USA spends a lot of time helping
others to forgive self, others & God.
www.pleasantvalleychurch.net
Betrayal
by Husband
Kolenda, Daniel -
http://www.charismamag.com/spirit/spiritual-warfare/44109-daniel-kolenda-on-spiritual-warfare-kill-your-dragon-while-it-s-young
-
“You can pretend it's not there. You can call it weird. But as Daniel
Kolenda emphasizes, the supernatural realm is very real. Not only that, but the
(spiritual) enemy can be behind your everyday struggles. In his book
Slaying Dragons, Kolenda shares practical, doctrinally sound spiritual
warfare tips, including killing the proverbial dragon before it's born.
‘Smash it while it is still inside its egg. If you can kill it in its
gestation period, you will never have to battle a monster,’ Kolenda says. ‘Big
things start small. Big addictions come from simple curiosity. Big sins grow
from small seeds.’
As an example, Kolenda describes a season when he got
his hair cut at a salon by a young, attractive hairdresser. He used to hate
haircuts, but the young lady was interesting to talk to, & she seemed
interested in him. When she cut his hair, time flew by. Then 1 morning Kolenda
woke up and felt a flutter of excitement for his hair appointment that day. He
was surprised, but it didn't take a lot of reflecting to realize why.
‘Obviously
I was excited at the thought of seeing that attractive young woman,’ he
says.
But Kolenda was married with 3 children. So he canceled his appointment
& switched salons. While the situation may have never evolved into anything,
Kolenda was also aware that every affair could be traced back to a
little, innocent feeling of excitement. In his writing he uses this
experience to illustrate how to slay a (small) dragon before it
becomes a (big) dragon.
‘Remember how Jesus told us to deal with
temptation: If your hand offends you, cut it off. If your eye offends you, gouge
it out,’ Kolenda says. ‘I recognized the latent potential for a little dragon
egg to begin growing in my life. I dealt with it quickly & thoroughly.’
His book Slaying Dragons
doesn't just expose the ways of the enemy. It challenges readers to consider the
sin habits they themselves have coddled.
‘Most of the dragons that
threaten us are ones we have incubated, nurtured, & raised in our own hearts.
Lust, pride, greed, selfishness in all its forms, hatred, the abandonment of
responsibility, lack of self-discipline: are the kind of dragons that usually
destroy us,’ Kolenda says. ‘In fact it is these small internal dragons
that become the huge external ones.’
Slaying Dragons shines
light on what the enemy is doing in one's life & what a person can do to
slay every dragon he or she encounters.”
Murdock, Cindy -
https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/her-story-pt-1-cindy-murdock
5/21/2020
Murdock, Cindy -
Weiss, Doug -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=6083387783001
11/15/2019
Weiss, Doug -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/search/?search=betrayal
Betrayal by Wife
..
Brain & Sex
Leaf,
Caroline et al -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/dr-caroline-leaf-part-1-2/ 4/9
Leaf,
Caroline et al -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/dr-caroline-leaf-part-2-2/ 4/10
Leaf,
Caroline et al -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/switched-off-your-brain-part-1/ 4/12
Leaf,
Caroline et al -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/switched-off-your-brain-part-2/ 4/13
Leaf,
Caroline -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/dr-caroline-leaf-part-1-3/ 4/23
Leaf,
Caroline -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/dr-caroline-leaf-part-2-3/ 4/24
Leaf,
Caroline -
4/26
Leaf,
Caroline -
4/27
Leaf, Caroline -
from
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/tv/daily-topics/
Broken Heart
Hunter, Joan -
https://www.marilynandsarah.org/2019/09/03/love-again-live-again-with-joan-hunter-part-1/
Buttons
COMMENTARY: Sometimes my mate pushes my
BUTTONS/ouches/hurts/wounds/sore
spots/etc.
(or I touch his/her)
Often one of us has
a blind spot/lack of insight/immaturity. This is especially true when
there is
depression, DD, bipolar, schizophrenia, etc.
This is especially
relevant when mental illness/emotional
instability is undiagnosed or not
properly medicated or treated.
If the problem involves improper thinking,
nothing/little the mate says or does will cure
the marriage. Conventional/spiritual counseling may help.
Conventional/alternative
medication may help. Cure is a different issue. If the problem is
inherited it can
be in the DNA and will need a miracle from God. If the
problem is inherited/personal sin it may need
repentance/ rejection. If the
problem is a demonization, possible participation with a deliverance ministry
may be in order. deliverance_ministries.htm The bottom line is, neither mate can cure/fix each other.
The root problem needs to be eliminated. healing_root_issues.htm
Many of us when we took our marriage vows said, "for better or worse," only to
find out it was for worse.
When bones heal they are often
strongest in the
broken places, so God can likewise do with our brokenness.
Sandford, John L & Paula -
Recommended -
http://www.amazon.com/Transforming-The-Inner-Man-Transformation/dp/159979067X/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_y#reader_159979067X
-
Chapter 8 Bitter-Root Judgment and Expectancy shares how unforgiveness
and/or bitter-roots boomerang, attract like a magnet. To turn off
the electromagnetic pull (attraction) between 2 opposing (contentious/opposite)
forces/poles: We need to repent for ourselves & our ancestors. We need to forgive others
for their offenses, but mainly for the way
we negatively responded to others
out of judgment that belongs only to God. We need to release others
into God's hands. We need to act in a manner that would sabotage
relationships. [As demons in each other attract (such as homosexual
spirits), so] there are both physical & spiritual laws; once an evil seed is
planted, it will grow and multiply like a dandelion. The evil taproot
needs uprooting via forgiveness and removal of judgment, prior to
extermination of evil consequence (a curse). For example, if I punch you,
there will be a bruise: physically, emotionally, AND spiritually, which needs
Holy
Spirit intervention to remediate.
Evil (error) involves/triggers a
natural law + a spiritual law of reciprocity. Our
families/countries/cultures/history of origin help to preprogram us to react
automatically without sufficient insight in a marriage. Often we are
attracted to those with whom we feel the most comfortable, yes our families of
origin, and thus we often respond in the same manner we did as a child.
(If the demons inside us are not attracting/reacting to each other, then) often
the childhood unforgiven hurts/ resentments are responding to our mate, which
need to be discovered and then nailed to the cross of Jesus Christ, & left
there. Psychology and Psychiatry are only partially right, in that
most
omit the human spirit and often God.
The main sin in most marriages is our
bitter root judgment due to our reaction to both our mate AND our or our
ancestors' reaction to the same root issue, such as alcoholism. Thus, it
is NOT the offense NOR the offender that is the problem to God, but rather our
own heart attitude/response to the issue. That is the hook/anchor that
gets us into spiritual trouble, generation after generation. Often
repenting for a wrong sinful attitude lacking love will often remedy the
conflict. (Yes, one can exorcise the demons of alcoholism, etc, but if the
heart is not empty of bitterness & full of love,
there is room for another
demon/issue to replace that vice.)
Doctor, Judith - notes from various authors -
Healing the Broken Heart part 4 Bitter Root Judgments -
http://www.kairosministries.us/Healing%20The%20Broken%20Heart%20Part%20IV%20Bitter%20Root%20Judgments.pdf
from The Transformation of the Inner Man by John & Paula
Sandford -
A. Bitter Root
Judgment Produces Negative Expectancies -
1. Bitter Judgments Against Parents Hinder Marital
Relationships -
Bitter experiences in family of origin may
trigger negative expectancies in marriage partner, & thus elicit such negative
responses in mate.
Control/Manipulation
Evans, Jimmy-
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=5312083120001
@
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/jimmy-evans/
articles @
http://marriagetoday.com/marriagehelp/the-root-cause-of-worry-anxiety-and-fear/
BJ Foster
8/30/2018 -
3 Clear Signs Your
Marriage Is Emotionally Abusive -
"The
mine harvested vermiculite, which has a number of commercial uses, including
fire and home insulation while also being used as a soil conditioner. In the
town of Libby, it could be found everywhere. The problem is that this
vermiculite contained a dangerous form of asbestos. For years, the entire town
had been breathing in asbestos dust. As asbestos dust particles move into
the lungs, the fibers end up lodging into the lung tissue like small thorns.
When the immune system cells try to break down the asbestos fibers, the cells
become damaged and eventually die. This creates dead scar tissue that grows over
time until finally the lungs no longer function. The people of Libby had
no idea what was in the air. 1 resident said, 'You
spend your life trying to protect your family. You can protect your family
from stuff that you can see.'
What about the things (the interpersonal dynamics) that you can't see or are
difficult to recognize?"
Landry, Curt & Chris - 11/18/2019 -
#1 -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=6099503147001
We are to
praise God and let Him intervene. We are NOT to be our mate's Holy Spirit.
Landry,
Curt & Chris - 11/19/2019 - #2 -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=6105490654001 -
Business men
need emotional intelligence. @
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/search/?search=curt+landry
Divorce
http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/bible-verses-about-divorce-22-helpful-scriptures/
COMMENTARY: Scripture says that any couple (who
has intercourse) shall become 1 flesh. We are united with our mate as one
flesh. Scripture also says that Jesus' wish was for us to become 1 with Him as
He is with His Father God. We are united with the Trinity as one spirit.
If we violate each other, we also violate God. If there is a
separation/divorce, there is a tearing of both flesh and spirit + soul/mind.
Do we not feel the rip in the relationship?
Can we not hear Jesus crying
aloud on the cross bearing our sins?
NOTE - DIVORCE can be forgiven, but
God's ability/willingness to forgive is NOT an excuse for us to divorce.
Divorce is a sin and creates harm to finances, future marriages, children & one's character. Divorce does NOT prevent God from using a divorced individual
in His ministry (to: pastor a church, heal, prophesy, do miracles, etc. all in
the name + power of Jesus Christ)...
The Old Testament shows many instances of spiritual heroes with character
problems +
human
sins.
Baptist pastor Randy Clark in There is More - Reclaiming the Power of
Impartation
shares that despite his divorce at the age of 22 (and
subsequent remarriage),
God still made available to him
(and makes available to us) His Holy Spirit power
to move in
signs and wonders.
www.globalawakening.com
Divorce Testimony -
http://www.injesus.com/index.php?module=message&task=view&MID=WB007ES7&GroupID=BA007I8S&print=1
Teachings on Marriage
-
1_corinthians/7-10.htm
9.But
if they do not have self-control, let them marry;
for it is better to marry
than to burn with passion.
10.But
to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the
wife should not leave her husband
11.(but
if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her
husband); the husband should not divorce his wife.
12.To the rest I say, (not the Lord,) that if any brother has an
unbelieving wife who consents to live with him, he must not divorce her.
1_corinthians/7-14.htm
1 -
13.A woman who
has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her,
she must not send her husband away.
14.For
the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife. The
unbelieving wife is
sanctified through her believing husband;
otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy.
1_corinthians/7-16.htm -
15.
If the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave;
the mate is not under
bondage in such cases,
but God has called us to peace.
16.For
how do you know, O spouse, whether (or not/perhaps) you will save your mate?
Concubines
to the rescue
- "A woman who refuses to,
or cannot, bring children into the word, & refuses to grant her husband a
divorce, is preventing him from building a family and spreading his seed. In
such a situation, husband is permitted to take a concubine (mistress) & there is
no constraint
under halacha," according to Rabbi Abergel.
7/19/2012 (Theology of non-Messianic rabbi)
Allen, Bruce D -
Divorce and
Remarriage - http://yalak37.com/blog/
Branham, William M -
Marriage & Divorce -
https://branham.org/en/messagestream/ENG=65-0221M 1965 @
https://branham.org/home
AUDIO (Invite Holy Spirit to give us insight as to His Truth.)
Eckhardt, John - Pride & Leviathan -
series of 3 videos on demand -
http://www.impactnetwork.net/flash/videoondemand.swf or http://www.impactnetwork.net/television.html
- Marine spirits, especially the spirit of pride, is addressed in John's
excellent videos on demand & books Marine Demons +
Prayers That Rout
Demons. Important information in deliverance ministries.
The spirit of
Leviathan interferes with ALL covenant making
(including blood covenant of
Christ & marriage).
Eckhardt, John -
http://www.piwcworcester.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Deliverance-and-Spiritual-Warfare-Manual-Eckhardt.pdf
- "Binding and Loosing: The works of darkness encompass
sin, iniquity, perversion, sickness, disease, infirmity, death, destruction,
curses, witchcraft, sorcery, divination, poverty, lack, divorce, strife,
lust, pride, rebellion, fear, torment, and confusion. (Spiritually) we
have legal authority to put a stop to these things in our lives & in the lives of those we minister to."
Evans, Jimmy -
8/15/2013
-
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=2647538222001
God is the glue in marriage. Vision retreats explained & encouraged.
Negative thoughts do NOT produce
positive results.
Evans, Jimmy -
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=3594578103001 5/24/2014
Hagee, John
https://marriedbiography.com/john-hagee-biography/ John was previously
married (as are many clergy, often due to their having Jesus as savior,
but not as baptizer in the Holy Spirit, often expecting God rather than
themselves to bring heaven to earth via indwelling Holy Spirit.)
Hickey, Marilyn and Sarah - 11/17-23/2011 -
Breaking Generational Curses – Part 1
- Watch
this Program Here - superior - Includes
spiritual insight on divorce.
Mental illness had infested the Hickey bloodline, but God reminded Marilyn that
her
(creator/spiritual) Father was God & He did NOT have mental illness in His blood line.
Generational curses are real but not something we have to live under. @
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/tv/daily-topics/
Hickey, Marilyn -
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2012/04/reconciliation-ministry-3/ -
A
Divorce is cancelled.
Hickey, Marilyn -
Marriage Ministry Day
- 6/23/2016 - We pass on to our offspring
both our strengths & weaknesses.
Holy communication & praying together, especially in tongues glues a couple
together.
Your mate can compliment you, but never complete oneself; only the Trinity can
do that.
The more one puts a man down, the more rocky one's marriage may become; STOP it.
Hinn, Benny & Suzanne -
http://www.bennyhinn.org/television/watchprograms/reconciliation-and-restoration-part-1/?prg=06/11/2012 -
"Benny and Suzanne Hinn are reconciling after being divorced since February of
2010.
On this telecast,
they share for the 1st time on "This Is
Your Day" about the mighty miracle that continues to unfold.
Pastor Benny says, “The last 3 years have been very painful for Suzanne & me
& for the
children."
(Family 1st after God & before ministry +
oversight/accountability.)
Hinn, Benny & Suzanne -
http://www.bennyhinn.org/television/watchprograms/reconciliation-and-restoration-part-2/?prg=06/12/2012
- "Benny and Suzanne Hinn describe what happened this past Christmas when their
family was gathered in Orlando. Pastor Benny says, “It was a beautiful day
I will never forget, for this was when the Lord began to do His mighty work in
both of us.” Suzanne says, “Both of us believe our greatest days are ahead &
the best is yet to come.”
http://www.cbn.com/700club/guests/bios/Benny_Suzanne_Hinn_062512.aspx
- 6/25/2012 -
"They have been counseling with (allow spiritual oversight by) Jack Hayford and they plan
to also counsel with
(submit to mentoring from) others, as they want to be sure that they do not fall into
old patterns."
Holiday, Pat-
http://www.scribd.com/doc/33379695/Marriage-Breaking-Demons-
Marriage-and-Sex-Demons-ASMODEUS-amp-OSMODEUS-Docx
Holiday, Pat-
http://www.remnantradio.org/Archives/articles/PH/Newsletters/Charts%20Marriage%20and%20Sex%20Theatre%20of%20Warfare%2006-04-09.pdf
-
"Marriage breaking demons (Divorce)
and cause rejection of sexual genders causing lesbian and homosexuality to
occur. Asmodeus & Osmodeus are...ruling spirits that are warring against all
marriages.
These spirits also are keeping many from getting married." http://www.patholliday.com
Hunter, Joan - Power to Heal
-
http://www.joanhunterministries.com/ -
Chapter 6 Don't Curse Your Blessings
section Blood Covenants
"In the New Testament age, circumcision is no longer required,
as the sign of
the covenant is (adult) immersion baptism."
Colossians 2:11 In Him you were also circumcised...buried with Him in baptism.
Hunter, Joan - Healing Starts Now - training manual -
http://www.joanhunterministries.com/
-
Marriage "covenant (sacrament) is NOT formed during the wedding or at the church.
The
(BLOOD) covenant is formed and finalized later in bed.
The blood shed at
the braking of the woman's hymen is the SIGN of the covenant of
marriage...broken by death.
When a couple gets divorced, they MUST VERBALLY RENOUNCE that covenant...The same principle applies to any person with whom you have had sexual
intercourse other than your marriage partner...Ungodly sexual covenants are formed not only with flesh and blood partners, but
also with fantasy partners -
by pornography, masturbation, or reading explicitly
romance novels...Bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of
Christ - 2 Corinthians 10:5."
Hunter, Joan -
Healing the Heart NEW - with Joan Hunter - Part 2
-
7/1/2015 regarding broken hearts & sex outside of current marriage.
Hunter,
Joan -
Healing the Whole Man with Joan Hunter
10/12/2015 +
Healing the Heart with Joan Hunter
10/13/2015
In addition to loosing from oneself any premarital sexual soul-ties, one can
renounce & break off oneself,
all past marriage-covenant negatives, in Jesus' name.
(Notice apt
testimony at end of 2nd program.)
Kerr,
Kat - CD - Passionate Power –
www.revealingheaven.org
-
Especially for those aged 40-70.
Kat's divorce seems to
“excuse, annul, exempt her vows or provide a spiritual loop hole":
Kat’ divorce exemption from 1st marriage seems to be due to following main
reasons:
1-Repentance
2-New realignment with God regarding His original plan or 1st
choice for her regarding:
A. her spiritual purpose/assignment/destiny for being placed on earth
(which seems to take precedence over
anything else)
B. Children she was suppose to birth with the mate of His choosing
C. her consistent 40 year pursuit of the Trinity all night, with 4
hours sleep at dawn & 1 meal per day
D. No kids by prior mate.
E. Her 2nd mate was (apparently) single/available & God’s choice
F. 1st marriage was a contract rather than a spiritual covenant,
aligning/originating with God's perspective
G. Kat was in her 20's at time of divorce & remarriage.
Kolenda, Daniel - Live Before You Die -
chapter 20 How Do I Stay In the Will of God? -
http://www.amazon.com/Live-Before-You-Die-God%C2%92s/dp/1616387165#reader_1616387165
"A couple has just gotten married. They are so in love & can't
spend enough time together. But a few years later a radical transformation
has taken place. They hate each other & want a divorce.
You ask, 'How did this happen?'
I'll tell you how it happened. It
happened one pea patch at a time...
(King) Solomon wrote,
'[It's] the little foxes that spoil the vines' (Song of Solomon 2:15
NKJV)...
A little bit of dishonesty here, a little bit of disrespect there, a hurtful
word, a transgression un-forgiven;
soon a root of bitterness sets in, & before long the enemy has successfully
established a stronghold in that couple's relationship. From that
compromised zone, he will continue to assault their marriage until he has razed
it to the ground. Having integrity means minding the small things & being as vigilant over them as over the big things...
If we can defend even
the smallest,
most insignificant pea patches in our lives,
the enemy will not be able to gain
a foothold...Be constantly aiming to raise our personal standards to be more like
Jesus...Jesus said lust is adultery.
Jesus understood that murder grows from the seed of hatred, & adultery grows
from the seed of lust...
Crush the seeds of sin before they are planted, than to have to try to chop down
a giant redwood...
Whatever weakens your reason, impairs the tenderness of your conscience,
obscures your sense of God, & takes off the relish of spiritual things, that to you is sin."
Martin,
Cheryl -
Monday, June 19, 2017
Distinctly You @
http://lifetoday.org/video/
Meyer, Joyce - 11/4/2011 -
http://www.joycemeyer.org/BroadcastHome.aspxvideo=How_Do_I_Make_This_Relationship_Work?
@
http://www.joycemeyer.org/broadcasthome.aspx?myVar=1
Praying Medic
What Did Jesus Teach About Divorce and Remarriage?
Roberts, Sarah Jakes -
http://lifetoday.org/video/overcoming-shame/ Daughter of T D Jakes
had child at age 14 + divorced before becoming pastor's wife
(Autobiography.)
Roth, Sid with DuVall, Janie
11/2-8/2009 -
God told Sid that He hated divorce and to return to his
wife!
http://www.sidroth.org/site/News2?abbr=tv_&page=NewsArticle&id=8783&security=1041&news_iv_ctrl=-1
Savard, Liberty -
DIVORCE
AND REMARRIAGE @
http://www.libertysavard.com/keys_difficult_issues.html
Shepherd, Sheri Rose -
http://biblelifecoaching.com/about-sheri-rose/
-
http://store.hisprincess.com/Online-Coaching-c17/
7/30/2013
http://lifetoday.org/video/devastation-and-restoration/
Smith, Pat - 6/27/2016 -
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/life-today/pat-smith-second-chances-537978-full.html
God spoke to her twice, once to leave with her daughter, which turned out to be
a permanent move. She has since remarried.
Attorney and psychologist, Paris M.
Finner-
Williams
Chapter 7
Divorce Recovery:
Grief and Loss
Paris
M
Husband,
Robert
D.
Williams,
is a clinical psychiatric social worker
Waller, John - The
Love Dare is a 40 day challenge for husbands & wives
considering separation &/or divorce.
Watch & listen to song used in
Fireproof by
clicking here. @
http://www.newreleasetuesday.com/article.php?article_id=196#
Wommack, Andrew - The Effects of Praise -
http://s3.awmi.net/downloads/tv/2015/03mar/awm_tv20150310.wmv
3/10/2015 -
from 2 week series -
Week 10
+
Week 11
- Video’s Last 10 minutes:
shares importance of going overseas to 3rd world country as a
youth to help prevent self-absorption/centeredness in one’s life…
Following part shares how divorce is often from same character defect of the
me/myself/I focus.
Excellent testimony of husband’s conversation with God which prevented a
divorce.
God required husband to daily find & praise one item about mate. At
end of 2 weeks, pastor was shocked to realize/recognize that instead of 1 of the worst mates, he had one of the best mates.
https://writeousrhema.wordpress.com/2012/06/24/chess-spiritual-warfare-when-satan-tries-to-checkmate-your-soul/
- 6/24/2012
Chess is also game about territory...Satan will sometimes present opportunities that look like a good move, only
for you to
find out later that that move only opened the door to demonic attack.
An example is
this: Let’s say a woman divorces her husband, because he recently lost his
job & also is no longer pleasing her in the bedroom. So Satan makes
her think divorce is a good move. So then weeks later, she sees a handsome
man who sweeps her off her feet &
who is good in bed. So she moves him into her home. Let’s say that man
then convinces the
wife/mother to work a late shift from 4pm-11pm. So
he is left alone to watch the children.
Then he begins to molest
her young daughter for the next 10 years."
Demonic Spirits
Deut. 22:20-21 + Num. 5:27 -
Adulterous women loose demons of adultery on their children along with all the
shame, insecurity, hurt, sickness, & tendency to be a victim.
Deut. 22:22-27 + Lev. 20:10 - Adulterous men loose demons of adultery on
their children the same as women along with tendency to be cruel.
@
http://seekhisface.com/VOICES/Deliverance%20Manuals/Moody/sex1.htm
Acts 16:16-18 JNT - 16We were met by
a slave girl who had in (side) her a (divination) snake-spirit that enabled her
to predict the future. She earned a lot of money for her owners by telling
fortunes. 17This girl followed behind Shaul (Paul) and
the rest of us, &
kept screaming, "These men are servants of God Ha'Elyon. They are telling
you how
to be saved." 18She kept this up day after day,
until Shaul, greatly disturbed, turned & said to the (evil) spirit, "In the name of Yeshua
the Messiah, I order you to come out of her." The (demonic) spirit did come
out, at the very moment. [Spiritual insight: The presence of the Holy Spirit dwelling in a believer of
Yeshua
can stir up/agitate/terrorize any evil/demon residing in or oppressing
non believers.
The presence of the Trinity in a clergyman
(rabbi/priest/pastor/minister) can trigger a psychotic episode (demonic
manifestation) in an infested/unstable/demonized person/patient.
Thus it would be wise PRIOR to marriage and right after engagement for the
couple to include individual exorcism as part of one's pre-marriage counseling,
as well as each renewing his/her salvation & baptismal (both water & Holy
Spirit) vows/consecrations/covenants with God. In fact, this spiritual (&
marriage) tune up should be scheduled regularly, in the same manner 1 would
schedule an auto mechanic, accountant, lawyer, doctor or dentist, especially
since demons seem to run in families (pacts/flocks/herds/ ancestry) & in
locations (homes/objects/antiques/institutions). Thus, certain occult
objects & souvenirs should not only be rejected & repented of,
but
also destroyed, burned, rather than gifted or recycled.]
Collins -
https://ofm6z46z825qpxk83fa00q1a-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/IS932Transcript_Collins.pdf
- Soul Ties
- 12/4/2017
HAKEEM: Well a soul tie is basically mutual bonding, knitting or tie of the
soul (emotions/mind/will).
It has to be 2 parties that are coming together
in agreement.
A soul tie can also be something financial.
You can have a financial soul
tie.
Soul ties are established verbally, contractually.
SID: When I hear that someone had an intimate
relationship before they were married & they say,
"Well I guess it's over", that (old-relationship) can
(still) be affecting
(unbeknown to) them even today.
HAKEEM: Exactly. You know, a sexual encounter can establish a soul tie.
Biblically when we think about a covenant, a (spiritual) legal soul tie
is established by a man and a woman in marriage. But there are those who have
been in past relationships who may have moved on to a new relationship &
they're feeling the effects or the
trauma from that past 1, even though they have a new 1. Sometimes we have to
break, sever (& loose) those pasts or even present soul ties & soul
agreements because they had impacted our lives now. There are those who
are now in new relationships that are affected by hurt, abuse, verbal abuse, all
those things that have happened because of what is established in the past.
SID: Unless you know how to break that cycle you're in trouble. Another thing
the Bible talks specifically about how bad a sexual sin outside of marriage
is.
It's so bad, because you become one with that partner & every demon
they have, (still)
has legal access to enter you
(until you
repent/renounce/reject/return soul layer back to lover + take back one’s own
soul layer formerly given to/traded/exchanged with former lover – in prayer). It's not that God is trying to hurt you. He's trying to help you, by letting
you know this.
Demons in Intertestamental
Literature, Including the Dead Sea Scrolls
-
http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/judaica/ejud_0002_0005_0_05094.html
-
"Mastemah, which as a common noun means approximately 'enmity, opposition' in
Hosea 9:7, 8 & in some passages in the 5 Scrolls, is a demon 'Prince Mastemah'
in Jubilees (11:5, 11; 17:16; et al.), & perhaps also in the Damascus Document
(16:5).
Watchers (Aram. ʿirin) are a type of angel mentioned in Daniel 4:10,
14, 20. To this class the inter-testamental literature assigns the angels who,
according to Genesis 6:2, 4, cohabited with women before the flood & fathered
the race of giants (Test. Patr., Reu. 5:6–7; Test. Patr., Napht. 3:5; cf.
Genesis Apocryphon, ii 2:1, 16).
*Asmodeus (Tobit
3:8, 17) is a demon who had slain the 1st 7 husbands of Sarah,
who becomes the
wife of Tobias son of Tobit."
Hagee, John - 10/5/2015
http://lifetoday.org/video/the-three-heavens/
source http://lifetoday.org/
Watching the Exorcist
movie was an open door for demonic oppression & subsequent psychiatric treatment
for 1 of John Hagee's congregants.
Transcript @
http://lifetoday.org/assets/files/10-05-15e-Hagee1.pdf (edited)
Dr. Hagee:
There is a very real devil.
It was a very real devil that came into the Garden of Eden to seduce Adam &
Eve.
It was a very real devil that tempted Jesus in the wilderness. He is still in
business.
He goes to church every Sunday. If you don't know how to recognize him & take authority over him
he'll destroy your: life, marriage,
children, church, hopes, dreams...
There was a young lady in my church that
went to see The Exorcist. Now this was years ago. But she went home
from that Saturday afternoon movie & told her mother,
"Something (evil) entered me today while I was
watching this movie & it changed me." The mother just thought, she is
an 18-year-old girl; she is just emotional. The next day they came to church.
I'm preaching on the blood of Jesus Christ & the
power of the cross. About 10 minutes deep in my sermon, I hear this
moaning in the back of the church on the right side. "Whoo." It was louder
than my microphone. So I had to stop. I asked the elders to go and take her to
the counseling room to pray with her. Donna also went with her. This girl
was 18 years old, an honor student in school, Hollywood pretty. She was a
beautiful girl. Her dad was a psychiatrist. They went into the counseling room &
after the sermon I went back and talked with the parents & said, "I believe that
your daughter has a demonic spirit." It angered them, especially her
father who was a psychiatrist. I said, "Would you like for me to pray for
her?" He said, "Absolutely not." I said, "Well, you are the spiritual
authority of that girl. I certainly am not going to countermand that, so I will
not." They left & I never heard from the family again only to know as she had
been placed into psychiatric care & had not been delivered years later from that problem.
Holliday,Pat -
SEXUAL MAGIC~ INCUBUS, SUCCUBI ~ ASMODEUS, OSMODEUS
- marriage breaking spirits - 2/5/2008 -
http://www.injesus.com/message-archives/church-and-ministry/drpatholliday/sexual-magic-new-book
- "Marriage Breaking Spirits are called Asmodeus, Osmodeus, Abaddon, Apollyon &
Beelzebub. These ruler spirits cause rejection, divorce & overpowering
tendencies to rage, lust, impetuousness, impurity & psychic activities. Due to wide-spread pornographic material, many force their spouses into sexual
perversions, leading the mate into deviate sex."
https://jeremiahjohnson.tv/blogs/news/leviathan-and-broken-kingdom-marriages-october-11th-2020
- Hanukkah -
“The spirit of leviathan visited me last night
in my sleep & manifested itself as a 'marriage covenant breaking' spirit.
I specifically began to confront & wrestle with it in Miami, FL where it had a
stronghold & then Texas, & somewhere in the Midwest. It was pointing a large
finger at a woman calling her a Jezebel but was actually blinded by a
delusional spirit of pride & lust for mammon.
This
leviathan spirit revealed to me that it has several special assigments before
2020 is over to break covenant marriage among key leaders in the body of Christ.
It will manifest as pride & a love of money that will falsely accuse a
spouse of operating in a Jezebel spirit. Intercessors & prophets-
When I inquired of the Lord if we have authority to break its grip, He
said, 'Yes' & that this spirit was specifically assigned to
take out several key apostles before 2020 is over. We must pray for
humility & a spirit of repentance to grip marriages. Let’s stand on guard & in
agreement to cancel these demonic assignments in Jesus name.”
Kelley, Earthquake -
book #1122 "Bound to Lose, Destined to Win"
http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/
Chapter 12 Gateway to Hell - When "a pedophile...possessed with this
(hydra) spirit...attack(s)...(a)...child; unless she accepts Christ & receives
deliverance, she will likely suffer with multiple personalities when she grows
up" due to transference of the hydra spirit. "Incubus & succubus are 2 demonic spirits that rape people."
They do not need bodies, so if you recognize (perceive) 1, rebuke,
"command it
to leave in Jesus' name."
http://newbreedmovement.wordpress.com/a12-prayer-to-remove-defilement-in-marriage/
(edited)
Marriage Restoration prayers -
Deliverance
2: Prayer to Remove Iniquity/Demonic/Curses in Marriage:
Repentance Prayer (Deal with the Roots of Iniquity 1st):
"Father God (in Jesus' name, blood, resurrection power):
I repent for submitting to (any) spirit of the lust of the flesh
(to) meet my needs selfishly.
I also forgive my spouse for doing this, &
release him/her from the bondage I
held him/her in.
I declare the Light of the Word of God into the root iniquity of meeting
selfish needs.
I invite You Holy Spirit to flood that
place with the Light of Jesus Christ.
I repent for submitting to the spirit of the lust of the (5 senses)
eyes (appetite, touch, smell, sound).
I repent for separating from the
(holy) counsel of others.
I also forgive my spouse for doing this.
I release him/her from the bondage I
held them in.
I declare the Light of the Word of God into the root iniquity
of separating from the counsel of others.
I invite You
Holy Spirit to flood that place with the Light of Jesus Christ.
I
repent for submitting to the spirit of pride, & exchanging Godly
Wisdom for the wisdom of the world.
I also forgive my spouse for doing this, &
release him/her from any bondage I
held them in.
I declare the Light of the Word of God into the root iniquity
of meeting selfish needs.
I invite You Holy Spirit to flood that place with the Light of Jesus
Christ.
I bind the
strongman of deception.
I command all devouring (evil)
spirits of lust & pride to leave me, my spouse and children & to go under Jesus' feet.
I declare my marriage Holy to the Lord.
I invite You Holy Spirit to flood my marriage with the Light of the Truth of the
Word of God.
I now seal the perimeters of my family with the sanctifying Blood of Jesus
Christ Amen.
Prayer for cleansing of the substances of the curses :
"Father God (in Jesus' name, blood, resurrection power):
I break all remnants of the substance of disorder, disharmony &
disunity.
I break the substance from me, my spouse & children.
I command a breaking of all bondage & a loosing of all the besetting sins."
Prayer for the Cleansing of the Human Spirit 3rd:
"Father God (in Jesus' name, blood, resurrection power):
I now bring my spirit, & the spirits of my spouse & children to You Father
God.
I invite your Light to shine upon us & bring the blessing to us.
I now allow You to remove all shards of the substance of the curse
from
every portion of our spirits. AMEN."
Maria de Lange,
Susanna Francina -
http://stclements.edu/grad/gradsusanna.pdf -
Chapter 3 -
4.5.7 ASMODEE/ASMODEUS
"This power is called the 'stinker'. He appears
as a fat smelling demonic tall 'man' with web-like wings.
He is responsible for
the spirit of Jezebel & work closely with Baal.
He joins people in
spiritual marriages
in covenants with Satan & the power of darkness. He is
involved with sexual immorality & works
closely with the Prince of the
East (Abaddon).
Some of Asmodee’s work areas involve the following:
1.Prostitution.
2.Sexual perversion (Homosexuals, Lesbianism, Incest, Masturbation, Bestiality).
3.Bareness of the womb.
4.Dissatisfaction in marriage.
5.Repeated divorces (Lesbos causes confusion in sexual identity of the
bloodline).
6.Miscarriages and the death of children (Astarte – death of children in uterus;
Molech (death of the 1st born) & Dagon (sacrifice of the placenta as a
burnt offering to Satan), Leviathan (abortion of children in the womb & in
real life).
7.Asmodee causes dreams involving the sexual demons: incubus & succubus.
People who are sexually involved with them should renounce their
(spiritual/legal) wedding vows to these devils. Dr Holliday reveals in her book
Marriage and Sex
that the ruling spirits over the destroying of marriage are Asmodeus & Osmodeus.
These marriage breaking spirits (responsible for divorce), also cause rejection
of sexual genders which ends in lesbianism &
homosexuality.
Marine is the head of all the water spirits. Leviathan is also a ruler of the
water spirits.
Other characteristics of these water or Marine spirits are overpowering
tendencies such as rage, lust, impetuousness, impurity & psychic activities.
Asmodeus & Osmodeus, he is sometimes referred to as “the genius of matrimonial
discord & jealousy.” Sexual demons are prevalent in our
world, because of constant exposure through entertainment, movies, television,
magazines, books, etc."
Murdock, Mike -
https://www.slideshare.net/k24s3/whattodowhenyourhomeisfallingapart-mike-murdock
Ntia, -
http://www.yourepeat.com/watch/?v=SNxpvTbr1y4 -
Marriage Healing Prayer re
damaged emotions, abandonment, rejection, isolation - @
http://www.yourepeat.com/g/MarineSpirits -
(Excellent unless/until site
crashes. May want to pray over site 1st.)
Poyser, Fern -
Incubus and Succubus evil spirits -
http://www.refugeofrighteousness.com/articles
Worley, Win - Marriage Breaking Spirits -
http://jesusdelivers.com/index.php/marriage-breaking-spirits
From Demolishing the Hosts of Hell - Every Christian's Job, by Win
Worley (Page 6,7&8) WRW Publications.-
"When I demanded that the (demonic) ruler of Oral Sex manifest,
a cackling laugh came forth. He informed me that he was an exceedingly
powerful spirit & had had this 'fool' for all these years & by
no means would he come out.
He declared that he and (an evil spirit of)
Homosexuality had this 'stupid bastard' bound & they would never release
him...
I even arranged for him to have a gay roommate in the service & had guys
approach him at work...For years we had him hooked good on Masturbation
and
tortured him regularly with that...Deliverance eventually dislodged them. Oral Sex spirits
lodge in the lips, tongue, taste buds, jaws, mouth &
the throat.
They are also in the sex organs. After dealing with many spirits
of perversion, we know that they can enter through the eyes, the ears or
participation, active or passive.
In one case, a friend of mine was
delivering a woman who had been introduced & forced into oral sex by an uncle when she was
only 5-6 years of age. As she grew up she continued this with her dates. At
her deliverance large gobs of slimy material
were vomited which reeked
with the strong odor of male semen."
Spirit Wife And Spirit Husband
-
extracted from Dr. Itiola's book A Woman's worst Nightmare
http://www.deliveranceplace.com/cages.html
- Biship Olu Itiola,
Dubai UAE
Enabler
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=enabler
- Rather than risk losing the love, respect, friendship or contact with the
person, the enabler chooses instead to play it safe & watch the other slowly destroy
themselves or others through their own actions.
False Submission
http://biblehub.com/1_peter/3-7.htm
- not submission but tenderness -
Aramaic Bible
in Plain English - You
men, in this way dwell with your wives by knowledge, & hold them in
honor as weaker vessels,
lest you be subverted in your prayers, because they also inherit the gift of
eternal life with you.
(Refer to the numerous translations.)
Brian Simmons
-
http://d3tnb2mam8l2qt.cloudfront.net/sites/default/files/IS790aTranscript_Simmons.pdf
2/2/2015
SID: Brian Simmons was telling
me...revelations he got in translating the Bible about women. Tell me 1.
BRIAN: Well there is a well-worn verse in the Bibles of many men that have
used this verse & have hurt people, because of possibly a mistranslation, &
it's
Ephesians 5:22,
"Wives submit yourselves unto your husband as unto the
Lord."
BRIAN: That's a pretty daunting command. But the Aramaic language, again,
Jesus spoke in Aramaic.
He taught it in Aramaic.
The apostles taught in Aramaic as well. The Aramaic text is,
"Wives be tenderly
devoted to your husband as the church is tenderly devoted to Christ."
Walters, Kathie -
SUBMISSIVE SPIRIT? - 15
minute mini video -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z95qaDvmQL8 12/27/2014
Rebellion can be submission to men/mate/counselor/pastor/MD
rather than obeying God.
Walters, Kathie - 1/14/2015 -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImxtTor5Row - "Do you realize that the Holy
Spirit requires your first loyalty above anyone or anything else. He is
the Spirit of Truth. He is your life line. In the end God is going to ask YOU,
'What
did you do with the anointing I put in your life?' Jesus is going to
present you faultless.
No one else is able to do that. You're His
trophy."
Fight Fair
FIGHT for your marriage, even if no one
else does. God hates divorce.
If necessary, get a 3rd impartial
person/couple or counselor to help.
Even Moses needed
help, others to hold up his arms during time of war.
King David fasted daily as long as his dying son
lived. Only when his son died, did he stop fasting.
Then he ate
and praised God Who gives & takes away.
Everyone else thought him odd, for
they were in mourning after and not before the death.
Bevere, Lisa - Fight Fair -
Joni – Marriage Free Chat – Lisa Bevere (J985)
- 6/18/2013 @
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/
Hugh, (astronaut) Ross -
http://www.reasons.org/ - videos @
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/joni-guests/dr-hugh-ross/
3/17/15 program shares that correct translation for bride is military ally
against Satan, making a marriage savable and worth fighting for.
http://www.marriagementoring.com/mmacademy
Salem, Harry & Cheryl -
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/harry-cheryl-salem/
videos
www.salemfamilyministries.org - Cathedral City,
California, USA -
Prayer
for Restoration
Articles @
http://salemfamilyministries.org/category/blog/ - E-Books:
Two Becoming One #1 (They
discovered that coming into agreement in advance disallows their blaming
each other afterwards.).+
Don't Kill Each Other Let God Do It! EBook #2
+
a-bright-shining-place-ebook "is the true story of Cheryl Salem's life &
what she overcame to walk the runway to become Miss America 1980, despite what
appeared to be all odds stacked against her. A horrific car crash resulting in a
physical handicap & over 100 stitches in her face were no match for what God
had planned for her life.
Through simple, childlike faith in Him, she overcame the obstacles &
eventually took the crown in Atlantic City."
(She had additional numerous physical injuries, all which were reversed over
time.)
Kerry Shook:
Love and War - To tear down spouse is to tear down oneself, as the 2 are
l. A miserable (tempoary) truth leaking out during a time of duress, may
provide an open door to fight fair. Wars/skirmishes often create smoke
screens that cover up real issues, which need to be comprehended by mate.
Repeat back to partner what you think mate is experiencing/feeling, to have him
confirm your understanding of his dilemma. Identify real enemy is spiritual:
satan.
Marriage begins with delight, progresses to disallusion/difficulty &
can proceed to destruction/death without fighting & then fighting fair.
Kerry Shook:
I Love You, But I Can't Stand You!
Kerry Shook:
The Purpose and Power of Family @
Woodlands Church with Kerry Shook
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/War_Room_%28film%29
Movie encourages mate to fight/pray for mate.
Humor
Gungor, Mark - 2/7/2017 -
http://lifetoday.org/video/how-to-treat-your-man/
Book Treat Him Like A Dog uses humorous
analogies to highlight amazing truths about marital relationships.
Indipendent/Selfish/Self/sufficient.
It's all about me/myself/I.
Trim, Cindy - 11/12/2018 - Hello
Tomorrow (book especially for career women)
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=5966505770001
or
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=5972662114001
(You might also like)
Intimacy
Recommended things to do:
1-Pray
over one's bedroom, even
Anoint it with oil &/or
2-Put a mezuzah on the (house and/or bedroom) door frame.
3-Pray
over one's bed, even anoint it with oil &/or the blood of Christ.
For a
woman, this can be quite easy to do when she is making the bed each morning.
4-Bind any evil & loose any evil, forbidding evil to enter.
Go throughout the room & the house and destroy anything which
might contain any demonic/evil,
unless
you do not own the object & will
not be able to get permission to toss it. Then at least remove it to the
garage.
Otherwise, bind any evil/harmful influence & forbid it to
interfere with your family,
in the name of Jesus.
10 Minutes with Ted (Campbell) &
Tina's - Date Night for married couples -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V79c-zO9cEA -
http://www.teddyandtina.org/web-series/
Gary D Chapman - chapter 1
online
http://www.amazon.com/The-Five-Love-Languages-Audio/dp/1881273377/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_y#reader_1881273377
-
Cho, Rev David
Yonggi - Korea -
http://english.fgtv.com/drcho/main.asp
+
http://english.fgtv.com/yfgc.pdf
Books
= Successful Home Cell Groups -
Chapter
2 God's Reeducation Program says that God explained to Cho,
"Think of a marriage...When a man marries a
woman, he...loves her & shares his life with her
- intimately.
That is the kind of relationship you are to have with the Holy Spirit."
Dillow, Linda & Pintus, Lorraine -
http://www.intimateissues.com/?page_id=279
Video -
http://www.intimateissues.com/?page_id=442
DuArt, Rushnell & Louise -
http://lifetoday.org/video/the-40-day-prayer-challenge/ 1/17/2017 - Praying
together enhances couple intimacy.
Misty
Edwards
-
July 20,
2013
· "
Our
hearts are
partially
formed in
our
childhood &
sometime the
cement dries
with unseen
cracks that
you don't
discover
until you
trip on
them. In an
attempt to
avoid 'naval
gazing' we
cannot
neglect the
fault lines
but the Holy
Spirit wants
to bring
healing. He
continues to
fashion our
hearts &
desires to
change some
of our
childhood
conclusions,
breaking
some of our
invisible
inner vows.
I’ve never
really
thought much
about inner
healing,
but
as I pursue
a life of
deep prayer
I realize
how eager
the
Father
is to heal
my heart
so
that I can
enjoy the
conversation
with Him
unhindered."
Eggerichs
-
Joni – Love and Respect – Family – Emerson Eggerichs
(J1364)
5/12/14 +
Eggerichs -
Joni – Love and Respect – Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
(J1363)
5/13/2014
Comprehending & meeting our mate's unspoken expectations.
Evans,
Jim and
Karen -
http://www.marriagetoday.com/television/latest-videos/
or
https://marriagetoday.com/latest-tv-episodes/
+
https://marriagetoday.com/category/communication-needs/?show-episodes
scroll down
to view
choices
regarding
Series:
Return to
Intimacy
1/27/2016
http://www.marriagetoday.com/when-your-spouse-complains/
-
discusses
communication
Inner
Healing -
www.21dayjourney.com
(1 year
subscription/access)
Inner
Healing #1
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=4100709440001
Inner
Healing #2
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=4208847225001
Daily, Jim
invites Holy
Spirit into
his marriage
relationship.
He asked God
to enlighten
him how to
love his
mate.
God did,
immediately,
saving him
from
impending
divorce.
@
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/jimmy-evans/
or
http://www.jonilamb.com/videos/
Evans,
Jim and
Karen -
Editorial
http://marriagetoday.com/
marriagehelp/why-you-cant-resolve-your-conflicts/
@
www.marriagetoday.com
http://marriagetoday.com/marriagehelp/why-you-cant-resolve-your-conflicts/
Understand
the
difference
between
complaining
and
criticizing.
When we
complain, we
must
remember
that it is
NOT
about our
spouse, it
is about us.
All of us
need the
freedom to
complain to
our spouse.
We also need
to make sure
our spouse
knows they
have the
right to
complain to
us.
In a healthy
marriage,
there is a
freedom of
expression
that allows
us to talk
openly
without fear
of
retribution
or shame
(+ to talk
safely + to
talk out of
earshot of
children, so
as not to
traumatize
them).
Video @
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/jimmy-evans/
4/15/2016
Daily, Jim
invites Holy
Spirit into
his marriage
relationship.
He asked God
to enlighten
him how to
love his
mate.
God did,
immediately,
saving him
from
impending
divorce.
Prior to
that, it was
all about
me, myself & I,
+ licking
soul wounds,
many
incurred
prior to
marriage.
Gray, John -
http://askmarsvenus.com/Article.php?id=183
John Gray -
http://www.amazon.com/Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Understanding/dp/B0000546PE
very short AUDIO
http://www.amazon.com/Men-From-Mars-Women-Venus/dp/006123205X#reader_006123205X
introduction + chapter 1 online
FULL BOOK @
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&frm=1&source=web&cd=7&ved=0CEUQFjAG&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpauladaunt.com%2Fbooks%2FJohn%2520Gray%2520-%2520Men%2520are%2520from%2520Mars%2C%2520Women%2520are%2520from%2520Venus%2520%2528v2.0%2529.rtf
John Gray - Men are from Mars, Women are
from Venus
(v2)
FULL BOOK
Gray, John -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qo1isqP7G0
- Interview with John Gray about book
Why Mars And Venus Collide". -
1/19/2009 - “Why
men need their cave time and women need to talk about emotions." (A movie person might initially prefer above web link
with related VIDEOs that might give insight to negative relationship
interactions)
Hegstrom, Paul - The
Brain & the Spoken Word DVD#2 -
www.lifesillsintl.org -
Aurora, Colorado, USA -
Sometimes if the parents do not bond in their marriage they will
(unwittingly/incorrectly/ harmfully)
attempt to bond with the child of the
opposite sex to make up for the lack of intimacy in the marriage.
The
daughter of such a mistaken/misapplied alliance may seek out and marry an older
man to meet her unmet fathering needs & to duplicate her dad who doted on her.
(Psychiatrist Freud loved to blame bad parenting as the cause of most
sins/sexual dysfunctions of the children.)
Kerr,
Kat -
http://www.xpmedia.com/access/10342/video/passionate-power
or
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzLrGVB99Pw @
Csaba N Eva Gegeny 2/1/2013
Love not
lust.
Complete each other, not compete.
Regular healthy intercourse with mate is war against satan not mate.
Kerr,
Kat - CD# 2 - Warning, Heaven Rocks - 2010 –
www.revealingheaven.org -
regarding Passionate Power in Marriage - Consistently/regularly
accommodating one’s mate due to holy healthy sexual love empowers the other,
like refueling the gas tank. Passion in marriage is a + & can empower a mate to blossom,
to be superior
rather than nominal.
(Obviously we are NOT endorsing violence.)
If
the power does not go out the supply does not come in = spiritual rule of supply
& demand
regarding marital physical relationship as well as provision.
Marital sexual love life can be a barometer/ thermometer of relationship/provision.
[CAUTION:
Consistent selfish lust degrades & enslaves & is NOT holy, healthy, or healing.
Our love for our mate is to begin a revelation of God's love for us & through us
for His creation. In heaven, God will step inside of us & look out of our eyes;
likewise, we
will step inside Him.]
Kerr,
Kat - CD - Passionate Power –
www.revealingheaven.org
- Especially for those aged 40-70. - We can tell our
man that if he makes us feel like a princess, we will make him feel like a
prince regarding their attitude/ speech towards us. Even though Kat was
was born again, she married her choice instead of God's choice in her 1st
marriage of 6 years. She had to apologize to both mate & God. A contract is secular; a covenant is where God is involved.
If we are unhappily married, God may
want us to stay put; He can restore/reprogram our hearts &
marriages.
[Seems 2 reasons Kat was permitted to switch mates were: her
predesigned (1) destiny and (2) seed.] Wife give/refill/empower mate (a minimum)
2 hours, 1 day a week (of his choice) to focus solely on him. Sexual
inter-course is spiritual warfare that empowers/supplies our
communications/ relationships/finances. During forthcoming time/season of
baptism of fire, which is a foretaste of God's love, electricity will shoot
between married couples. Love is God's weapon, whereas lust is Satan's
weapon. Both contain power, one positive, the other negative.
Spiritually, usually mates have more prayer power over each other than
intercessors; generally, family members have more power for each other than
intercessors. We need to avail ourselves of that power. One thing we
need to daily request & receive (like manna in the Old Testament)
is heavenly grace.
Frequent family confessions also apply: "We declare you will become a
mighty person of God;
you will not miss your destiny;
you will become a living testimony to the saving
grace of Jesus Christ."
Beware, consistent negative confessions cancel these decrees.
Lane, Tom and Jane -
Uncovering the
Passive Man
http://tomandjanlane.com/sample.html or
http://tomandjanlane.com/StrongWomen-Sample.pdf
MacNutt, Francis -
http://www.christianinnerhealing.org/inner-vows -
Parrot, Les & Leslie -
https://www.lesandleslie.com/devotions/ editorials +
Parrot -
https://www.lesandleslie.com/video-library/ Intimacy and
relationships, both emotional and physical.
Parrot - Another resourse
https://www.lesandleslie.com/assessments/ +
Parrot -
https://www.amazon.com/Love-Like-That-Relationship-Secrets/dp/1400207819
Parrot -
https://www.biblegateway.com/blog/2017/05/your-marriage-vows-in-sickness-and-in-health/
Sandford, John L & Paula - Growing Pains -
part of the Transformation series
dealing with the inner child from the time of
conception - www.elijahhouse.org -
Chapter 6 Breaking Childhood Inner Vows - is a bit
Freudian, but nonetheless in many cases exposes & shows us how to eliminate the
root cause of many intimacy issues due to one's ongoing bad habit of secrecy
begun in the home due to rejection & rebellion
against parental/family/teacher
ineptness/control/manipulation. Isolation and secrecy is often
an
'unconscious' method of behavior; invite the Holy Spirit to expose any area (one
at a time)
that needs His ministry. recommended
read especially regarding prayer therapy
(http://www.healmylife.com/articles/inner%20healing/listen%20to%20god.html)
Sandford, John L & Paula -
Trauma -
http://files.streamsministries.com/website_pdf_info/ElijahHouse_HealingTrauma_StudyGuide.pdf
Sandford, John L & Paula -
http://www.prayercounselling.com/
counselling/introduction.php -
has some
excellent links/editorials
The Richest Man Who Ever Lived - with Steven Scott - 7/6/2015
or
The Richest Man Who Ever Lived with Steven Scott
- 10/19/2015 - Repeat but good
Steven Scott
video regarding book of Proverbs:
1st half about success in $/provision/school/competitions +
2nd half about success in marriage relationships
Twersky, Isadore -
A Maimonides
reader - Google -
Jewish insights through the eyes of Rabbi Maimonides - pg
121
Forbidden Intercourse
Weiss, Doug of Santa Ana, California, USA -
Intimacy - www.winning@marriage.com
Weiss, Doug (psychologist) -
http://www.sexaddict.com/ -
http://www.intimatematters.com/
-
3-Day Intensives &
Telephone Counseling Colorado Springs, Colorado
Weiss, Doug
- 11/21/2011 -
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/joni-miracle-of-marriage-doug-weiss-j856/
Iniquity
Maria de Lange, Susanna Francina -
http://stclements.edu/grad/gradsusanna.pdf -
Chapter 4:
Iniquity, the Root of all Evil, the Seat of the Great Prostitute -
4.6.2 THE REIGN of GOD THROUGH
RIGHTEOUSNESS
VERSUS the REIGN of SATAN through INIQUITY -
"In an extra-ordinary way, reveals John Klein & Adam Spears the
covenantal processes with its meanings from the Bible. God established 7
PATRIARCHAL Covenants with His people, which can be divided into 4
Covenant Types...
Satan as an imitator duplicates everything of God as a counterfeit for his
demonic kingdom, including covenants & covenant types. Sin is progressive &
could be seen as covenantal processes with the EVIL-One...Humanity actually
handed God a divorce & cut a covenant with Satan, receiving his 1st
down-payment of covenant-ship with Satan as a sinful depraved nature out of
which all transgression & sin derives. The everlasting covenant with Satan
will be revealed as to be with him in his kingdom of darkness as his bride
(companion)."
4.6.3.4 THE 4TH COUNTERFEIT COVENANT
TYPE:
BETROTHAL COVENANT with SATAN (HYROS GAMOS) -
"The deepest level of covenant is the bridal relationship."
In Law - Out Law Issues
Daughter/Son + Father/Mother In Love
Walsh, Sheila
http://lifetoday.org/video/overcoming-disappointment/
1/25/2017
Mother in-law issues.
Perseverance/Resiliency
Kent,
Carol – 4/21/2020 -
https://lifetoday.org/video/staying-power/
for marriage resiliency
Kent,
Carol –
https://lifetoday.org/assets/files/4-21-20e-Kent.pdf
Transcript (edited)
Carol: Our marriage got hit with what we felt was the
worst crisis that could ever happen. I know there are so many couples who due to
a child born with a disability or financial stress or they're caring for an
aging parent or they have a child struggling with gender issues, & they are
struggle in so many ways, maybe with a drug addicted child or an incarcerated
loved one, maybe a health issue or an accident that has totally changed the rest
of their lives. They say, "Is our marriage going to survive this?"
We started to realize that there are a whole lot of marriages out there
that are "okay," maybe even "pretty good" but when they get hit with a crisis,
how can they make choices that will wind up strengthening & building that
marriage instead of allowing it to crumble & end in divorce.
Carol:
If we are not in this struggle together, we are already dead on the vine
in terms of emotional closeness. We started as a couple to minister to each
other. Gene did that. He knew my heart was hurting so much. He brought me coffee
in bed every morning. Sometimes we couldn't even speak because we were in so
much pain. He would bring me that cup of coffee, and then he would put his hand
on my arm, or he would rub my feet, which is a real gift. Without words he was
saying, "Honey, I love you. I know this pain is unspeakable but we're going to
make it because we're in it together." So that was a huge thing.
To any couple out there struggling, make the decision to be not doing
this your own way, hurting in your own private way, do it together. You will
discover that it will help a lot.
Carol: It's in the little
things. It's in those tiny little things. He knew it was very hard for me to
handle the calls from relatives and friends because we have a lot of dear people
in our lives & it would take an hour to explain everything that happened
because they loved our son too. He knew that would absolutely leave me, not only
in tears but a mess on the floor. So he would take those calls knowing he was
sparing me from weeping & feeling the grief of every person who listened.
1 of the chapters is on making the next right choice. Because when you're
going through the tough stuff, it is very hard to make decisions. So we started
to talk about making pre-decisions before our next crisis hit. 1 of those
pre-decisions was that we promised that we would respect each other's advice & listen without always talking immediately afterwards.
Carol:
That was extremely helpful to us. Then we decided that another important
thing is that we needed to forgive instantly based on the fact that we
loved each other, we knew we wanted our marriage to make it, we knew that
visiting a child in a maximum security prison for the rest of our lives, since
it is life without parole, was going to be hard.
That we needed to, when there were little issues, forgive right away.
We called it "Choosing to be unoffendable."
That's a really important
thing. Like even if he gets on my nerves, which he does occasionally, today, I'm
going to choose to be unoffendable because I know his heart toward me is
something that is precious. know he
didn't do it on purpose.
Carol:
It is so important to choose the right words because some words we can't take
back. I'm a preacher's kid and will never forget my dad telling about working
with a couple who had been in a very serious automobile accident.
The man was able to walk away but his wife was in intensive care for a
long time & had terrible facial scarring from the accident. Once in a heated
argument he looked at her and said, "You old scar-faced woman. Can't you do
anything right?" She said from that moment on, any time he looked at her
whether it was during a time of intimacy or when they were just in conversation
or with friends out for coffee or dinner, when he would look at her she
envisioned that he saw her as unattractive, ugly, & something that was not a
pleasure to be around. So some things that
come out of our mouths cannot be taken back with just a little thought, well, I
won't say that again. It hurts for the long run & we need to think twice
before we choose the wrong words.
Carol:
I really believe that my long marriage to Gene Kent,
even before Jason's arrest, helped to build a foundation for
that. Out of that grew something that we call in 1 of the chapters, "Serving
while Suffering." Sometimes in the middle of our pain we think, well, I better
quit ministry. I had that thought from the enemy. Well, Carol, you're the mother
of a murderer, you can never stand up with your Bible in your hand & tell
people Jesus lives & he can take care of your problems.
Because look what happened to you & look at the bad choice your son
made." I just want to say, tell the
enemy to be gone. Greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. We
started to stand in these 2-hour long lines to get through the security
process to get into the prison...every week.
CAROL: When we drive up to the
prison, we start to pray out loud in the car & sing. We say, "O Lord, Would you
be big in that prison today?
CAROL: The appendix is the best
bit of the book. It is the 13 crisis
help sheets about whatever you're dealing with. Maybe you're raising your
grandchild, taking care of your aging loved one, dealing with the incarceration
of that loved one or dealing with all of those things that happen when there are
financial issues. But the 13 crises help sheets will give you
how to's of where to go on the day you hit the crisis & where you can find
resources and help immediately. We not
only want to help people practically, we want to help couples spiritually. Each
chapter has questions. Some have little quizzes you can give each other so you
get to know & love each other a lot, as well as get biblical truth in there.
But we hope this is a book that people will use in their small group studies,
will grow closer & will bond marriage stronger because with Him we can be
stronger together.
Carol: It's
okay to have guilt-free time outs.
As a 1st born obsessive, compulsive, repulsive person occasionally, I
find that it's hard for me to take a timeout because I have things to do &
deadlines to meet. I'm running off
to speak & have to get ready to go to the airport so timeouts are hard for me
to take. I discovered when you are going
through tough stuff that hits your marriage from the outside, if you don't take
a break, you will break in two. 1 of the things that you can do is just go
outside & take a deep breath. Gene & I started walking 3 miles a day
on our at-home days and we turn those into prayer walks. So we'll be
walking along & people who are watching us probably think we're crazy, but Gene
will start, & he will say, "Lord, we thank you for the beauty of this
day." I'll say, "Lord, we praise you! You
are the one to whom nothing is impossible!"
Then Gene will say, "Lord, would you take care of my 91-year old mother
today because she is really feeling lonely."
I'll say, "Lord, would you just help son Jason to have a divine encounter
at the prison so he can use his leadership & his biblical wisdom to help
another inmate?" We'll go back
& forth. It strengthened our marriage to take these timeouts & do these
prayer walks. The other thing that
is important is that when one of you is strong, often the other 1 is feeling
weak. So give each other a break. Maybe on the day your spouse is really
struggling, you say, "Honey, I'll hold down the fort today. I'll deal with our
autistic child who is really getting on the last thread of my last nerve today,
you go take a break." Or he'll say,
"Honey, go out with your girlfriends for lunch." It is so important we make time
for timeouts.
https://carolkent.org/category/blog/
Kent, Carol -
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07VLC3N3L/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1
Staying Power Excerpts
Kent,
Carol with Dr. Dobson -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBrMbpdN8i8 11/13/2018
Kent, Gary & Carol -
https://speakupforhope.org/our-story/ +
https://speakupforhope.org/hope-blog/ prison ministry
Roberts, Sarah Jakes -
http://lifetoday.org/video/overcoming-shame/ Daughter of T D Jakes
had child at age 14 + divorced before becoming pastor's wife - 8/2//2016 -
Autobiography
Savard, Liberty -
YOU ARE NOT YOUR UNSAVED HUSBAND'S SAVIOR!
@
http://www.libertysavard.com/keys_difficult_issues.html
Roberta
Simpson 11/12-18/2007 @ Sid Roth (no transcript)
http://bridelifemagazine.com/blog/2015/02/21/lady-roberta-simpson-on-love-life-and-marriage/
-
“Women say that
they need 3 husbands in their lifetime. As a young woman, they need
an
adventurer.
As a mother, they need a father to their children.
As an older woman,
they
need a companion,
a steady type of guy. If you can fill those roles over the course
of decades,
you’re in luck.”
Tada,
Ken and Joni Eareckson
-
http://lifetoday.org/video/a-love-story/ 6/23/2015 -
http://www.joniandfriends.org/jonis-corner/jonis-bio/
Joni Eareckson Tada,
Founder and CEO of Joni and Friends International Disability Center
Caves
John Gray - Men are from Mars, Women are
from Venus
(v2)
FULL BOOK
https://www.theravive.com/therapists/joyce-dolberg-rowe.aspx (trained
by John Gray)
@
https://www.theravive.com/zip/ma/christian-counseling-02446.aspx
Boston area
Holmes,
Elizabeth - Man Cave vs She Shed - 2/1/2017 -
http://www.theaustralian.com.au/business/wall-street-journal/man-cave-gets-new-neighbour-the-she-shed/news-story/efd8b179d0472775717b5e548787fe24?nk=bc33ba173f3342c3f7db2aa9decb14e4-1485986417
- “'You know how men have man caves? This is like that, but for women,' says the
42-year-old interior designer, whose children are ages 10, 13 and 16. 'If I was
inside, someone would be screaming: Mum.’ After years fighting for
a seat at the table, some women now want their own place. Ms. Spearing converted
her backyard pool house into a Parisian-theme oasis with a brass chandelier &
bistro table. She retreats there every day."
(Some prophetic voices are saying upcoming home buyers
will require interior
chapel rooms, which are also a place of solace.)
Reed,
Paulette -
I Am Calling
My Women Out of the Caves by Paulette
Reed
-
www.propheticarrow.org
-
“I heard Holy Spirit say to me, ‘I
am calling My women out of the caves.’
As I prayed into this word from heaven, the Lord showed me hundreds of women
hiding in caves
because of fear, failure, or fatigue. I then saw the women running from the
caves with good news. It was clear that many had overextended their season in
the caves and what was intended to be their secret place had become their hiding
place. Today, God is calling you out of handedness & to the frontlines...
In
Psalm 68:11, we will see thousands more following Christ out of love, adoration,
& devotion to Him.
Women are being released to step into a new boldness in the Lord…
1 of the reasons that many women are in caves is because of hurts &
rejections they have experienced throughout life…
Many people have shared their stories of hurt & pain with me. While they
were wounded many inadvertently made ungodly covenants as they ran into caves.
The confession usually goes something like this: ‘I'm so hurt. I'm just going to
love the Lord & worship Him in my secret place,
because I
sure struggle with His people right now’…
1 John 4:20 says that we are to love our brothers & sisters in Christ: ‘If
someone says, “I love God,” & hates his brother, he is a liar;
for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom
he has not seen.’
So, beloved, we must love our brothers & sisters as we go & serve Christ in
them.
Let's rejoice in the fact that there is always a genuine safe place for all
believers,
it's in the shadow of the Almighty's wings.
This true security is a supernatural act of protection, not an excuse to hide.
We must learn to love & serve the bride of Christ even with all of her spots & wrinkles,
for our gifts are not to be hidden for ourselves but they are to be given away
to others. Come out, come out, wherever you are…
We learn to stay in the safe place after slaying giants (1 Samuel 24:3).
We
learn to love (1 Samuel 24:10).
We learn not to touch God's anointed (1 Samuel 24:10).
We learn mercy and forgiveness (1 Samuel 24:10).
We learn of the Lord's provision (1 Kings 18:4).
We learn when to cry aloud to the Lord (Psalm 57:1).
We learn that miracles can be birthed in caves (Matthew 2:1; Luke 2:1-7).
We learn humility (Matthew 2:1; Luke 2:1-7).
We learn to delight in hiddenness and live to glorify God (Isaiah 43:7).
We learn to hear the Lord's still small voice (1 Kings 19:9-12).
We learn there is a season to all things (1 Kings 19:13)
Elijah had been resting, giving time to get his heart & soul
right, so that he could continue on in his destiny.
Now God calls him back to the mountain to take a stand…
We need to ask ourselves, ‘Am I in the right place?’ Are you sensing a nudge
from the Lord that's making you uncomfortable? If so, let's remember that the
Lord often comforts the afflicted & afflicts
the comfortable.
Our faith, spiritual gifts, & Christ-like character grow by being stretched,
not by lying dormant in a cave…
I hear the Lord saying, ‘Go!
Get your eyes off of yourself.
Here are your new marching orders; love,
serve, anoint, appoint, & raise up successors’…
This is a season where God is exchanging your grave clothes for the armor of
God.
I declare to you today:
‘Come
forth now, with boldness, with purity of devotion & passion after God.
Exchange the grave clothes that held you in bondage for pure, white linens, the
righteous acts of God's holy people, & declare the good news of the kingdom of God so that many will believe in Him.’
Just think what would have happened if Jesus had stayed in the cave.
Thank goodness He arose from the dead & walked out of the tomb in resurrection
power…
I speak life to dreams, marriages, businesses & families today.
Come forth! You shall live & not die…
Destruction has passed you by, beloved. You are commanded to arise &
shine.
The Lord has softened your heart & given you a breastplate of righteousness.
You're a radiant bride, soft on the inside & tough as nails on the outside.
A heavenly, royal wedding gown covers the armor as you march in the great army
of women.
God is calling His women out of the caves.
Counseling Premarital
Jakes, TD
Before You Do - Making Great Decisions That You Won't Regret
www.beforeyoudo.com
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_homepage
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_grow_firststep
Chapter 1
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter01.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_grow_blame
Chapter 2
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter02.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_grow_junk
Chapter 3
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter03.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_grow_lead
Chapter 4
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter04.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_grow_join
Chapter 5
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter05.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_love_date
Chapter 6
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter06.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_love_commit
Chapter 8
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter08.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_love_engaged
Chapter 10
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter10.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_love_married
Chapter 11
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter11.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_risk_gamble
Chapter 19
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter19.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_risk_house
Chapter 13
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter13.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_risk_children
Chapter 14
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter14.pdf
http://www.tdjakes.com/site/PageServer?pagename=ms3_topic_risk_quit
Chapter 16
http://www.tdjakes.com/downloads/ms3/chapter16.pdf -
www.tdjakes.com
Christian Counselors
COMMENTARY: EXTREMEly DANGERerous are those born-again Christian counselors
who recommend/condone ANYTHING other than which is approved of in the Bible.
Many priests condone premarital sex confessed in the confessional, due to "one's
really being in love" & one's having committed fornication/adultery out of a
clear conscience.
In other words, the counselors are saying that one's
conscience, rather than one's mind/will/conscience/dictates of God/scripture is
what counts as sin/disobedience/trespass/evil. Such counselors are
spokespersons for Satan, not God...
Scripture says that God told Moses that
He hated divorce, even though His permissive will allowed it in certain
circumstances. Even so, God prefers one not to divorce. Even getting
a legal separation in a state where it automatically becomes a divorce, is not
holy advise.
Flee from any counselor/pastor/priest/rabbi who CONTRADICTS
scripture.
Your own heart/spirit should warn you when you receive ungodly advise. One
seeks out a marriage counselor to get help, not to split up a marriage & mess up
your kids & family through a "nasty" divorce. Divorces usually create more
problems than were in existence before the divorce. Separations may be OK
if each partner agrees to work on his own issues & resolve/fix them before
coming back into a relationship. 1st Corinthians 7 says not to deny sexual
intimacy to the other, except for prayer. Obviously, God would make an
exception for physical violence/abuse of mate or children. Remember,
always look to God's heart & not to the letter of the law. This is why the
rabbis in the Old Testament missed the Messiah. Whether it is a divorce or
separation, a key question to ask is if it will help or harm the children.
However, never put yourself above the law, God's law. Just be careful not
to put yourself under ungodly authority which teaches that a male/husband is
your superior where you are property & not a human being. In the case
where a mate is mentally ill, it is very difficult & a very long process.
1 has to be willing to fight for the mentally person & for the marriage.
Medical intervention may help, but never cure. That is why deliverance is
most often necessary. One cannot go it alone. Do not try to go it
alone. Pray for & find a Christian community that
will stand with you. God bless you.
Marriage Counseling -
http://www.drdougweiss.com/Conferences.html
http://www.drdougweiss.com/Upcoming.html
Colorado Springs Counseling Center
http://www.drdougweiss.com/Counseling.html
Marriage Counseling Retreats for Pastors -
https://www.livingwatersministry.com/
Eggerichs,
Emerson -
https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/spouse-feel-special-dr-eggerichs-j1715
2/15/2020 good marriage mentoring +
http://emersonandsarah.blogspot.com/
- Rockford, Michigan + online marriage mentoring school @
https://www.loveandrespectacademy.com/
Evans, Jimmy - The Pain of Your
Past -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pK0WjQKc2eg&list=UUyeUw8LCw7srWnk5c267Alg&index=12
from www.marriagetoday.com
or
http://marriagetoday.com/latest-tv-episodes/ great
On Daystar Look for 5/15/2015 video regarding -
The Hurt Pocket
and The Hurt Pocket Whisperer
also
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=4208847225001 @
http://www.daystar.com/guest-guide/jimmy-evans/ @
http://www.daystar.com/shows/daystar-original-programs/jonilamb/joni-guest-guide/
Evans, Jimmy - XO Conferences -
https://xomarriage.com/marriagetoday-podcasts 4/2020 @
https://xomarriage.com/podcast
@ https://xomarriage.com/
Tanksley, Dr Carol -
https://www.drcarolministries.com/about-dr-carol/
Austin, Texas,
OB-Gyn physician, board certified in Obstetrics-Gynecology and Reproductive
Endocrinology, & Dr. of Ministry
https://www.drcarolministries.com/healthy-relationships/ editorials
Confess Secrets &/or
Sexual Sins to Mate?
Moore, Beth 11/18/2009
To Know and Be Known
http://www.lifetoday.tv/qt/2009/11/91104.htm
Wednesdays with Beth archives
http://www.lifetoday.org/site/PageServer?pagename=bth_media
Life Today archives
http://www.lifetoday.org/site/PageServer?pagename=tel_USCalendar - Beth,
says, "NO, NO, NO" to cathartically" fessing up" to one's partner of past sexual
partners & exploits, as understood or perhaps misunderstood by many counselors %
counselees...The bottom line is that once our sins are confessed, they are under
the blood & forgotten by Jesus. If one particular area is still full of
spiritual or emotional puss then perhaps that part of the soul is broken or
fragmented &
needs ministry. See Ana Mendez ministry above regarding healing of a
broken heart.
Confess Sexual or other
"dark" Sins to Children?
Greenwood, Rebecca - Let our Children Go - Chapter 9 The Power of
Affirmation -
[NO, we do NOT share our "dark" past (forgiven) sins with our
offspring; they are under the blood of Jesus and He has already forgotten them
according to scripture. 2nd, we may consider our children mature enough to
handle such matters, but each child is different in maturity - spiritually,
emotionally and developmentally. Unless God Himself gives us the green
light, it is best NOT to share such matters which may bite you later on if you
do NOT pay attention to the Holy Spirit and His leadings. The old saying
goes, "When in doubt, don't."]
One Flesh
Genesis 2:24 The 2 shall become 1 flesh.
Alsobrook, David - Understanding the Accuser
(who is Satan) - Chapter 2 Overcoming Satan When He Accuses Me to God
- "Satan spared (killing) Job's wife, because they were 1-flesh; Satan had to
obey & recognize that union."
2nd "Satan decides, 'If I can't get at Job directly, I can do it indirectly,
through his wife.'"
Kat Kerr June 15, 2014
or
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=rMjXzVo7Nmw
@ Tribulation Now radio By
admin End Time Prophecy
part 2 @
http://jesusstories.info/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search
+
http://jesusstories.info/page/2/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search -
Intercourse between individuals initiates the transfer of soul pieces between
them.
When unequally yoked (wed) you receive unholy deposits from mate.
Intercourse with same sex triggers soul confusion/war.
Kerr,
Kat -
1/8/2016
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDqpl8rUB7Y
+ 1/9/2016
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDqpl8rUB7Y
#2 Even when visually apart, spiritually we
are not, as the 2 have become 1 (at least physically). The husband is (to
be) one's
covering/helpmate/protector/enabler in the kingdom of God (on this earth).
Kat Kerr -
Kat
kerr
Sermons : Revealing Heaven in Greenville, South Carolina , March 17th ,2016
- When one marries, he/she exchanges soul layers with
mate, in the same manner that he/she
exchanges soul layers with the Trinity, when he/she invited Jesus to be his/her savoir
& Holy Spirit
baptizer, for man's human spirit is layered in same manner that Holy Spirit is
layered. Soul
layer exchange affects one's whole life. After a
divorce/fornication/ adultery/rape one needs to
loose/return-to-sender/command-to-go-back to sexual partner each & every
wrong/unhealthy/foreign soul
layer not in alignment with God's original design (in same manner that GMO plants are not
in alignment
with God's design). Otherwise, one will be drawn/attracted back to the
former. Also wrong soul layers can infect/infest one's thinking, causing
one to act out of character and not even know why...Same/similar principle applies to things/addictions. Unholy attractions
may occur after
one has given self to a forbidden/harmful practice/drug/lure,
due to soul deposits from that "fatal attraction", unless it is repented
of and sent back to sender, in Jesus' name, plus replaced with God's opposite
(plus of course Himself, if He is not already indwelling). Thus, the
character defect can be literal in the spiritual sense. (To compound
matters, Satan/ demons may hook onto any remaining unholy deposits/shit giving
them legal right to spiritually oppress an individual already under physical
and/or emotional duress in order to create illness and/or mental instability:
needing repentance, healing and/or deliverance. Bottom line: repent &
return to sender/person, place or thing any layer or deposit that did NOT come
with the original you at conception, &
route/refute it when it tries to return, in Jesus' name. Each of us want
to be and remain WHOLE in soul. Amen)...[Let’s look at it in another way. Those who
receive organ transplants often receive memories from donor. Likewise
spiritually, we do/can receive the same spiritual DNA from our illicit sexual
partners, which is unhealthy/illegal regarding what the Lord had in mind for us
from the foundation of the earth. That is why the Catholic confession is
such a good example for the church. Whether we go to God in a confessional
booth or on our knees, makes no difference, The goal is to remove the
thorn/sin/demon/allergen/splinter/memory/trauma causing the harm.]
Peale, Norman Vincent - Chapter
7
Healed by the Great Physician - recommended @
How to be Your Best
- "Said Dr Large, 'Let us give him some (daily/ongoing) treatment at home...What
are your husband's sleeping habits...At 5:00 every morning (at point mate is in
deep sleep), you get up & sit by your husband, & pray for him. Believe
that Jesus Christ is there by your husband's side, actually present with you and
with him. Imagine your husband as a whole man, happy, controlled,
organized, & well. Hold that thought in your mind, for an image will
become a fact as you hold it. Think of your prayers as reaching his
unconscious. At that time in the morning, his conscious mind is not
resisting & you can get an idea into his unconscious. Visualize him
as kindly, cooperative happy, creative & enthusiastic'...The disorder left his
life.
The power of Jesus Christ is very skillful."
(Prayer time will
vary from mate to mate.
Some recommend praying over marriage bed while
making it each morning.)
Sandford, Paula & Loren, John - Growing
Pains - available from
www.elijahhouse.org -
"Husband & wife...may pray more specifically for one another,
because they are
in a 1-flesh relationship."
Springer Rebecca Ruter- Intra Muros or My
Dream of Heaven - pgs 10-12
adobe or cache
excerpt @
https://hopefaithprayer.com/books/IntraMuros-SearchableText.pdf
or full @
www.thecallofthebride.com/IntraMuros.pdf
http://www.thecallofthebride.com/IntraMuros.pdf%2Bmy+dream+of+heaven+intra+muros+rebecca+ruter+springer
-
"This
book is a description of Heaven that was written around 1898. Whether it
was an actual vision or just a long dream, she does not really know. The only
thing she knows & states, is that instead of the memory of the
‘dream’
dimming over the years, it had actually become more vivid...Many churches give this book out to grieving family members."
Chapter 16 - "'To me marriage must be eternal. How
could it be otherwise, when 2 grow together & become as 1?
Death cannot
separate them without them destroying. They are no longer 2 perfect
beings, but 1 in soul & spirit forever'...
'But
having the marriage rite pronounced does not produce this change. It
is the divinity of soul wedded to soul alone that can do it'...He
unfolded to me mysteries of the soul-life that filled my heart with rapture, but
which I man not here reveal."
Red
Flags
Hickey, Marilyn -
Faith Vision - A Dream Too Big for You - Part 1 +
http://www.marilynandsarah.org/2015/02/faith-vision-a-dream-too-big-for-you-part-2/
-
Part #2 shares Holy Spirit warning to Sarah to attend to her mate in area where
he felt neglected,
unneeded, unwanted, unappreciated, unvalued.
Kolenda,
Daniel -
http://www.charismamag.com/spirit/spiritual-warfare/44109-daniel-kolenda-on-spiritual-warfare-kill-your-dragon-while-it-s-young
-
“You can pretend it's not there. You can call it weird. But as Daniel
Kolenda emphasizes, the supernatural realm is very real. Not only that, but the
(spiritual) enemy can be behind your everyday struggles. In his book
Slaying Dragons,
Kolenda shares practical, doctrinally sound spiritual
warfare tips, including killing the proverbial dragon before it's born.
‘Smash it while it is still inside its egg. If you can kill it in its
gestation period, you will never have to battle a monster,’ Kolenda says. ‘Big
things start small. Big addictions come from simple curiosity. Big sins grow
from small seeds.’
As an example, Kolenda describes a season when he got
his hair cut at a salon by a young, attractive hairdresser. He used to hate
haircuts, but the young lady was interesting to talk to, and she seemed
interested in him. When she cut his hair, time flew by. Then 1 morning Kolenda
woke up and felt a flutter of excitement for his hair appointment that day. He
was surprised, but it didn't take a lot of reflecting to realize why.
‘Obviously
I was excited at the thought of seeing that attractive young woman,’ he
says.
But Kolenda was married with 3 children. So he canceled his appointment
& switched salons. While the situation may have never evolved into anything,
Kolenda was also aware that every affair could be traced back to a
little, innocent feeling of excitement. In his writing he uses this
experience to illustrate how to slay a (small) dragon before it
becomes a (big) dragon.
‘Remember how Jesus told us to deal with
temptation: If your hand offends you, cut it off. If your eye offends you, gouge
it out,’ Kolenda says. ‘I recognized the latent potential for a little dragon
egg to begin growing in my life. I dealt with it quickly & thoroughly.’
His book Slaying Dragons
doesn't just expose the ways of the enemy.
It challenges readers to consider the
sin habits they themselves have coddled.
‘Most of the dragons that
threaten us are ones we have incubated, nurtured, & raised in our own hearts.
Lust, pride, greed, selfishness in all its forms, hatred, the abandonment of
responsibility, lack of self-discipline: are the kind of dragons that usually
destroy us,’ Kolenda says. ‘In fact it is these small internal dragons
that become the huge external ones.’
Slaying Dragons shines
light on what the enemy is doing in one's life & what a person can do to
slay every dragon he or she encounters.”
Separation
COMMENTARY: Time out or SEPARATION is a
time to grow up. Get a weekly counselor for yourself (same sex).
Attend classes. Finish college. Join clubs. Teach Sunday
school. Become active in your church. Go on mission trips.
Read your Bible from cover to cover. Go to the gym. Ride your bike
often. Stay away from things that are false security blankets like booze,
cigarettes, etc. Keep busy in constructive ways. Make a schedule and
stick to it, regardless of how you feel. Do those things you dreamed of
doing when you were younger. This is a window of time God is giving to
you. Make the best use of it...Bless others & the blessings will
some day come back to you.
Dickerman, Don -
When
Pigs Move In share the root cause of many a separation/divorce. Chapter
23 Pledges and Oaths -
www.dondickerman.net -
Included doors to demonic infestation include:
Freemasonry, Eastern Star, college fraternities and sororities or any secret
lodge (requiring any secret oath/pledge/initiation) Such
clubs/organizations result in one “inviting demons into his family" usually
unknowingly, as Satan is a deceiver. Anyway, the “beginning” or Blue Lodge
level #1 takes many oaths (as do all levels) - 1 being the “usurping of the
marriage” covenant
by the removal of the wedding ring during the ceremony! -
Also see
www.jubilee-resources.com
Soul
Mates/Ties/Cords
Dickerman,
Don - When Pigs Move In -
http://www.dondickerman.net -
Dickerman in Appendix lists 37 Biblical Curses, Grouping of
Various Evil Spirits by function/assignment, and 60 Symptoms of
Demonic Attack. -
Chapter 4 How Do Demons Access Believers? "Sex outside of
(or before) marriage cannot only open doors for demons, but it can also create a
soul tie that gives them permission to stay until that curse is broken."
This soul tie affects the individual, his mate, plus his seed, until broken,
because it concerns both a demon & a curse."
Dickerman, Don - Keep the Pigs Out -
http://www.dondickerman.net
Doctor, Judith -
http://www.kairosministries.us/Healing%20The%20Broken%20Heart%20Part%20VIII%20Ungodly%20Soul%20Ties.pdf
- Severing Ungodly Soul Ties - "(Taken
from Virkler & Virkler, 2000, Contributing Strands Worksheet, p.
6.) Start by welcoming the Holy Spirit’s presence to guide & empower you.
Position your heart in humility before the Lord. Come before the Lord, tell
him the heart issue you are bringing to Him. Give your heart to God now;
allow Him to access your heart.
PRAYER, 'Lord, sever that ungodly soul tie between me & _______
Release me from the ungodly flow...from him (her) to me.
Restore back to me any parts which have been taken. Send back any parts
of others which have been received.'
PRAYER, 'Father in Heaven, I come to you now, because I need You.
I recognize that I have an ungodly soul-tie with _______
I confess and repent of my sin of being in bondage to another person.
I confess and repent of my sin of an ungodly soul tie with _______
I forgive _______ for their involvement in this sin.
I ask You to forgive me and to wash all sin & guilt from me with Your
blood.
I now receive Your forgiveness. I forgive myself for participating in
this sin.
I also confess and repent of my anger & resentment against You, God,
for
allowing this to happen in my life.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I break this ungodly soul tie between me &
_______
I cut myself off from every evil thing coming to me through them.
Lord, please restore to me any broken or torn portions of my soul.
Lord, remove anything that has come into me through this soul tie.
Please restore to me anything godly that has been stolen from me.
I am drawing close to You and I resist the evil one like Your Word tells me
to do.
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, (I pray all the above things &) I
thank You. Amen.'
Follow with laying hands on the heart. (with same sex
partners;
a man is NOT to place his hands on a female chest.)
If (when) ministering breaking of soul ties to another person, speak
freedom & release healing directly to the person’s heart.
The heart can hear & will respond to your direct words.
Note: Part of our problem in identifying ungodly soul-ties is ignorance of
the differences between God’s blessings & curses.
Read Deuteronomy (chapters) 27-29 to help you become familiar with the
differences between them."
Ehambe,
Lufile - Sever Old Soul Ties -
How to overcome struggle
(audio)
@
http://cintlc.org/seniorpastor.htm
further
background
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9wirNty6b8&feature=related
Foy, Teri Savelle - especially for women -
http://www.terri.com/intimate-soul-ties/
Frankena, Martin -
Free Indeed - Healing &
Deliverance seminar CD 4/21/2007 session 2
www.revivalconnections.org
Emphasis on spiritually terminating/cutting/loosing
unholy soul ties, especially
from each prior sexual relationship prior to marriage. Each sexual
relationship is a covenant relationship, legal or not, right or wrong. It
is a spiritual law that the 2 become 1 flesh during intercourse. That is
why it is imperative for each person to repent and put under the blood of Christ
all prior relationships, especially those forbidden by God in the Bible.
Ask God to remove permanently from you anything deposited from another during any/each prior
relationship. Never recite pornographic details; God already knows the
particulars. Ask God to redeposit [back into you (or if bad then under the
feet of Jesus)] anything taken from you during any prior
relationship. It
might be innocence, virginity, trust, freedom to love, which one can name, if
one is aware. Such transparency/repentance/ prayers/proclamations free one
to pursue intimacy in his/her marriage.
One can also pray for God to bless
his/her marriage.
Hamp, Bob -
Teaching on Sex | Bob Hamp -
http://vimeo.com/6999128 -
excellent -
Dating (intimate or not) may allow the
transfer (to and from each other) of soul parts
(layers/deposits, unwanted character flaws and/or demonic entities). (Thus
we need to loose/cut from ourselves both detrimental marital & premarital cords
as well as any demonic attachments and replace with God's holy virtues, in
Jesus' name & power.)
http://bobhamp.com/media/ -
http://vimeo.com/bobhamp/videos/sort:date
Horrobin, Peter -
http://www.ellelministries.org/arise/peter_horrobin
-
office Ellel Grange, Bay Horse, Lancaster, LA2 0HN, United
Kingdom - (edited)
Peter Horrobin Mar 2011 or
Peter
Horrobin -
TV broadcast or TV
transcript or February 2011
radio
Peter Horrobin - Forgiveness - "Ungodly Soul Ties
(edited) - Peter: Well
relationships, which become sexual, become what God intended them to be in
marriage, a joining together of spirit, soul & body. That's what
God intended marriage to be. But when people have relationships outside of
marriage,
God doesn't suspend what He intended for sexual relationships so that
people could sin without consequences. They still become joined
together to the people they've had a sexual relationship with.
Sid: I believe, that it even goes deeper. The Bible talks about sex outside
of marriage, because I believe it is free access for the demons, the
generational curses, everything,
because they do become 1. Who
wants to pick up all the demons of their (sexual) partner?
Peter: Whatever is happening in 1 person affects the other either
negatively or positively.
Sid: You could have a heart transplant & have some of the donor's
memories. What it is in the spiritual?
Peter: Those things do happen. Let me tell you a very simple story of a
woman who had had a sexual relationship with a boyfriend. She knew
eventually that this was wrong & broke the relationship. The boy was really
angry & said to her, 'If you're not gonna have me, you're never gonna have
children by anybody else.' Now there already was a soul tie joining them
together, (but those words) became a curse upon her, when she believed
(that pronouncement).
Eventually she married. 6 years down the line, she and her husband came for
prayer because they couldn't conceive any children. As we unpacked
the past, she remembered (as the Spirit of God brought this to her attention what
this previous boyfriend had said). When she forgave that boyfriend, I asked God to break the ungodly soul tie. I can't do it. When
people come together, God joins them,
so it's only He that can unjoin them. When He unjoins them (in Jesus'
name) we can then take
authority over the demonic curse to come out; she was delivered before our
very eyes. You saw this thing coming off her. A year later, they had a little
baby, because God had healed her (soul) wound. The curse of death had gone
& she was restored.
Sid: I want you to break ungodly soul tie
right now.
Peter: If you're a person who has had relationships that were outside of
marriage, before you were married or even relationships that were adulterous
within marriage, & the Spirit of God has told you that this was wrong, & you want to just bring that
to God right now. Confess it. Agree with what God thinks
about that sin. Ask Him to forgive you.
Ask Him to cut that tie
to those previous sexual partners, so that He can release you...
So Lord Jesus now, as I speak to these people. I ask you now to set them free,
to give them freedom from their past.
I take authority over the works of
darkness that were impinging upon, attacking & destroying
them.
I ask you, Jesus, to set them free right
now. Amen." (Jesus, I receive. I thank You.)
Hunter,
Joan - Power to Heal -
www.joanhunter.org -
"After we were divorced,
I still had to break and renounce the (marriage)
covenant we had made...
I didn't have to break emotional 'soul
ties,' however, as I had broken those much earlier."
Hunter, Joan -
Love Again, Live Again with Joan Hunter – Part 1 4/24/2019
Fix a
broken heart. Cut old soul ties
before remarrying. Recognize and reverse codependency/manipulation.
Hunter, Joan -
Love Again, Live Again with Joan Hunter – Part 2
4/25/2019
By
Web Admin
Jourdan, Nikki -
http://www.chooselove.org/appendixD%20Hidden%20Bindages.htm -
Hidden
Bondages - (Soul Ties of all sorts) - good insights
-
http://www.kairosministries.us/Healing%20The%20Broken%20Heart%20Part%20VIII%20Ungodly%20Soul%20Ties.pdf
"After praying for the fragmented
soul to be made complete and totally restored, we will need to command the
demoniacs to leave the person. The following scriptures talks about
demoniacs, & evil things. From these verses, it appears that demoniacs attach
themselves to our fleshly, natural emotions & behaviors.
It also tells us that we need to resist the devil and he will flee from us...
God has invested us with unbelievable power and authority to cast out every evil
spirit & to break every demonic bondage.
You are a believer, the power is yours. Having done the previous steps, now use
the authority given to you & the privilege of invoking the Name of Jesus,
command each spirit by name, to leave you right now in Jesus’ Name.
In resisting these evil things, we need to learn how to speak very
authoritatively
using the wonderful name of Jesus Christ."
Kat Kerr June 15, 2014
or
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=rMjXzVo7Nmw
@ Tribulation Now radio By
admin End Time Prophecy
part 2
@
http://jesusstories.info/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search
+
http://jesusstories.info/page/2/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search
Binding and loosing are significant kingdom keys even nonbelievers
can use
in this kingdom age.
We loose from ourselves any trauma, even prenatal or infant trauma, in name &
power of Jesus Christ.
"Father, in Jesus' name, I choose as an act of my will:
to loose (and renounce any association with) the
trauma/abuse that I experienced as a child.
to loose the drug addiction that is in my soul.
to loose the pornography that I have been feeding
on.
to loose the fear that is tormenting me.
to loose the anger, wrath, & hate that is
tormenting me.
to loose the offense, the un-forgiveness that I
have been living in.
to loose the homosexuality
to loose the night terrors
[or perhaps:
to loose the lust, gluttony
to loose the masturbation
to loose the greed
to loose the insanity, mental illness,
depression, PTS
to loose the disease, defect, autism, ADD,
mongolism
to loose the ___________________
to loose these in my soul and family tree.]
Thank You Father.
to bind/download deposits of Your love/presence/life/joy/(DNA) to my
soul (mind/will/emotions).
The problem can no longer legally torment your soul. 2nd
Heaven cannot resist.
The root cause is pulled out of the soul (even
out of the bloodline, in Jesus' name & power.)
The soul can now resist rather than crave/attract evil, should the enemy try to
return.
Divorced/abused individuals need to break soul ties with (renounce association
with, loose/detach a soul layer/deposit/attachment from)
former mate/individual (at least the negative aspects).
In Jesus'
name:
a-loose/remove from self - that former mate/abuser
given/implanted soul part/layer.
b-call back/reinstate given/kidnapped soul part/piece that is
true to self.
c-break/cancel any negative effect/harm (on her/mate/seed) of
the former soul layer existence in her.
d-give/rededicate self to Trinity
e-begin to download His fruit (peace/love/joy/longsuffering/light/etc. to
reprogram/reformat our DNA).
Lake Hamilton
Soul
Ties
http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/specials/mindhome/yoke.htm
from
http://lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/specials/mindhome/intro.htm
McGee, Joe - Tricked Into Marriage -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPboqG63YIw -
"The founder of Faith For Families exposes
the myth of 'soul mates' & explains the basis of a Godly marriage."
http://www.joemcgeeministries.com/
+
other videos at:
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Joe%20McGee&search=tag
or
http://www.youtube.com/user/JoeMcGeeMinistries?blend=6&ob=5
McLean, Renny - Eternity Invading Time -
www.globalglory.org - Chapter 13
Breakthrough -
"Soul ties are bonds with family, associates and other relationships.
You (can) know (recognize) you have a soul tie when God has spoken to you, but
the people to whom you're tied take priority (1st place) in your life; then God
takes 2nd place."
(You prefer not to rock their boat as to what you think
they might feel, want, or say.) (When you disobey, disregard or postpone
the Lord's promptings)
"and go back to the same soulish relationships, the
cord wasn't cut from your soul."
"Get to the root of your bondage...cut the soulish ties of
intimidation & fear of man's sanctioning; otherwise you will never get your
breakthrough...Some (times)...ties were never fully cut. You feel guilty & end up
saying,
'I made a mistake'...It was a mistake in your eyes only because you...became
discouraged; people manipulated you to come back. When your grace
(forgiveness/looking the other way) level falls, you can't tolerate (enable)
their errors (evil/ immaturity manipulation/self-interest) anymore. Then
you will know God has cut the cords & given you a break-through...It doesn't
necessarily mean that God is trying to remove that person out of your life
completely (or permanently). He is merely changing the basis of that
relationship. If you don't allow Him to change you, those soul ties will
sneak in to drag you back to where you started (with God) & your breakthrough (with Him) will not be sustained."
Moore,
Beth 11/18/2009 To Know and Be Known
http://www.lifetoday.tv/qt/2009/11/91104.htm
Wednesdays with Beth archives
-
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- Beth, says, "NO, NO, NO" to cathartically" fessing up" to one's partner of
past sexual partners & exploits, as understood or perhaps misunderstood by many
counselors and counselees. The bottom line is that once our sins are
confessed, they are under the blood and forgotten by Jesus. If one
particular area is still full of spiritual or emotional puss then perhaps that
part of the soul is broken or fragmented & needs ministry.
See Ana Mendez ministry
www.voiceofthelight.com regarding healing of a broken/fragmented
heart.
Savard, Liberty -
SOUL
TIES IN MARRIAGE
@
http://www.libertysavard.com/keys_difficult_issues.html +
Keys to
Understanding SOUL POWER, SOUL TIES
& SOULISH PRAYERS +
SOUL TIES FROM FORMER
RELATIONSHIPS +
Smith,
Alice - Beyond the Lie -
http://www.cbn.com/entertainment/Books/BeyondtheLie.aspx - "If you allow
Him, the Lord will use what you've experienced, both good and bad, to purify
you. When refining gold, the refiner melts & then stirs the gold over heat
until all its impurities float to the top. He skims off the impurities & turns
up the heat, & then repeats the process,
all the while increasing the heat.
Molten gold is pure when the refiner can see his reflection in it...
Through holy experiences we can establish spiritual covenants
with holy people. Over time, partners in the service of Christ build (healthy
safe) lifelong relationships with one another. Consider a pastor & his wife who
have served in the same church for many years. Years in relationship with the
congregation have woven together the fibers of their lives into a beautiful
divine tapestry. The pastor & his wife are part of the congregation, & the
congregation is
part of them. The godly covenant is made on 2 levels: (1) They
have entered into a holy soul
tie covenant with the people they have served. (2) They have entered into
covenant with God through their years of faithful service. The Lord's anointing
rests upon the couple in greater and deeper levels as they continue to surrender
to Him in obedience. A scriptural instance of holy covenant is seen
in the case of Jacob's parents, who, in keeping with custom, sent him out to
find a bride for himself. Along the journey, Jacob stopped to sleep, & while he slept he had a
dream in which God
told him that the land he was standing on would belong to him and all his
descendents. When he awoke, Jacob realized that he'd had a life-altering
encounter; he would
never be the same.
He took a stone on which he had been
sleeping, poured oil on it, & made
a covenant with God. The promise he received from God forever changed his
point of view, his sense of purpose, &
his priorities in life (see Genesis 28:12–22).
Unholy contracts are made with unholy people. Through force -
violation, assault, abandonment, or cursing, etc. Those who choose evil actions
traumatize those who are young &/or weak. From this vulnerable place they
cower in fear as victims. Ungodly connections can be formed (for example)
through fornication, adultery, homosexuality, bestiality, group sex, and rape;
these are not only sins against God but also against our own bodies.
Whether we know it or not, when we enter into ungodly and unholy contracts, we
enter into covenant on 2 levels. (1st) First, we enter into covenant
with the person(s) with whom we've engaged in sin, willingly or unwillingly.
This soul tie is an unseen connection that ties our hearts and lives together
with evil and can leave doors open
to our lives that must be shut. Jehoiada, a priest from the house of
Judah, is a biblical example of one determined to break unholy contracts:
Jehoiada then made a covenant that he and the people and the king would be the
Lord's people. All the people went to the temple of Baal & tore it down. They
smashed the altars and idols and killed Mattan the priest of Baal in front of
the altars....[Jehoiada] also stationed doorkeepers at the gates of the Lord's
temple so that no one who was in any way unclean might enter. (2 Chronicles
23:16–17, 19 NIV)
(2nd) Second, we enter into covenant with spirits of darkness who provoke sin in
us and feed on that sin, which often in turn results in some level of
demonization. Demons use unholy soul ties to connect their evil activity
to a person.
Even unwillingly entering a partnership with evil opens the
spiritual gates of your life to further assaults.
This happened to
me and thousands of others to whom I've ministered. It's common for a victim to
allow & even (knowingly or unknowingly) invite spirits of injustice,
evil, & wickedness into his or her life due to the open doors of wrong
associations. A(n unholy)covenant
(contract/captivity/agreement/legal right) is established in the
(demonic) spirit realm until one party breaks it; you will have to
(verbally) break the covenant (strong legal
hold/grip/oppression/fatal-attraction, in Jesus' name) to see change
occur."
Dr. Bern Zumpano,
Former Adjunct Assistant Professor of
Psychiatry & Professor of Neurosurgery, Oral Roberts University School of
Medicine,
Tulsa, Oklahoma,USA - 1999 -
http://www.walkinginpower.org/books/spiritual_warfare_prayers.pdf -
PRAYER for the BREAKING of SOUL-TIES -
"Ties (bindings) are curses, or works of witchcraft
imparted to a string, rope, ribbon,
or strip of cloth used as a
point of contact with a spirit, which is then tied in a knot by
a witch.
It is then planted within a church, home, place of business, or other
place,
in order to carry out a binding against the person to which it is
directed.
This is different than a soul-tie which is an invisible bond between 2
people which essentially makes them function as one, a bond in which even
they have difficulty in breaking, because it is of a sinful nature
(I Corinthians 6:16)...
Soul-ties are automatically established between people who commit
fornication,
for example. Sometimes it becomes difficult for them to stop
because of the soul-ties. Soul-ties are frequently the cause behind persistent
unhealthy relation-ships of other types, in which an individual has trouble
breaking away even though he/she desires to do so.
A soul-tie cannot only be between a person & a person, but can also be between a person and an object.
The disembodied spirits of unsaved deceased people (Isa.8:19;
Isa.19:3-4), for instance, can have a soul-tie to their former residence,
or to some possession such as a lamp, piece of furniture, or other
objects which we, today would consider an antique. There might be a
soul-tie to a gun which, then, could create a spiritually dangerous situation.
[The theology regarding disembodied spirits is common among Catholics and
Spiritualists! The theology regarding ghosts (evil spirits) &/or
disembodied spirits regarding attachment to things or places is also common
among Catholics, Spiritualists,
South American & African (3rd world) practices &
ghost busters. PRAY for DISCERNMENT.]
I was once asked to intervene for a young physician who had developed an
unhealthy soul-tie with a young woman who had a powerful spirit of control and
spirit of witchcraft, which ministered against the young man. He could not break
away.
At the time I was 1,500 miles away, residing in another state. Binding
Satan first, a prayer of agreement between the young man’s family members and
me, in which we took authority over the soul-tie and broke it in the Name of
Christ Jesus, was sufficient to free him. A soul-tie can be reestablished by
backsliding & taking an interest, again, in the things, which caused it to
develop in the first place. When disembodied spirits have soul-ties to a
residence, physical manifestations may occur on the premises. This is
essentially what is called a 'haunting', a term commonly used in occult
literature. The Christian believer should recognize it for what it is, & bind
Satan, the ruler spirits, all demonic spirits & (if discerned) the disembodied
spirit (which could be of a witch or occult person traveling with intent of
doing harm), and cast them out to a specific destination, commanding them not to
return, & break the soul-tie with the residence, all in the Name of Christ
Jesus...Remember that repentance should then be prayed for regarding whatever happened
on those premises, and you should speak cleansing of its history and cleansing
from defilement in Christ Jesus’ Name. Pray something like this:
'Lord Jesus Christ, I take authority over the soul-tie between (person's name)
& (other person’s name, location or place, or name of object,
etc.) and I bind (cut) it, (&) loose him/her from (whatever named) & I BREAK
IT ONCE and FOR ALL TIME, all In Your Holy Name, Lord Jesus Christ. I loose
(cut/sever) it from (name) & (whatever named place/object/ person)
& decree that it cannot return this day or any day to come, binding Satan &
the ruler spirits & all evil ministering spirits first, & (next) loosing (name)
& (then) binding (separating/forbidding) them off permanently (doing) all in
Christ Jesus’ Name. I call (name) cleansed of his/her history & of this
defilement in Christ Jesus’ Name."
It appears the breaking of the soul-tie is possible, even to some degree,
in an instance where the person is confused.
By standing in-the-gap
for them 1st, such circumstances, which usually meet with resistance in the
spiritual realm (increased agitation, for example), indicate the presence of a
spell of witchcraft & witchcraft-control or control by soul-power. The latter
is likely to be easier to break than the former. Stand in-the-gap for the person
first, then decree the soul-tie and witchcraft broken off of them, all in
Christ Jesus’ Name. Pray it through until a result is seen.
Such
persistence is called in the scripture, the 'perseverance of the saints'."
Psalm 116:3-4,8-9,16-17 JNTP - 3The CORDS of death
were all around me,
Sh'ol's constrictions held me fast;
I was finding only
distress and anguish.
4But I called on the name of ADONAI: "Please, ADONAI.
Save me."
8Yes, You have rescued me from death, my eyes from tears & my
feet from falling.
9I will go on walking in the presence of ADONAI in the
lands of the living.
16You have removed my FETTERS. 17I will offer a
sacrifice of thanks to You.
Psalm 118:10-12 Stern
10The nations (enemy/demons/troubles) all surrounded me;
in the name of
Adonai I cut them down.
11They surrounded me on every side; in the
name of Adonai I cut them down.
12They surrounded me like bees, but
were extinguished (as quickly) as a fire in thorns;
in the name of Adonai I
cut them down.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 KJV - A 3 fold
cord is not quickly broken.
1st Corinthians 6:16 KJV -
"Do you not know that he who
(fornicates/commits adultery)
is joined
to (has sexual relations with)
a harlot (prostitute/mistress/concubine) is 1 body with her.
'The 2,' He says (in Genesis 2:24), 'shall become 1 flesh'"
(enabling evil spirits to transfer between them: Scriptural insight).
Soul Pieces/Fragmentation
Kat Kerr June 15, 2014
or
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=rMjXzVo7Nmw
@
Tribulation Now radio By
admin End Time Prophecy
part 2 @
http://jesusstories.info/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search
+
http://jesusstories.info/page/2/?s=kat+kerr&search=Search -
Intercourse between individuals initiates the transfer of soul pieces between
them.
When unequally yoked (wed) you receive unholy deposits from mate.
Intercourse with same sex triggers soul confusion/war.
Thorny
Relationships - Wives
genesis/3-17.htm
16 To the woman He said, "I will
greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children;
Yet your desire will be for your husband, who will rule over you."
17Then
to Adam
He said,
"Because
you have listened
to the voice
of your wife,
and have eaten
from the tree
about which
I commanded
you, saying,
'You shall not eat
from it';
Cursed
is the ground
because
of you; In toil
you will eat
of it All
the days
of your life.
18"Both
thorn & thistle weeds shall infest your gardens + you will eat/harvest both wild
& tended plants. (Paraphrased)
proverbs/19-13.htm
13A
foolish
son
is destruction
to his father,
And the contentions
of a wife
are a constant
dripping
(nagging).
14House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is
from the LORD.
Proverbs 21:9 - It is better to live in a corner of a roof Than in a house shared with a
contentious woman.
Proverbs
21:19 - It is better to live in a desert land Than with a
contentious & vexing
woman.
Proverbs
27:15 - A constant dripping on a day of
steady rain & a contentious woman are
alike;
16 restraining her is like restraining
the wind or grasping oil with the hand.
17
As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
Job-2-9/ -
“Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity?
curse God, and die.”
Thorny
Relationships - Husbands
acts/5-9.htm
8“Tell me,” said Peter, “is this the price you and
your husband got for the land?” “Yes,” she answered, “that is the price.”
9“How
could you (conspire with
your mate)
agree
to test
the
Spirit
of the Lord?
Peter replied.
“Look,
the
feet
of the men who
buried
your
husband
are at
the
door,
and
they will carry you out also.”
10At that
instant she fell down at his feet & died. Then the young men came in & found her
dead. So they carried her out & buried her beside her husband.
Eckert, Beth -
Mate's Testimony:
http://www.theothersideofdarkness.com/witness-to-a-spiritual-deliverance/
"This head demon also gave specific information on a relationship
curse that was over
my husband, that caused the breakdown of all relationships. This curse
hindered my husband from communicating with people he loved. Wow. That was huge
for me, because for so many years I held anger and resentment for time times I
felt that my husband was refusing to talk to me or listen to me. This demon also
admitted to times when he &
his minions tried to kill my husband. Such as causing him to fall asleep while
cooking, which led to his stove catching on fire. Or causing him to drive drunk
so he would get into an accident...
I know many people do not believe in demons, or the fact that they can indeed
reside inside of a Christian. However this is another lie of the enemy. You can
indeed have the Holy Spirit indwelling in your own spirit, & still have a
demon inside of you as well.
If you have the Holy Spirit inside of you, demons cannot go into your (born
again) human spirit. They can however come into your physical being; once we
give them rights or permission unknowingly, they are allowed to stay. Some may
say this is crazy or impossible, but I tell you the truth. There is absolutely
nowhere in scripture that says
a Christian cannot have demons inside of them. Christians can NOT be
possessed:
that is when a demon can be in your very spirit. There is a difference."
Marriage Covenant
Guillerno,
Apostle G Maldonado
- audio -
The Family 3: The Marriage Covenant Part 1 -
Sudduth, William - So Free @
http://www.ramministry.org/online_store_s.htm Colorado Springs, Colorado,
USA
Chapter 2 - Can a Christian Be Possessed? - "A
husband can break a rash vow made by his wife. We asked her husband to
repent for his wife, renounce & rebuke Satan & his demons, &
break the curse his wife had spoken over herself...
We then commanded the demon
to leave; it left."
http://www.themonastery.org/tools/wedding_laws/?gclid=CN6_xKLV-rkCFUTNOgodOjIAug
- Laws by state or country -
(The Universal Church is OK as long as one does not get corralled into excessive
tithing of assets and time.)
http://www.lightbearerministries.org/media/holy-matrimony-documents/
State License vs God's
(Blaine, Minnesota)
http://www.lightbearerministries.com/
files/6313/8300/3224/a_congregational_leader_must_only_have_one_wife_right_wrong.pdf
(very odd/weird)
2nd
Marriages
Cain,
Paula White -
https://jimbakkershow.com/news/dont-stop-believing-watch-journeys-jonathan-cain-paula-white-cain-demand/
Cain, Paula White -https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/something-greater-pt-1-paula-white-cain
Cain, Paula White -
https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/something-greater-pt-2-paula-white-cain
Hill,
Scott and Dani - 1/6/2010 testimony using Kenneth Copeland's
Prayer, Your Foundation for Success -
http://www.bvov.tv/asx/bvov/100106.asx
http://jesus-comes.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/EBook-Volume-7-Loveletters-from-Jesus-from-2016-01-01-2016-03-10.pdf
-
2/7/2016 - "Looking back on it, having 4 children with the wrong man left
serious repercussions in our lives. Eventually I would find the right path for
my life. He would find his & we would go 2 separate ways. The DNA in our
children was divided up in the same way. We were not 1 with the Lord.
Neither were our children. Had I married Ezekiel (initially) and had children
with him, how blessed they would be, because their genetic makeup would be much
more harmonious & inclined towards God. Nevertheless, God is still the
victor. Though the road is much rougher,
I trust Him to bring them all home. O dear young ones, don’t marry the wrong
man or woman. Wait for God’s appointed choice. You will never
regret it. Guard your heart closely. Do not give it away in an impetuous
moment. The demons always look for the times when you are tired or sick &
are not functioning in your normal strength of self-control.
Still, if you
cry out to Jesus, He will save you. It is your choice.
Jesus began to speak again, 'Now I will tell you a secret.
9x out of 10, when you feel tempted in this way, it is demonic. They have
a way of electronically sending impulses to certain points in your bodies
that will cause you to be aroused. They will do the same things to the
people around you, setting you up for an occasion of sin. They will, in fact,
also give you dreams to try and instigate fornication (&/or adultery).
I’m not talking here about the demons that stalk in the night to cause arousal
(incubus and succubus)...Rather, I am talking about masquerading demons who
appear in your dreams or thoughts looking like someone you know or have an
affection for, but in reality it is a demon...Be smarter than the enemy, My Children. Do not allow him to steal your purity or
compromise and ruin your lives with the wrong spouse. Wait until I designate a
spouse for you. Wait until I reveal a match truly made in Heaven. The
repercussions are lifelong and beyond even this generation. Yet know
that even now, if you’ve walked into the wrong relationship,
I can and will
still do what is necessary to help you lead a fulfilling life. Just remain
vigilant, faithful and obedient to Me.
It is not always in your power to win
every confrontation with evil, but it is in Mine..."
Kerr, Kat - Kat married a person NOT God's choice & allowed her
to divorce, repent & marry His (God's) FIRST choice. No children were
conceived until 2nd marriage.
2nd or 3rd Marriages
Kerr, Kat -
7 hours of Kat Kerr describing Heaven, from her many trips (Comp#2)
If you were married to 3 mates who make it to heaven, you are all best friends
when you arrive.
2nd or 3rd Marriages
Commentary
During dating, especially
during engagement, one or both dates/mates may self-sabotage or act
irresponsibly due to a negative self-image, believing Satan's lie that he/she is
2nd-hand junk, used goods. If one has asked the Trinity to forgive past
sins, but not yet taken/accepted/appropriated the forgiveness or perhaps not
forgiven oneself, this can perpetuate Satan's legal parasitic hold onto the mind
& emotions.
PRAYER:
I repent for believing the lies of Satan and accepting his thoughts & emotions,
which I now reject, in Jesus' name.
I repent for latching onto rather than refusing & rejecting negative emotions & thoughts.
I repent for not refusing any feeling & thought which is contrary to Your nature
& heart
revealed in Scripture.
I repent for not replacing any self-sabotaging idea with Your Words in
Scripture.
I now forgive myself. I also receive Your forgiveness.
I invite You Holy Spirit to indwell & rehabilitate my heart. Thank You
Holy Trinity.
I love you dearly. Amen
Find a good concordance & use it often with your Bible. Look up such
words as love.
Write the verses down.
Recite them often, but add your name to the verses, & speak the scriptures OUT
LOUD.
Remember, it is the Lord Who is our sufficiency, & not oneself, nor our mate.
Then we become freer to bless the Lord, ourselves, our mates, & others.
Remember, the most basic unforgivable sin (or nature of Satan) is to reject
Jesus as Messiah.
Self-rejection is not part of God’s nature.
Mate Choices
Toledo, Jonathan &
Jennifer -
http://www.sidroth.ws/2014/01/29/our-guests-jonatan-and-jennifer-toledo/
SID: Holy Spirit said “I’ll bless you if you marry
him, but he’s not My best choice.” - She decided at that young age “I’m
going for the gold.” I mean how few young women would do this. She was
crushed, but she said “God I love you more than anyone or anything.” God
honored that faith. Jennifer is now married to Jonatan Toledo.
Remarriage
Hinn, Benny -
http://www.bennyhinn.org/resources/email-friend/?link=media/2013-3-11.asx
- "3/3/2013, Pastor Benny & Suzanne Hinn stood before over
1,500 family members, Christian
leaders, friends & partners to celebrate the
restoration of their marriage.
The ceremony...at
Orlando’s Holy Land Experience,
was conducted by Dr. Jack Hayford...Reinhard Bonnke &
Suzanne’s father, Dr. Roy Harthern."
http://www.bennyhinn.org/resources/email-friend/?link=media/2013-3-12.asx
http://www.bennyhinn.org/resources/email-friend/?link=media/2013-3-13.asx
http://www.bennyhinn.org/resources/email-friend/?link=media/2013-3-14.asx
Marriage on the Rock #1
http://www.bennyhinn.org/resources/email-friend/?link=media/2013-3-15.asx
Marriage on the Rock #2
Lamb,
Joni 3/10/2023 introduces her divorced fiance Doug Weiss @
https://www.lightcast.com/embed/player.php?id=33567&type=vod&playlistPos=bottom&width=640&height=710#
@
https://www.daystar.com/shows/jonilamb/
Rafsanjani, Nazanene -
Not Your Parents' Parent Trap - Iranian family
- radio (secular) autobiography 11/23/2019 @
https://www.thisamericanlife.org/291/reunited-and-it-feels-so-good -
Dad attributes his enlightenment & change due to reading John Gray's book:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus
-
Savard, Liberty -
DIVORCE
AND REMARRIAGE @
http://www.libertysavard.com/keys_difficult_issues.html +
WHEN
IT'S TIME TO STOP STANDING FOR YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE AND FOCUS ON STANDING FOR
GOD'S PLANS AND PURPOSES FOR YOUR LIFE +
SOUL TIES FROM FORMER RELATIONSHIPS
Gary Whetstone -
http://www.gwwm.com/magazine_article.aspx
Old
Testament Scripture
Genesis 1:28 KJVer -
God said to them (Adam & Eve),
"Be fruitful, multiply and
replenish the earth."
Genesis 2:18-25 KJVer - 18God said, "It is not good that man
should be alone. I will make him a help meet (helpmate/helper
suitable) for him.
19Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field & every fowl of the air.
(He) brought them to
Adam to see what he would call them. Whatever Adam called every living
creature, that was the name.
20Adam gave names to all cattle, fowl of the air, & to every beast of the field.
There was not found a help meet for
Adam.
21The Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam & he slept. He took 1
of his ribs & closed up the flesh .
22The rib which the Lord God had taken from man, He made a woman & brought her to the man.
23Adam said, "This is now bone of my bones & flesh of my flesh.
She shall
be called woman, as she was taken out of man."
24Therefore shall a man leave his father & his mother & shall cling to his wife. They
shall be 1 flesh.
25They were both naked, the man & his wife, & were not ashamed.
Genesis 20:9-12 NKJV Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she
had born to Abraham, scoffing. Therefore, she said to Abraham, "Cast out
this bondwoman & her son; for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with
my son, mainly with Isaac.
The matter was very displeasing in Abraham's
sight because of his son.
God said to Abraham, "Do NOT let it be
displeasing (an offense) in your sight because of the lad
or because of your bondwoman. Whatever Sarah (your mate/prophesied
parentage partner) has said to you, listen to her voice; for in Isaac
your seed (descendants/heirs) shall be called (both the genetic/blood-line &
spiritual/invisible nation of Israel)."
(Spiritual insight: Matthew 19:4-6 KJVer below. Let
NO relative create a wedge in your marriage relationship.)
Genesis 38:8-10 KJVer - Judah said to
Onan, "Go in to your brother's wife, marry her, & raise up seed (heirs) to
(for) your brother. Onan knew that the seed (offspring)
should not be his
(heirs).
It came to pass when he went in to his brother's
wife, that he spilled it
(the sperm) on the ground, lest he should give seed
(offspring) to his brother.
The thing which he did
displeased the Lord; therefore He slew him.
Exodus 20:17 - Thou shall
not covet (lust/hunger after) thy neighbor's wife.
Deuteronomy 7:3-4 KJVer - Neither shall you make marriages
with them (the Gentiles who have other gods). Your daughter you shall not
give to his son; nor his daughter shall you take to your son, for they will turn
away your son from following Me that they may serve other gods.
The anger
of the Lord will be kindled against you & suddenly destroy you.
Deuteronomy 22:30 KJVer -
A man shall not take his father's
wife, nor discover (uncover) his father's skirt
(nakedness).
Deuteronomy 23:10 KJVer - Any man that is not clean by
reason of uncleanness (nocturnal emission/wet dreams)
that chances him by night, then shall he go abroad out of the camp. He
shall not come inside the camp. When evening comes on, he shall wash
himself with water.
When the sun is down, he shall come into the camp
again. (Spiritual insight = Man's sperm is sacred to God.)
Deuteronomy 25:5-10 KJVer - 5If brethren dwell together (live as a
couple) & 1 of them die & have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry
a stranger.
Her husband's brother shall go in to her, take her as a wife,
& perform the duty of a husband.
6The firstborn which she bears shall
succeed in the name of his brother who is dead, that his name be not put out of
Israel.
7If the man not take (refuses) his brother's wife, then his
brother's wife shall come to him in the presence of the elders & say, "My
husband's brother refuses to raise up to his brother a name in Israel.
He
will not perform the (conjugal) duty of my husband's brother."
8Then the
elders of his city shall call & speak to him (to see)
if he (continues) to stand to it and say, "I like not to
take her."
9Then the
brother's wife (may) come to him in the presence of the
elders, loose his shoe from off his foot, spit in his face, and say, "So shall
it be done to that man who will not build up his brother's house."
10His (blemished) name shall be
called (known in) Israel (as), the
house of him (the family) that has his shoe
(sandal) loosed. the occasion and because of the rain.
Ezra 9:1-2 NIV
- 1The leaders came to me (Ezra) and said, "The (exiled/deported) people of
Israel, including the priests & the Levites, have not kept themselves separate from the
neighboring peoples with their detestable practices, like those of the Canaanites,
Hittites, Perizzites, Jebusites, Ammonites, Moabites,
Egyptians, & Amorites.
2They have taken some of their daughters as wives for themselves & their sons, & have mingled the holy race
with the peoples around them. The leaders and officials have led the way in this
unfaithfulness."
(Spiritual insight: Some of these tribes are believed to include the
offspring/seed/giants of demons who had relations with women according to
Genesis 6:4. Additionally, some authors spiritualize these tribes to
represent the 'ites'/sins/demons/ problems in our own lives. The New
Testament does remind born-again Judeo-Christians NOT to be unequally yoked with
mates who do NOT believe in the Messiah, meaning not to enter into a marriage
with an unbeliever; however the New Testament does NOT advocate divorce.)
Ezra 10:2-3 NIV - 2Shecaniah, son of Jehiel, one of the descendants of Elam,
said to Ezra, "We have been unfaithful to lour god by marring foreign women from
the peoples around us.
But in spite of this, there is still hope for
Israel.
3Now let us make a covenant before our God to send away all
these women & their children, in accordance with the counsel
of my lord & of those
who fear the commands of our God.
Let it be done according to the (Torah)
Law."
Ezra 10:9-12 NIV - 9All the (Jewish) men of Judah and Benjamin had gathered
in Jerusalem.
On the 20th day of the 9th month, all the people were
sitting in the square before the (temple/synagogue) house of God, greatly
distressed by by the occasion & because of the rain.
10then Ezra the
priest stood up & said to them, "You have been unfaithful; you have married
foreign women, adding to Israel's guilt. Now make confession to the Lord,
the God of your fathers, & do His will.
Separate yourselves from the peoples
around you & from your foreign wives."
12The whole assembly
responded with a loud voice, "You re right. We must do as you say."
Psalm 55:20-21 KJVer - He
has broken his covenant. The words of his mouth were smoother than butter,
but war was in his heart. His words were softer than oil, yet they were
drawn swords (ready to wound).
proverbs/25-24.htm
- It's better to live in a corner on the roof (in a basement) than in
a house with a contentious/ brawling woman.
[This might b the right time to read the entire book of
proverbs/
not to finger point, but to get one’s own self into alignment with God 1st
as each of us has his own soul wounds needing 1st aid , before
addressing family issues.].
Hosea 1:2-3 NKJV - The
Lord said to Hosea, "Go take yourself a wife of harlotry
and children of harlotry, for the land has committed great harlotry by departing
from the Lord." So he went & took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim.
Hosea 2:2-5 NKJV - Bring charges, for
she is not (acting as) My
wife, nor am I (able to be)
her Husband.
Let her put away her harlotries from her sight, & her adulteries from between
her breasts; lest I strip her naked and expose her, as in the day she was born,
and make her like a wilderness, & set her like a dry land, & slay her with thirst. I will not have mercy on her children, for
they are the children of harlotry. Their mother has played the harlot. She who conceived them has behaved shamefully, for she said, 'I will go after my
lovers.'
Hosea 2:23 NKJV - (Nevertheless,) I will have mercy
on her who had not obtained mercy;
then I will say to those who were not
My people (and those who were not acting as My people/bride),
'You are My people!' They shall say, 'You are my God!'
Hosea 2:16 NKJV - Says the Lord,
"In that day you will call Me, 'My Husband,' & no longer
call Me, 'My Master.'"
Hosea 2:18 NKJV - In that
(coming) day I will make a covenant for
them.
Hosea 2:19-20 NKJV - I will
betroth you to Me forever. Yes, I will betroth you to Me
in righteousness and justice, in loving kindness and mercy.
I will
betroth you to Me in faithfulness.
You shall know the Lord.
(This is a daily prayer for the observant Jewish man.)
Hosea 3 NKJV - Then the Lord said
to me, "Go again, love a woman (Gomer)
who is loved by a lover and is committing adultery, just like the love of the
Lord for the children of Israel, who look to other gods & love the raisin
cakes of the pagans." So I bought her for myself for 15
shekels of silver, & 1.5 homers of barley.
I said to her, "You shall
stay with me many days.
You shall not play the harlot, nor shall you have
a man - so too, will I be toward you."
For the children of Israel shall abide many days without king or prince, without
sacrifice or sacred pillar, without ephod or teraphim. Afterward the
children of Israel shall return & seek the Lord their God & David their king.
They shall fear the Lord & His goodness in the latter days. (Spiritual insight:
Hosea is commanded to live out as a word picture the love of God towards us His
bride & Israel.
Hosea role-played the prophecy of what Jesus Christ
would do for the nation of Israel & all who believe in Him. Additionally,
Jesus is our role model, example in marriage.)
Malachi 2:13a Amplified -
This you do with double guilt.
Malachi 2:13b-14 NIV - You (husband)
flood the Lord's altar with tears. You weep and wail because He no longer
pays attention to your offerings or accept them with pleasure from your
hands. You ask, "Why?"
It is because the Lord is acting as the
witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith
with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.
Malachi 2:15-16 Amplified - Did not God make (you and your wife) one (flesh)?
Did not One (God) make you and preserve your spirit alive?
Why did God make you two (become) one?
Because He
sought a godly offspring (from your union).
Therefore, take heed to (of) yourselves.
Let no one
deal treacherously and be faithless to the wife of his youth.
The Lord, God of Israel, says, "I hate divorce, marital separation, & he who covers his
garment (wife) with violence. Therefore, keep a
watch upon your spirit (that it may be controlled by My Spirit),
that you deal not treacherously and faithlessly (with your marriage
mate).
Tobit 6:18 NAB (Catholic)
Do not be afraid,
for she was set apart for you before the world existed.
Tobit 7:11 NAB (Catholic) Your marriage to her has
been decided in heaven.
New Testament Scriptue
Matthew 1:18 TPNT (The Power New Testament)
While His mother Mary was betrothed* (engaged)
to Joseph,
before they came together she was found to have been made pregnant by the Holy
Spirit.
*(Footnote says, "The Jewish marriage began when the ketubah,
the marriage contract was signed.
Later the ceremony would be
performed and the marriage consummated.
In Jewish law they were
married, not betrothed, at the signing of the ketubah.)
Matthew 18:19 NASV - If 2 of you agree
on earth abut anything that they may ask,
it shall be done for them by My
Father Who is in heaven.
Matthew 19:4-6 KJVer - He answered,
"Have you not read, that He Who made them at the
beginning made them male & female and said, 'For this cause shall a man leave
father & mother & shall
cling to his wife; the 2 shall become 1 flesh?' They are no more 2 but 1
flesh.
What God has joined together, let no man put asunder!"
Matthew 19:8-9 KJVer - 8.He (Jesus) says, "Moses because of the hardness of your
hearts permitted you to put away (legally divorce/shrita)
your wives; but
from the beginning it was not so."
9.I say to you,
"Whoever shall put away
(legally divorce/shrita) his wife,
except for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery.
(Additionally,) whoever marries her who is
(not legally) put away
(undivorced/shvikta/without
legal
divorce papers), commits adultery." Healing Scripture Idioms from Aramaic New Testament
Luke 6:37-38 NIV - "Do
not judge and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, & you will not be
condemned.
Forgive, & you will be forgiven. Give, & it will be
given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running
over,
will be poured into your lap; for with the measure you use, it will be
measured to you."
Luke 18:4 KJV Everyone who exalts
himself shall be abased.
John 2:1-11 KJVer - There was a
marriage in Cana of Galilee. The mother of Jesus was there.
Both Jesus & His disciples were called to the marriage.
When they wanted
wine, the mother of Jesus said to Him, "They have no wine."
Jesus
said, "Woman, what have I to do with you? My hour has not yet come."
His mother said to the servants, "Do what He says." There 6 water pots of
stone, after the manner of (for the purpose of) purifying the Jews, containing
2-3 firkins (gallons) apiece (each). Jesus said, "Fill the water pots with
water." The filled them up to the brim. He said to them, "Draw (it)
out now & bear (it) to the governor (manager)
of the feast."
They bore
(took) it. When the ruler of the feast had tasted
the water that was made wine, he knew not where it was
(came from).
The servants which drew the water
knew.
The governor of the feast called the bride-groom saying, "Every man
at the beginning sets forth good wine.
When the men have drunk well
(a lot), then
(he serves) the worse
(wine). But you have get the good wine
until now
(last). This beginning (1st)
of miracles Jesus did in Cana of Galilee & manifested forth His glory.
His disciples believed on Him.
John 8:4,7,10-11 KJVer - 4"Master, this woman was taken
in adultery, in the very act. Moses in the law commanded that such should
be stoned. What do you say?"
7when they continued asking Him, He
lifted up Himself and said, "He that is without sin among you, let him 1st cast
a stone at her."
10When Jesus had lifted up Himself and saw none but the
woman,
He said, "Woman, where are your accusers? Has no man condemned
you?"
11she said, "No man, Lord."
Jesus said, "Neither do I
condemn you. Go and sin no more."
John 20:23 NASV - If you forgive the sins of any, their
sins have been forgiven.
(However, God forbid) If
you retain the sins of any, they have been retained.
Acts 5:1-9 KJVer - A certain man named Ananias
with Sapphira his wife sold a possession, kept back part of the price (his wife
also being privy to it) brought a certain part, & laid it at the
apostles' feet.
Peter said, "Ananias, why has Satan filled your heart to
lie to the Holy Ghost to keep back part of the land price? While it
remained, was it not your own? After it was sold, was it not in your own
power?
Why have you conceived this thing in your heart? You have
not lied to men, but to God."
Ananias hearing these words fell down &
gave up the ghost (died).
The young men arose, wound him up, carried
him out & buried him.
It was about 3 hours after when his
wife, not knowing what was done, come in.
Peter answered to (asked)
her, "Tell me whether you sold the land for so much?" She said, "Yes."
Peter said, "How is it that you have agreed together (with your
mate) to tempt the (Holy) Spirit of the
Lord?
Behold, the feet of them who have buried your husband are at the
door & shall carry you out (dead too).
Acts 5:29 KJVer -
Peter and the other apostles said, "We
ought to obey God rather than men."
Romans 1:24,26-28 KJVer - 24God gave
them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts to dishonor
their own bodies between themselves.
26God gave them up to vile
affections, for even their women did change the natural use into that
which is against nature.
27Likewise, the men, leaving the natural use
of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that
which is unseemly, receiving in themselves that recompense of their error.
28Even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over
to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient.
Romans 3:24-32 KJVer - 24God gave them
up to uncleanness through lusts of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodies
between themselves...
26for this cause God gave them up to vile affections.
Even their women did change the natural use
(of sex) into that which is against nature.
27Likewise men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one
(man) toward another.
Men with men working that
which is unseemly, receiving in themselves that recompense of their
error...
28God gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things which are
not convenient,
29 being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication,
wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness, full of envy, murder, debate, deceit,
malignity, whisperer,
30backbiters, haters of God, spiteful, proud, boasters,
inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31without understanding,
covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful,
32 who
knowing the judgment of God...commit such things worthy of death, not only do
the same, but have pleasure in them.
Romans 14:19 NASV - Let us pursue the things which make for peace & the building up of one another.
1st Corinthians 5:1 KJVer - There is fornication among you. Such fornication (adultery/incest) as is not so much as
(even named) among the Gentiles, that one should have his
father's wife.
1st Corinthians 6:17 NASV - One who joins himself to the Lord
is one spirit with Him.
1st Corinthians 7 NIV - "It is good for
a man not to marry, but since there is so much immorality, each man
should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband
should fulfill his marital duty to his wife & likewise the wife to her husband. The
wife's body does not belong to her alone, but also to her husband.
In the
same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone, but also to his
wife.
Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time,
so that you may devote yourselves
to prayer. Then come together again so
that Satan will not tempt you because of your
lack of self-control.
I
(Paul) say this as a concession, not as a command. I
wish that all men were as I am.
But each man has his own gift
from God. One has this gift. Another has that."
Now to the
unmarried & widows, I say, "It is good for them to stay unmarried,
as I am.
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry.
It is better to marry than to burn with passion."
10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord), "A wife must not
separate from her husband.
11If she does, she must remain unmarried or else
be reconciled to her husband.
A husband must not divorce his wife."
To the rest I say this (I, NOT the Lord), "If any brother has a wife who is not
a believer & she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. If
a woman has a husband who is not a believer & he is willing to live with her,
she must not divorce him. The unbelieving husband has been sanctified
through his wife, & the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her
believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean.
As it
is; they are holy. If the unbeliever leaves, let him do so.
A
believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances. God has called
us to live in peace.
How do you know, wife, whether you will save your
husband?
How do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to
him and to which God has called him. This is the rule I lay down in all
the churches. Was a man already circumcised when he was
called (to Jesus)? He should not become circumcised. Was a man
uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised.
Circumcision is nothing and un-circumcision is nothing. Keeping God's
commands is what counts. Each one should remain in the situation
which he was in when God called him. Were you a slave when you were
called? Don't let it trouble you; although if you can gain your freedom,
do so. He who was a slave when he was called by the Lord is the Lord's
freedman. Similarly, he who was a free man when he was called is Christ's
slave...You were bought at a price. Do not become slaves of men.
Brother, Each man,
as responsible to God, should remain in the situation God
called him to...Now about virgins. I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment
as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present
crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are. Are you
married? do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? do not look
for a wife.
If you do marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin
marries, she has not sinned. Those who marry will face many troubles in
this life. I want to pare you this.
What I mean, brothers, is that the time is short.
From now on those who
have wives should live as if they had none. Those who mourn, (live)
as if they did not. Those who
are happy, (live)
as if they were not. Those who buy something, (live)
as if they were not theirs to keep. Those who use the things of the world,
(live) as if not engrossed in them.
This world in
its present form is passing away...I would like you to be free from concern.
An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs - how he can please
the Lord. A married man is concerned about the affairs of this world - how
he can please his wife. His interests are divided. An unmarried woman or
virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs. Her aim is to be devoted to
the Lord in both body &
spirit.
A married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world -
how she can please her husband.
I am saying this for your own good,
not to restrict you, but that you may live a in a right way in undivided
devotion to the Lord. If anyone thinks he is acting improperly toward the
virgin he is engaged to, & if she is getting along in years, & he feels he ought to marry, he should do
as he wants.
He is not sinning. They should get married. The man who has settled
the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion, but has control over his
own will, & who had made up his mind not to marry
the virgin - this man also does the right thing.
So then, he who marries
the virgin does the right thing, but he who does not marry her does even better.
A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies,
she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. It
is my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is.
I think that I too
have the Spirit of God.
1st Corinthians 11:3 NASV - Christ is
(expected by God to be) the head of every man.
1st Corinthians 11:9 KJVer -
Neither was the man created
for the woman, but the woman for the man.
1st Corinthians 13:1-10 NKJV - 1Though I speak with the tongues of men & of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging
cymbal.
2Though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all
knowledge.
Though I have all faith, so that I would remove mountains, but have not
love, I am nothing.
3Though I
bestow all my goods to feed the poor, though I give my body to be burned, but
have not love, it profits me nothing.
4Love
suffers long and is kind.
Love does not envy. Love does not parade
itself, is not puffed up;
5does not
behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7bears all things, believes all
things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8Love
never fails. Whether there are prophecies, they will fail.
Whether there are tongues, they will cease.
Whether there is knowledge, it
will vanish.
9We know in part
and we prophesy in part,
10When
that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.
1st Corinthians 13:13 NIV - These 3 remain: faith, hope &
love, but the greatest of these is love.
2nd Corinthians 6:14 KJV - Be not unequally
yoked (bound) together
(engaged/promised/wed/go steady) with
(to) unbelievers. What fellowship has righteousness with
unrighteousness?
What communion has light with darkness?
Galatians 3:26-28 NASV - For you are
all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus...
There is neither Jew nor
Greek, slave nor free man, male nor female. You are all 1 in Christ Jesus.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJVer - The works of the flesh are manifest, which are:
adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft,
hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envy, murders,
drunkenness, reveling, & the
like, of which I told you before.
They who do such things shall not
inherit the kingdom of God.
Ephesians 4:26-27 KJVer - Be angry and sin not. Do not let the sun
down down upon your wrath.
Neither give place to the devil.
Ephesians 4:31-32 KJVer - Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, malice, clamor & evil speaking be put away from you.
Be tenderhearted, kind, & forgiving to one another, even as God for Christ's sake
has forgiven you.
Ephesians 5:3 KJVer -
Fornication, all uncleanness or
covetousness be not once named among you.
Ephesians 5:22 KJVer - Wives, submit yourselves to your own
husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:23-33 KJV - The husband is
the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.
He is
the Savior of the body. Therefore, as the church is subject to Christ, so
let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church & gave Himself
26for
it that He might sanctify & cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that He
might present to Himself a glorious church, not having spot (sin),
wrinkle (of the flesh/selfish), or any such thing. I should be holy
& without blemish.
28So
ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife
loves himself, for no man ever yet hated his own flesh. He nourishes &
cherishes it, even as (does) the Lord (nourish and
cherish) the church.
We are members of His body, flesh and bones.
For this cause shall a man leave his father & mother & be
joined to his wife.
The 2 shall become 1 flesh. This is a great
mystery; I speak concerning the church. Nevertheless, let everyone of you
in particular so love his wife even as himself; wife see that you
reverence your husband.
(Spiritual insight: Marriage is a triangle, with
the Lord above as the head.)
Philippians 2:2-4 ASV -
Be of the same mind; maintain the same love,
united in spirit, intent on 1 purpose.
Do
nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of
you regard one another as more important than himself.
Do not merely look
out for your your own personal interests,
but also for the interest of others.
Philippians 3:13-14 NAS - One thing I do - forgetting
what lies behind & reaching forward to what lies ahead,
I press on toward
the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
1st Thessalonians 4:3 KJVer -
This is
the will of God, even your sanctification,
that you should abstain from
fornication (porneia).
Hebrews 12:15 NIV -
See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root
grows up to cause trouble & defile many.
Hebrews 13:4 KJVer -
The undefiled
marriage bed is honorable, but whoremongers (fornicators)
and adulterers God will judge.
1st Peter 3:7 KJVer -
You husbands...give
honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel,
as being hers together of the
grace of life,
that your prayers be not hindered.
1st John 1:9 KJVer - If we confess our sins, He is faithful & just to forgive our sins
& to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness.
Revelation 22:14-15 KJVer - Blessed are they that
do His commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life &
may enter in through the gates into the city.
Outside are the dogs
(sodomites), sorcerers, whoremongers,
murderers, idolaters, & whosoever loves & makes a lie (sexual perverts).
Books
Bevere, John - The Bait of Satan - book, audio or DVD -
www.johnbebere.org
-
Chapter 7 The Sure Foundation shares the
author's 5 year marriage struggle & commitment to stay the course, not to divorce, not to be offended,
& to allow God to
fix his character flaws exposed in the intimacy of marriage.
Running away, escaping,
does not allow God the opportunity to increase our
spiritual maturity/muscle.
Bubeck, Mark I. - The
Adversary - the Christian Versus Demon Activity
www.deeperwalkinternational.org/ -
Bubeck implores us to daily pray aggressively for our
mates and our marriages, + to pray aloud together.
Carothers, Merlin - Secret Sins -
http://www.foundationofpraise.org/secretsins.html
Chapman, Gary D - The 5 Love Languages - book,
audio, or CD -
www.garychapman.org -
If your love tank is full, you can work out any problems. Each person has
one of 5 languages as his primary love language, which is the way he/she relates
to others.
He/she needs to learn his/her mate's primary love language. Read
this Amazon book
Chapman, Gary D -
Covenant Marriage: Building Communication & Intimacy
-
Read this Amazon book
Chapman, Gary D -
Now You're Speaking My Language
Subtitle =
Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a Stronger Marriage Read this Amazon book
Cho, Rev David
Yonggi of Korea
http://english.fgtv.com/drcho/main.asp -
http://english.fgtv.com/yfgc.pdf -
Books
= Successful Home Cell Groups in chapter
2 - God's Reeducation Program says that God explained to Cho,
"Think of a marriage...When a man marries a
woman, he...loves her & shares his life with her - intimately.
That is the kind of relationship you are to have with the Holy Spirit."
Chapter 12 Importance of Fellowship with the Holy Spirit shares "that the
Holy Spirit is more than the Spirit of being born again, more than the Spirit of
power.
He's a person, but a person who lives inside me. To live with
a person means to have (daily/continual intimate)
fellowship with that person." God also told Cho to make Him
#1, self #2,
mate #3, children #4, church/ministry/work #5, in that order.
Chapter 13
Motivating Lay Leadership shares that "to have a loving home, the husband
& wife need to touch each other very often." Additionally, each mate needs
to recognize, appreciate, praise & celebrate the other's
accomplishments, at least weekly.
Look for the good points and overlook
the faults. Cho will not even eat supper without
his wife, out of
love/deference to her. An appreciated/recognized mate seldom will stray.
Cho, Rev David
Yonggi - The 4th Dimension -
www.bridgelogos.com publisher
Chapter 3 The Creative Power of the
Spoken Word shares how Cho prayed for a couple
who decided to divorce, "In
the name of Jesus Christ, I command Satan to loose his
hold of hatred on
this couple.
An in this moment, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ
I
command that these 2 be melted together.
Let them be tender & rejoined."
Just prior to this Cho had visualized the couple
reunited and in love, through the cross of Jesus Christ, by the help of the Holy
Spirit. He prayed, "Oh, God, make it like that."
The Holy Spirit did
knit the marriage back together.
Crosse, Clay - I Surrender All
Clay and Renee
Crosse: Broken by pornography
(9/11/05)
D'Andrea, Molly -
Set Free -
www.setfreeif.org
-
Chapter 12 Betrayed by Man, Restored by God shares a
mate's challenge, "Enough is enough. Satan wants to destroy our family & I am
not going to let him do it...
You are my husband until death. That's final."
Yes, she won.
Davisson, Joel and Kathy
-
The Man
of Her Dreams The Woman of His
DeMoss, Bob, and Rainey -
Rekindling the Romance - Loving the Love of Your Life #
0785285563
Dickerman,
Don - When Pigs Move In -
http://www.dondickerman.net -
Dickerman in Appendix lists 37 Biblical Curses, Grouping of
Various Evil Spirits by function/assignment, and 60 Symptoms of
Demonic Attack.
Chapter 4 How Do Demons Access Believers? "Sex outside of
(or before) marriage cannot only open doors for demons, but it can also create a
soul tie that gives them permission
to stay until that curse is broken."
This soul tie affects the individual, his mate, plus his seed, until broken,
because it concerns both a demon and a curse."
Eggerich, Emmerson & Sarah - chapter 1 -
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Respect-Desires-Desperately-Needs/dp/1594153205#reader_1594153205
-
http://loveandrespect.com/ -
http://emersonandsarah.blogspot.com/
Ferrell, Ana - Seated in Heavenly Places -
www.voiceofthelight.com -
Chapter 4 Christ a Kingdom of Love
Section A Trip Inside the Heart
of God -
"He who perverts the marriage bed, touches the holy of holies."
Section The Spouse of Christ - "Jesus...greatest manifestation is as
'Groom'...to become His spouse...entering into a covenant and marital unity
with Him...now, as we are alive on earth...When we get married on earth we
become 'one flesh.' When we get married to Jesus, we become '1
Spirit'...We don't see a wedding ceremony in Revelation Chapter 19,
but a supper...the communion table in which we partake of His flesh & His
blood.
As we partake of these elements, the fusion takes place
between His Spirit & ours....
There are different levels of relationship with the Lord...of a son...of
servant...of the bride...
His 'bride' is not seeking inheritance or rewards or position or fame; she
wants Him...
This is His cry, 'That they all may be 1,
as Thou, Father art in Me
and I in Thee.'
John 17:21...This is
what fills My heart with fullness, the true
and sincere worship of
My beloved'...
It is to
the bride that the intimate secrets of the Groom are revealed...
This kind of
love kills (self)...It costs to truly love...'I am
choosing from among My people those who will be My bride...&
I am going to transfigure Myself into them...because
I honor those who honor Me....and are
(not) more afraid of man than of Me.'"
Feldhahn, Shaunti - For Women Only -
www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=5151
-
Intimacy issues.
Francis, John & Penny -
What Do You Do When You’re Left Alone? -
www.johnfrancis.org.uk/biography.html
Ruach Ministries, 122 Brixton Hill, London, SW2 1RS, UK (England)
Francis, John & Penny -
John's wife shares her insight on how the Jewish prayer shawl relates to
prayer.
Bishop
Francis
2006 TV appearance with Benny Hinn
Garlington, Joseph - Right or Reconciled: God's Heart for Reconciliation
Gedamu, Rabbi Kokeb - After the Honeymoon
-
http://www.hoisrael.org/After%20The%20Honeymoon_C.pdf
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
on a Date -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
in Love -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus - Connecting with Your Soul-Mate -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus in the Bedroom -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus Together Forever - Understanding the Cycles of Intimacy -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Men are from Mars - Women are from Venus
-
A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John & Amen, Daniel G -
The Mars & Venus Diet & Exercise Solution
- Crease the Brain Chemistry of Health, Happiness &
Lasting Romance
Gray, John - What You Feel, You Can Heal -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - A Guide to Enriching Relationships -
A guide to communication -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Practical Miracles for Mars & Venus - 9
Principles for Lasting Love, Increasing Success & Vibrant
Health in the 21st Century -
www.marsvenus.com
1 - Believe - as if miracles
are possible.
2 - Live - as
if you are free to do what you want.
3 - Learn - as if
you are a beginner.
4 - Love - as if for
the 1st time.
5 - Give - as
if you already have what you need.
6 - Work - as if money
does not matter.
7 - Relax - as if
everything will be OK.
8 - Talk to God - as if you are being heard.
9 - Feast - as if
you can have whatever you want.
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
Starting Over -
www.marsvenus.com
Hagin, Kenneth E (senior) -
Marriage, Divorce & Remarriage
@ www.rhema.org
13 page print out
Read an Excerpt or
a man to whom God spoke personally on numerous occasions.
If still available, find @
http://www.faithlibrary.com/resources/bm536_exerpt.pdf
Hammond, Frank D - The Marriage Bed -
www.thechildrensbread.net -
Webster's dictionary definition of sodomy is "carnal copulation with a member of
the same sex or animal, or unnatural carnal copulation with the member of the
opposite sex". Marital oral or anal sex can be an open door to lesbianism
or homosexuality & to the spreading of
sexually transmitted disease such as herpes. There are oral sex and
lesbian spirits.
Hammond, Frank & Ida Mae - Kingdom Living for the
Family -
www.thechildrensbread.net -
A wrong reaction is a wrong action. When a husband
reacts wrongly to his wife, then he also has a problem.
We cannot justify
our own sin, because another has done wrong.
Harley, Dr.
Willard, Christian psychologist, marriage counselor, and co-author of
Surviving an Affair -
www.marriagebuilders.com
-
http://www.cbn.com/family/marriage/affairproof.aspx
Harley,
Dr. Willard
His Needs
Her Needs - Building an Affair Free Marriage -
Chapter 1 - How Affair Proof is Your Marriage?
Chapter 2 -
Why Your Love Bank Never Closes
http://www.worldcat.org/wcpa/servlet/DCARead?standardNo
=0800717880&standardNoType=1&excerpt=true (Copyright
© 2001 by Willard F. Harley, Jr.. Excerpted by permission.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted
without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc.solely for the personal use of
visitors to this web site.)
Harley,
Dr. Willard - Cultivating
Affection in Your Marriage -
http://www.textfiles.com/sex/affectio.txt
(Material is excerpted from Dr. Harley's book HIS
NEEDS, HER NEEDS (c)1986 by William F. Harley Jr., and was used with
permission of Fleming H. Revell Company)
Harley,
Dr. Willard - Can't We Just
Forgive and Forget? Dr. Harley requires "just compensation" +
forgiveness for adultery.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5042_qa.html or
printer version
Hayes, Norvel - How to Live and NOT Die -
www.nhm.cc -
Chapter 13 Be the Head of Your House
"When
you're married, you can get a healing for your husband or wife, because the 2
of you are 1...The Lord spoke to me (Norvel) and said, 'Mark 11:23 will
heal him (the husband) if it was obeyed'...The
way to get the Holy Spirit to perform Mark 11:23 is to quote it. It
says, 'You can have what you say'...'Believe that those things which he saith
shall come to pass; he shall have what-soever he saith. Mark 11:23.
(Norvel instructed the wife,) 'Sit here and obey it. Look at your husband
straight and say, "My husband will live and not die,
in Jesus' name. My
husband will live and not die, in Jesus' name." Say it strongly all
the
time...Don't stop saying it, and he will live and not die'...That's what I call
attending to God's Word and NOT letting it depart from your eyes. (Proverbs
4:20-22)...WHEN you CONFESS God's Word, it WILL be performed by the Holy
Spirit."
Indeed, the husband did recover, to the doctors' surprise.
Hegstrom, Paul - Broken Children, Grown Up Pain
- Understanding the Effects of Your Wounded Past www.lifeskillsinstl.org
- Chapter 7 I'm Single, On My Own - Is This All There Is? "God
showed me that I
had to identify my needs, so that the people in my live would
have a 'finish line'."
Clearly define "a need and then identify whether
that need can be met by ourselves, our partners, or jointly. By
establishing a finish line, we can face the need as a couple...
We can also
bring them to God...determining a finishing line for our need is crucial."
Hill,
Craig - 2 Fleas - No Dog - Transform Your Marriage from Fleadom to Freedom
- http://www.familyfoundations.com/
- Littleton, Colorado, USA -
Covenant weekends or functions -
http://www.familyfoundations.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&layout=blog&id=45&Itemid=140&lang=en
in your area
http://www.familyfoundations.com/index.php?option=com_wrapper&view=wrapper&Itemid=195&lang=en
Hinson, Michael -
To Heal the Heart
- Live Life to the Fullest -
www.tohealtheheart.com
www.hinsonministries.com
Chapter 9 The Truth about Covenants In addition to the
Passover covenant, Hinson contends there are only 3 blood
covenants - (1) Old Testament covenant sealed with
circumcision (and regular sacramental blood sacrifices),
(2) New Testament covenant sealed with the blood of Christ
on the cross (and regular sacramental wine/communion), (3)
and the marriage contract (sealed with the hymen being torn
during intercourse).
The marriage contract is the only one representing the union between
Christ
and His bride.
Matthew 19:4-6 NIV "Haven't you read,
that at the beginning, the Creator made them male and female and said, 'For this
reason a man will leave his father and mother and
be united to his wife;
the 2 will become 1 flesh'? So they are no longer 2, but 1.
Therefore, what God has joined together, let man not separate."
1st Corinthians 6:16 "Do you not know that he who unites
himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The
2 will become 1 flesh." Any sexual violation of the
marriage contract results in harm to 3+ people.
Because sexual intercourse/intimacy results in 2 becoming 1 flesh, violation of
the marriage contract can result in sexually transmitted disease, demons
(nightmares/fears/ terrors) being transferred, and even stronghold
(character defects/new traits not normal to your own previous identity/hang-ups)
transference between individuals; the same issues/ dangers
that one would have with a blood transfusion or organ transplant.
Jefferson, MB of Tampa, Florida -
And They Shall Become One -
www.mbministries.org
Keesee, Gary -
The Best of the Marriage Makeover -
www.fflc.info
www.faithlifechurch.org
Family of Faith Open Bible Church, New Albany, Ohio, USA
Kelley, Earthquake -
Order book #1122 "Bound to Lose, Destined to Win"
http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/ -
Chapter 2 - A Curse of Voodoo -
There are "names and assigned duties of
the spirits that attach themselves to people
who engage in sexual
relationships outside of marriage." "Erzulie" is "the main
principality
that rules over any king of sexual perversion...Some voodoo practitioners pray
to this spirit, beat drums, go into a trance, and have sexual relations with
people all night long - and sometimes all week long." "The Fox
spirit...causes separation and division."
Chapter 4 A Trip to Hell - "My pastor finally said to me, 'You don't have
to stay with a woman who is committing adultery, living with another man, and
trying to have you killed every other week. If she doesn't kill you
with a gun, she's going to kill you with a disease. You are biblically
free to divorce the woman.'"
Klaus, Rita - Rita's Story -
Paraclete Press - Chapter 19 Pieces shares priestly counsel. "I really doubt the
(religious) vows you made were even valid. 18 is too
young for a person to make such a commitment. That's why we've closed most
of our minor seminaries (for the clergy) and why we do not
encourage our young people to marry at that age. They simply do not have
the wisdom to make a responsible decision that will affect the rest of their
lives."
Ladas, Whipple, and Perry - The G
Spot and Other Discoveries About Sexuality -
www.amazon.com -
A secular book recommended for those who feel there is a
sexual dysfunction in their physical relationships or in their own body (perhaps
due to such as birth control, menopause or other hormone issues).
Especially recommended for women.
Book explains both the clitoris/vulval
and vagina/uterine organisms, the female ejaculation, plus both the male penis
and prostate erotic arousal areas.
Sexuality issues are presented as neutral/optional in this and many textbooks.
One area of concern is imagery/fantasy,
which can lead Christians into demonic sexual spirit
interference/molestation/kidnapping of thought, thought life sin -
pornography/adultery/fornication/digging up the past, plus self gratification
rather than mate gratification. Achieving an organism through self gratification
can violate the sexual partner. One also needs to take into consideration
sexually transmitted diseases from
the mate's mouth being in the partner's
private areas (vagina/anus) or penis in another's mouth, plus the danger of
disease (cancer/aids/HIV) from having anal sex.
Lew, Mike - Victims No Longer - Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse
-
Mike Lew is a secular psychotherapist, co-director of The Next Step
Counseling
and Training Center, Newton Centre, Massachusetts, USA
Madison, Richard - Raised from the Dead -
www.rickmadison.org
-
Chapter 9 Dreams and Visions "The Lord gave me a dream of my wife
before we were married...She came up to me and told me that God had revealed to
her that we would
be married." (Never jump into a marriage. WAIT on
the Lord's direction! Of supreme significance in one's life is 1st one's
consecration to Christ, followed by one's consecration to his/her mate.
When 2 become 1 flesh, it is actually all past sexual partners becoming
1 flesh,
for beginners.)
MacNutt, Francis - Deliverance from Evil Spirits -
www.christianhealingmin.org
Chapter 8 Curse-like Judgments and Ties that Bind section Sexual Ties
insist that premarital counseling (pre-cana classes) needs
to incorporate repentance, rejection,
and breaking of each premarital full
sexual/physical/psychological relationship/ bond/tie. Pray to be set free
of all past lovers; pray for God to bless them.
Then pray for God's Holy
Spirit to bless you individually and to bless your marriage.
1st Corinthians 6:16 KJV - "Do you not know that he who (fornicates/commits adultery) is joined to a harlot (prostitute) is 1 body with her.
'The 2,' He says, 'shall become 1 flesh.'"
MacNutt cites Tommy Tyson stating that Jesus needs to sever each
previous sexual liaison, or a permanent bond will remain until it is broken by
some sort of deliverance prayer. These uncut bonds will create spiritual
confusion and marriage bedfellows.
Chapter 11 Selecting a Team notes that the example of Billy Graham is
imperative.
He never allows himself to be alone in a room with a woman,
other than his wife.
Spirits of lust find much opportunity in a demonized
person who needs ministry.
Meyer, Joyce - Walking in Love - book or audio
-
www.joycemeyer.org -
THE TRIUMPHANT MARRIAGE - Joyce Meyer Ministries
or
http://www.jmmindia.org/JMMSITE/jmm/ministries/Teaching%20Notes/TN35%20-%20THE%20TRIUMPHANT%20MARRIAGE.pdf
Meisner, Bob and Audrey - Marriage Under Cover -
book/CD/DVD -
www.bobandaudrey.com
-
Autobiography of pastor's wife who did not have any
boundaries due to her need for danger and self worth, committed adultery which
resulted in a pregnancy, and was forgiven and rescued by her husband.
They both learned how to view themselves and each other through God's eyes...Often
we do not forgive ourselves, after God has forgiven us, the first time we asked.
Additionally we often do not accept God's forgiveness.
5/21-22/2006
www.daystar.com/joni
Omartian, Stormie - The Power of a Praying Husband -
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
Omartian, Stormie - The Power of a Praying Wife -
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
Prince, Derek - The Marriage Covenant -
www.derekprince.com
Prince, Derek -
God is a Matchmaker - (for singles) www.derekprince.com -
Shares that God chose Ruth for Derek's mate.
Look inside book @
http://www.amazon.com/God-Matchmaker-Derek-Prince/dp/0800790588#reader_0800790588
Prince, Derek - Rules of Engagement -
www.derekprince.com -
Prince illustrates our oneness with the Holy Spirit to our marriage.
It is not what we do, but who/Who we are married to that affects our
relationship/fruit.
Chapter 16 Angelic Intervention in Human Lives warns wives. "The
woman ought to have
a symbol of authority on her head (in church),
because of the (nephilim/fallen) angels
(evil spirits who rape wives and daughters)." 1st Corinthians 11:10
Note. The Jewish community wear skull caps to synagogue, as do a
number of Catholic clergy, showing that God is their covering, as is a
husband/dad the covering to a woman. Refer to 1st Corinthians 11:3 The
head of every man is Christ, the (spiritual) head of
every
woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
Rainey, Dennis & Barbara -
Moments Together for Couples -
Devotions for Drawing Near to God & One Another -
www.familylife.com
-
Excellent for
couples contemplating separation/divorce.
This is a daily devotional, designed for couples. Similar to the Upper
Room devotional. Quick read. Sampling =
Day 24 Believing the Lie "He commented, 'He's believing the lie
(thought from Satan).
He thinks that
the most important thing is to feel good. But what really feels good is working
through the problems.'"
Rainey, Dennis & Barbara - The Cord of 3 Strands Is
Not Quickly Broken -
You, me and God.
Radio broadcasts -
http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3843443//
Troubled Marriage - http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3204389/
Healthy Marriage -
http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3204381/
Romance & Sex -
http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3204387/
Rainey, Dennis -
http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3812891/
Roberson, Dave - Dave Robertson
Ministries, Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA - The Walk of the Spirit - The Walk of Power
http://www.daveroberson.org/
-
[PDF]
The Walk of the Spirit — The Walk of Power -
www.daveroberson.org/Portals/0/WOSWOP.pdf +
Printer
Friendly Version -
Book is for
personal NOT commercial use.
Is copyrighted. - 6/12-16/2006 RADIO @
www.sidroth.org
Chapter 10 Purging and Mortification reminds us that
without the Holy Spirit exposing and pulling out the marriage root
issues/problems, no counselor and no heroic effort on the
part of either mate
will solve a marriage problem. Consistently praying in tongues allows the
Holy Spirit to get at those root problems. (Dave believes that the
heavenly tongues language is available to every believer when he is
prayed over for the baptism of the Holy Spirit, immediately after he has
received/accepted Jesus as his personal savior/Lord.)
Chapter 15 The Divine Progression to Agape Love -
warns/reminds us that love is NOT a feeling or attitude, but a commitment
Roberts, Oral - When You See the
Invisible, You Can do the Impossible - www.orm.cc -
Chapter 11 Seven Keys I Learned for a Successful
Marriage shares that the most excellent way is to wait/look for God's
first choice of a mate -
There is no substitute for marrying in God's will.
Marry in God's
time.
Marry for life (a born-again, spirit filled mate).
Practice sex often (instead of grabbing a beer,
grab your wife!)
Pray (in tongues/interpretation) together.
Read scripture together.
Never place self in the path of temptation.
Communicate.
Roberts, Evelyn (Mrs. Oral Roberts) -
His Darling Wife, Evelyn - www.orm.cc
Rooks, Linda W -
Broken Heart on
Hold - Surviving Separation -
www.cookministries.com/lifejourney -
www.kingsway.co.uk
-
Useful for
either mate/sex during marriage separation. Book points out that there are
usually 2 sides to what/whose personality problems contribute to a separation.
Separation/ time-out is a good time/opportunity to grow up emotionally,
spiritually, financially, etc. If I am a fat slob, then now is a perfect
time to do something about it. For beginners, mow that lawn instead of
hiring/asking/expecting someone else to do it for you. Exercise helps with
depression, finances, and fat elimination.
Savard, Liberty - Now, It's Time to Begin
Producing the Promise
http://www.libertysavard.com
-
Savard's doctrine contends that the majority of our
failures are due to me/myself/I, the soul/old self/nature. Per Chapter
7
Casting Off Soul Power and Soul Ties, Savard is a disciple of Watchman
Nee, who teaches on soul and spirit (where the human soul has
much latent
parapsychology power and can falsify the Holy Spirit). Savard does apply
the principle of loosing problems and binding blessings. In the area of
marriage she warns of the dangers of soul ties to one's mate and children.
Soul ties are an unhealthy attempt
to meet/fix unmet needs rather than relying
on God to meet/heal those needs.
It can also be an attempt to
control/fix/rule another. Savard includes a few loosing/binding prayers to
help remedy these issues.
Shu Zen Duan, Irene -
Our God is Real - Testimonies from My Life - Family tales
from China -
Section 1 Women in Old China Part 3 No Freedom in Marriage notes
that on the wedding night "when the guests and relatives left. Only then
the groom could take off her veil.
At that moment, in some cases, the
bride discovered her husband was physically handicapped, mentally retarded or a
little body who was 10 - 15 years younger than her, and she became his
baby sitter...On the night of the wedding, the bride (sometimes) discovered her
husband was a piece of wood with his name carved on it...The woman would be
(thus condemned to) living as widow her whole life.."
Sumrall, Lester -
Two become one: A Christian wedding celebration -
www.sumrallpublications.com
Sumrall, Lester - The Mystery of
Immortality -
www.sumrallpublications.com -
Chapter 3 Why Is Adultery Involved in
Immortality? -
"Adultery or any immoral perversion touches the fountain of life and corrupts
it...
God finds it difficult to forgive him, and his fellow man finds it nearly
impossible (even generations after)...Because of this (or any other immoral
sexual) sin...there are millions...who are deformed and insane, who possess
strange lusts that no psychiatrist
can understand...Repentance and conversion
restores (the sinner to God)."
"Angels cannot produce children (nor)...angels. This (procreation)
privilege is so sacred to God that the person who violates this great principle
of immortality becomes a marked person. [Begetting immortality means that
the offspring a couple creates will live forever in heaven with God (or forever
in hell with Satan, if they do not repent for their own and their family sins,
and if they do not accept Yeshua as savior and lord). This ability to
create immortal beings is one aspect of divinity granted to men and women - not
to angels.]
Thomas, C -
Making Your Marriage a Love Story -
Read this Amazon book
Walters, Kathie - Columba - The Celtic Dove -
www.goodnews.netministries.org
-
Part 2 - Miracles - Irish Catholic Saint Columba
was beseeched by a Rechrean island peasant to pray for his marriage, as the wife
would not consent to being intimate with him. Columba entreated the wife, "Why,
woman, do you try to drive your own flesh away from you, when the Lord says,
'They 2 shall be 1 flesh?'...That (legal/physical/sexual separation of) which you
speak cannot rightly be done,
for you are bound by the law (marriage/religious contracts you signed) to your
husband
as long as he lives. For those whom God has lawfully joined, it is a sin
to separate.' Having said this, he added, 'This day let us 3 pray and
fast to the Lord.'" Subsequently she testified, "'Your prayer to God for
me is heard, for him whom I hated yesterday,
I love today, for my heart this
night past has been changed.'"
per Book 2,
chapter 42 of Medieval sourcebook - Adamnan's Life of St Columba
-
http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/basis/columba-e.html
Weiss, Doug of Santa Ana, California, USA -
Intimacy - www.winning@marriage.com
Weiss, Doug - Weekly Newsletters -
http://www.winningatmarriage.com/
Articles/Editorials/Newsletters/Periodicals/Transcripts
Bevere, Lisa -
http://www.cfaith.com/index.php/index.php/article-display?id=27245 -
The Power of Forgiveness (in marriage)
@
Joel Osteen Ministries
http://www.cfaith.com/index.php
"At the time, I didn’t understand how important it
was for me to forgive John.
I later realized that my bitterness toward my husband was warring
against his
ability to change, for Jesus said, 'If you
forgive anyone’s sins, they are forgiven.
If you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.'
(John 20:23)"
Boardman, LS -
http://www.enterhisrest.org/articles/divorce_remarriage.pdf
Brown, Rebecca -
http://www.harvestwarriors.com/newsletters/July%20and%20August%202004%20-%20Ghosts%20from%20the%20Past.pdf
-
"In the case of sexual sin or molestation,
rape, etc., the scripture says that the '2 become one flesh.' There is a
joining of the 2 people through sex. I do not know what to call it, some people
call it a 'soul-tie.' Since I have been married, I think this joining goes
even deeper than that. This tie needs to be broken. So, for every person with
whom you have sinned sexually, been molested or raped by, or were married
to and then divorced, you need to pray like this:
Prayer: Father, in the name of Jesus,
I now ask you to totally sever
between me and ________ (give the name), body, soul,
and spirit. I ask you for it, and thank you for it.
** Marriage also involves the complete union of 2 people. There is no sin in the
sexual relations of marriage, but demons are free to pass from one person to
another.
Thus, you need to cleanse yourself from this possible source of
demons and then ask
the Lord to seal you so that you can no longer receive
demons from this source.
If you have been married and then divorced, you
need also to command any demons out that came into you through previous
marriages. Pray and command as follows: Prayer: Father, in the name of Jesus,
I ask you to completely cleanse me
from any uncleanness in my marriage bed.
I stand on your promise, and ask
you to sanctify
my marriage bed and seal me so that I can never again receive
any spirits from my spouse. I thank you for it.
Command: In the name of Jesus Christ, I command any demons that came into
my life through my sexual relations with my spouse to get out right now and
forever.
** In the case of those who have been involved in homosexual relationships of
any sort, they need to pray fervently asking the Lord to literally recreate
their minds. Romans 1:2628 tells us that when people become involved in
homosexual sin, that God literally gives them a 'debased mind.' This is a mind
that is only capable of thinking evil and depraved and sinful thoughts all the
time. God does (allows) this, so only God can change it. It is vitally important
that after cleansing their life, anyone coming out of this particular area of
sin seek the Lord to give them a new mind, and that they assist in that process
through saturating their life with scripture memory and praise and worship."
Eggerichs, Emerson and Sarah -
http://loveandrespect.com/blog/ - 3 Ways to
Murder Your Marriage + Disrespect 2015
Haywood,
Leilani -
Did You Marry the Wrong Guy? by Leilani Haywood
-
"The
Lord
revealed the
agenda in my heart that was a stumbling block to our becoming one.
He
assured me that I
had married the right person. I just needed to get rid of the
agenda and
become the right
person for him. The Lord made it clear that my
attitude toward Jerome
would either facilitate
the move of God in our marriage or shut
it out. I decided to give up my
hidden agenda and
concentrate on being the right mate
for him. As I shifted my focus from
Jerome's becoming
what I thought God had called
him to be to my becoming who God wanted me to
be,
my husband and I have become
best friends" 2/25/2016
J. John -
http://www.philotrust.com/blog/category/articles
- Kings Gate Community Church,
2 Staplee Way, Parnwell, Peterborough, ENGLAND PE1 4YT
Daniel
Olukoya
-
The Soul Traders - (CAUTION. Invite the Holy Spirit
to counsel your insights.) "Soul traders are those who
buy and sell the souls of
men."
Ezekiel 13:18
says, 'Say, Thus saith the
Lord God;
Woe to the women that sew pillows to all
armholes, and mak
Read Full Sermon -
WAYS to RECOGNIZE
THOSE WHOSE SOULS (may) HAVE BEEN TRADED OFF:
5. If you discover that you have a
double
personality or
unpredictable personality traits,
or you walk about
feeling lifeless as if all your energy have been drained
off, or you are married but cannot detach your
mind from your former
girlfriend or boyfriend. Then your soul
(possibly) has been
traded off.
6. When you discover that your mind cannot focus
on one thing for a long time,
and you also find it difficult to concentrate
in thinking through solutions to a problem without
digressing,
or in your dream
you always see 2-3
people,
or somebody looking exactly like your figure just
starring at you....
When a person’s (soul:) real emotion and
intellect are polluted,
he has a great problem.
That is why you find some zombie
(robot) wives and husbands who can hardly take independent decisions.
Their (fragmented/fractured) souls (soul pieces) need to be
called back and
healed completely through
the divine intervention of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Dr. D. K. Olukoya
-
http://www.amazon.com/The-Deep-Truth-About-Marriage-ebook/dp/B009GSX0WM/ref=pd_sim_kstore_76?ie=UTF8&refRID=0999EKA2DJ1YK0SPMZCK#reader_B009GSX0WM
Read Chapter 1 online regarding adultery.
Proverbs 5 and 7
NASB "describe the portal to Hell is illustrated by a
wicked
adulterous woman (or man) who is very cunning and tempting."
http://earlymorningmanna.com/blasts/11qYesJu3R/11Apr01.html
5Her
feet
(J)go
down to death, Her (or his) steps take hold of Sheol.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%205,7;&version=NASB;
Savard, Liberty -
http://www.libertysavard.com/keys_difficult_issues.html
The Epoch Times 12/12-18/05 editorial
Love Hurts? So Does a Wounded Marriage from Chicago Reuters news cites
a December Archives of General Psychiatry report that fighting weakens
both mate's immune systems by triggering the white blood cells to increase
production of protein proinflammatory cytokines, which can contribute to early
healing,
but can also trigger/contribute to age-related disease (cardiovascular,
osteoporosis, arthritis, depression).
www.epochtimes.com
The Boston Herald - 4/14/2007 -
www.betsyhart.net shares
that studies have rediscovered that the more women friends a wife has the less
need a wife has to depend on the emotional support of her mate. This
female mentoring can reduce the neediness of
a wife.
(Obviously, this was the typical lifestyle for centuries before modernization,
independency and self sufficiency. Many tribal cultures still operate this
way as well as some religious lifestyles.) Men on the other hand
were not found to significantly benefit emotionally (in regards to their
marriages) from this degree/type of male comradeship.
Watson, Wilma -
http://ydyc.org/tips-for-marriage-success/ - Were any of the 12
apostles married?
Yes. Peter was a married man per Matthew 8:14, 4:18. -
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Were_the_twelve_apostles_from_the_12_tribes_of_israel
- NO
Radio/CD/DVD
Rebecca Brown - Prepare for War -
www.harvestwarriors.com -
Chapter 15 The Double Minded Man teaches mates to
declare in the NAME of JESUS and to:
(1) anoint mate with olive oil
(2) command any demons of inheritance to leave
(3) close and seal with
blood of Jesus all doorways in
which demons entered.
This approach may be needed when couple is aware that mate has same negative
characteristics as does parent/ancestor.
The results can be instantaneous.
Can also anoint descendents/grandchildren/children.
Dobbins, Dr Richard -
(Christian psychiatrist, Naples, Florida, USA) -
http://www.drdobbins.com -
Dr. Dobson Husbands and Wives - 2 Therapists Talk About Pornography
Focus on the Family - RADIO
www.family.org/married/perspectives/aoo30345.cfm
AUDIO at
http://www.drdobbins.com/products.asp?CatID=55
RADIO
https://www.dobsonlibrary.com/resource/audio/93a52a7b-4302-4f68-8751-77e7d69cd68a
from
https://www.dobsonlibrary.com/resources/marriage/
from
https://www.dobsonlibrary.com/
Feldhahn, Shaunti
- What Women Should Know About Men - radio/CD
www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=5238
Frankena, Martin -
Free Indeed - Healing &
Deliverance seminar CD 4/21/2007 session 2 -
www.revivalconnections.org
Emphasis on spiritually terminating/cutting/loosing unholy
soul ties,
especially
from each prior sexual relationship prior to marriage.
Each sexual
relationship is a covenant relationship, legal or not, right or wrong.
It
is a spiritual law that the 2 become 1 flesh during intercourse. That is
why it is imperative for each person to repent and put under the blood of Christ
all prior relationships, especially those forbidden by God in the Bible.
Ask God to remove permanently from you anything deposited from another during any/each prior
relationship. Never recite pornographic details; God already knows the
particulars. Ask God to redeposit [back into you (or if bad then under the
feet of Jesus)] anything taken from you during any prior
relationship. It
might be innocence, virginity, trust, freedom to love, which one can name, if
one is aware. Such transparency/repentance/prayers/ proclamations free one
to pursue intimacy in his/her marriage. One can also pray for God to bless
his/her marriage.
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
on a Date - audio/video -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Men,
Women & Relationships - audio -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
in Love - audio -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Men Are from Mars, Women Are
from Venus Book of Days - audio -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Men Are from Mars, Women Are
from Venus - video -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus in the Bedroom - video -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus Together Forever - video -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - What You Feel, You Can Heal - audio -
www.marsvenus.com
Gray, John - Mars and Venus
Starting Over - audio/video -
www.marsvenus.com
Griffith, Theresa - Lover of My Soul - music CD -
www.somebodycaresministries.org
God did allow her to remarry after 25 years of verbal abuse.
God gave her
a supernatural gift of playing various flutes.
She plays them like one
would speak in tongues - through the Holy Spirit.
She also downloads songs
from heaven which she sings to the wounded.
Both ways she ministers
healing to many.
Both mental and physical wounds are super-naturally
removed by Jesus
as she ministers to individuals.
Even special needs children are ministered to through her music in the school
room setting. Milking cows are known to be calmer during Mozart concerts,
so likely Theresa's music would calm them also.
Griffith-Hulbert,
Jeff and Theresa -
1/29/2007-2/11/2007
http://www.sidroth.org/tvbroadcasts.htm
BECOMING ONE FLESH - CD - http://www.revival.com/www/r.aspx
-
Rodney Howard-Browne Ministry
Jakes, TD - Fighting Back from Fight for the Family -
audio - Dallas Texas -
www.tdjakes.org
-
TD Jakes contends that there is a "spirit of di-vision" (loss of
vision)
and implies there may
also be a "spirit of dis-couragement" (loss of courage).
Jakes, TD - The Sell Breaker - 8/8/2007 TV broadcast -
https://tdjakes.org/ -
The Spellbreaker DVD # DV-0802 -
The Spellbreaker CD # CD-0802
-
Teaching and prayer for the breaking off of family curses,
including curses into
which one marries. Highly recommended.
MacNutt, Francis -
Deepening Marriage Relationships - (2003) - CD -
Healing of Relationships - (1990) - CD
Tolleson, Kathleen -
1 hr DVD -
Restoring Sexuality
-
http://stores.rtfresources.org/-strse-155/Restoring-Sexuality/Detail.bok
-
"You can be healed
from sexual abuse, pornography addiction, sexual addiction, sexual deviance and
frigidity."
http://rtfi.org/?q=content/about-us
Weiss, Douglas -
Intimacy;
A 100 Day Guide to Lasting Relationships -
http://www.drdougweiss.com
-
One of the major purposes of marriage is to
make a couple/individual into the image of God; do not be surprised at the
conflict/friction between so many couples who appear to
be unlike/opposite to
each other.
Whetstone, Dr Gary V - What God Has Jointed Together
- God's Plan for a Fulfilled Marriage -
www.gwwm.com
- CD with booklet
showing back up scripture
Wright, Henry -
11/2005 audio Sid Roth radio broadcast -
www.sidroth.org/radio -
Georgia, USA -
According to Romans 8:3 God sent His own Son for sin offering; He
condemned sin in the flesh. Sin infects the spirit, the mind and the body.
In the body sin manifests as disease/illness/infirmity. When a wife is not
covered by her husband or a child is not protected by his parent, the
unprotected person may unwittingly take on the husband's/parent's sin/abuse/condemnation/rejection into his own body/flesh and thus acquire a
disease. This is often seen in fibromyalgia.
Wright in his book - A More Excellent Way -
www.pleasantvalleychurch.net
-
shares that the remedy is to repent
of the taking on/owning/internalizing/accepting of another's sin/mistake/failure/omission/negligence
+ to reject the
sin/disease/ infirmity,
in the name of Jesus.
One can even do this silently during
communion at church. God desired only one human to take on another's sins
in His flesh; yes, it was His son Jesus.
Internet
Anderson, Neil T +
Mylander, Charles Experiencing Christ Together - Finding Freedom & Fulfillment in Marriage
RADIO -
http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/Songtime/archives.asp?bcd=2007-5-1
Anderson shares concept that marriage does not necessarily fix/solve a problem,
but rather expose it!
Read an excerpt
Hear Neil Anderson on Experiencing Christ
compliments
http://www.gospellight.com
Anderson is founder of Freedom In Christ Ministries
http://www.ficm.org/newsite/index.php
and president of
Discipleship Counseling Ministries
http://discipleshipcounselingministries.org/
Bevere, John & Lisa -
http://sidroth.org/television/tv-archives/john-lisa-bevere?src=weeklybroadcastemail_062915
6/29/2015
Mel Bond
- Discerning of Spirits
- 8/30-31/2010 9/3/2010 - TV Broadcast (edited)
http://www.sidroth.org/site/News2?abbr=tv_&page=NewsArticle&id=9519
+
transcript -
http://www.sidroth.org/site/DocServer/IS567Transcript_Bond.pdf?docID=2861
-
"In the middle of the night
because I heard some footsteps in my house. They started walking down the
hallway. They walked into the bedroom. I jumped up and started swinging at
them with my fist to protect my
household. They just began to laugh.
It was pretty obvious that these were spirits, even though it was in living
color.
They looked like they were physical. So immediately faster than
machine gun bullets the Lord spoke to me & said, 'Mel,
this person that you’ve praying for that has a problem
with adultery, has a problem with alcohol that.'
I had been working with them for a long time trying to share the scriptures
and things weren’t getting any better. He says, 'This is
the root of the problem. The one
(demon) the right is the spirit of adultery and the
one (demon) on the left is a spirit of alcohol.
Deal with the root of the problem,
not the person.'
I did. Ever since that
they’ve broken off of that person."
Brooks,
Steven - Having A
Loyal Heart
11/5/2009
-
http://www.openheaven.com/forums/printer_friendly_posts.asp?TID=29633#
Spiritual adultery and jealousy. How God feels, sometimes. @ www.stevenbrooks.org
Burns, John and Helen -
www.johnandhelenburns.com
-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7OHjxPMgTw +
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdcQkWmHZGI +
www.familyvictory.com/
+
http://www.pluggd.tv/audio/channels/john_and_helen_burns_audio_sermons
Craig Hill
1/18-24/2010 TV broadcast
http://www.sidroth.org/site/News2?abbr=tv_&page=NewsArticle&id=8937&security=1041&news_iv_ctrl=-1 +
book
2 Fleas - No Dog - TV
transcript or
http://www.sidroth.org/site/DocServer/IS536Transcript_Hill.pdf?docID=2181
Chapter 6 Miscommunication - Schemes of the Devil Many of the problems in
marriage
and other relationships are due to miscommunication, purposely
perpetrated &/or enhanced by our enemy Satan. We need to relate both on
the intellectual level, but
also on the emotional level. To conceal/not
acknowledge/ share at both levels is to be both vulnerable to hurt but also to
be deceitful. (On the other hand, one must not be so verbal or emotional as to
be manipulative of mate or to allow mate to manipulate you.)
Chapter 7 Transparency and Intimacy It is therefore necessary for
us to go the extra mile to do preventative and/or redemptive/ remedial work.
"Transparency is the Key to Intimacy." Beware of the "danger of soulical
(emotional) adultery." If I or my mate has "stopped communicating in
intimacy with" our spouse/each other and begun to do so with another individual,
especially of the opposite sex, then emotional adultery may have begun, leading
to physical & spiritual adultery. When we prefer to discuss exciting/good
news, fears, inspirations, frustrations, or aspirations with others, then our
fantasies and intimate times will be polluted with a trespasser. (That is
sin. Sin begins in the heart & infects the mind, emotions, body & spirit.
Confession to God & immediate
rectification is necessary.)
Evans, Jimmy @
https://marriagetoday.com/latest-tv-episodes/
Evans,
Jimmy @
https://xomarriage.com/blog/five-steps-to-forgiveness-in-marriage
Evans, Jimmy @
https://now.xomarriage.com/programs/21-day-total-freedom-journey
Gungor, Mark
-
Monday, July 6, 2015
+
Monday, July 6, 2015 +
Tuesday, July 7, 2015
from
http://lifetoday.org/video/the-bead-system-for-sex-bonus-interview/
shows archives
Hinn, Benny 7/29/2008 -
Toronto
Miracle Service Highlights #1
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-7-29.asx
-
A woman is healed of 3 slipped disks. Her x-husband (whom she divorced 26
years ago) is in the audience.
Benny reads scripture to them regarding divorce.
Then her x-husband asks Jesus to be his savior, so the wife agrees to remarry
him.
Benny promises to do the ceremony.
1st Corinthians 7:10-11 10To the married (Christian/Messianic Jew) I give this command
[not I (Paul, Jesus' disciple), but the Lord],
"A wife must NOT
separate from (divorce/abandon/flee from) her (perhaps
excepting an abusive/insane/unsafe?) husband. 11If she does (separate), she must remain unmarried or else
be reconciled to her husband. A husband must not divorce his wife."
Hutton, Larry 5/6/2011 -
http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/14531605 -
Our expectation is His invitation.
Evans, Jimmy & Karen -
5/2015 When Life Hurts - #1
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=2767769103001 -
#2
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=2767769101001 -
When marriage
hurts it could be old life wounds stabbing you. @
http://www.daystar.com/shows/daystar-original-programs/jonilamb/
Resources:
www.ourdreammarriage.com
-
www.marriagetoday.org
- Dallas, Texas, USA -
What a husband needs/wants most from his mate is honor and respect.
Sometimes
even sticky notes will help do the job in the area of gratitude,
thanks &/or praise.
Evans, Jimmy & Karen -
audio or video broadcast archives -
http://www.marriagetoday.org/rss/mt_feed.xml
www.family.org
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage
-
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting -
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/lifechallenges etc
Frangipane, Francis
-
Purity and Commitment -
http://www.frangipane.org/ -
"The fragrance continued in the room, I
understood that this was what the Lord inhaled when His children stayed
committed to Him during battle. I realized that, when we purpose to stay pure in
spite of temptation, we literally become “a fragrance of Christ to God.”
(2nd Corinthians 2:15).
Gungor, Mark -
http://www.laughyourway.com/pdf/BeAttitudes_Preview.pdf&chrome=true - Humor
heals.
Hunter, Joan - 10/28/2016 -
TV interview with Joan and Sarah Hickey - A testimony:
Having been healed from mate's physical violence, all the symptoms returned the
following morning. God revealed that she was still bitter at mother-in-law
for allowing and creating such evil behavior in her son, mate of this victim.
After forgiving her mother-in law, her healing returned and stayed.
http://www.lifefocus.tv/ -
Betrayal of the Heart -
10/25/2007 broadcast -
The
enticing and dangerous roller coaster ride of adultery.
Also see
My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to
Me
by Anne Bercht
-
TV show
Oprah and 7 Cheating Husbands -
Book excerpts at
www.trafford.com/robots/04-1147.html
Jakes, TD - Potter’s House
pastor, Dallas, Texas
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/the_potters_house/
Conferences his organization has produced, include ManPower, Woman, Thou Art
Loosed, and MegaFest.
A must read before getting engaged. Before
You Do - Making Great Decisions You Won't Regret or WATCH
Living Your Life Without Limits #1
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-9-2.asx
1 free 9/2/2008 CD from Benny Hinn Ministry by
requesting by mail
Living Your Life Without Limits #2
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-9-3.asx
Living Your Life Without Limits #3
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-9-4.asx
Living Your Life Without Limits #4
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-9-5.asx
Jakes,
TD - 2/7/2016
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/the-potters-house/video-player/love-has-no-loopholes-513776.html
Matthew 26:42
- Jesus
went away a 2nd time and prayed, "My
Father,
if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may Your
will be done."
@
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/the-potters-house/broadcast-archives.html
Kat Kerr – Passionate Power / God Gave Gifts to Men / Mantle of
Humility @
http://jesusstories.info 1st Part -
Married love is warfare against Satan; separation or sex
outside of marriage is warring with Satan against God.
Kerr, Kat -
Passionate Power @
http://www.katkerr.com/category/videos-showtime/
The Kat Kerr -
Elijah
List Event: Friday evening session
8/26/2016
recommended
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlcVAKa5SMA Whatever
(place/relationship/addiction) you enter into, will enter into and begin to
control you. (Weekly) LOOSE from your soul/ heart all that soul clutter
(deposit/litter/contamination/junk/ unforgiveness/bitterness/ demons due to
actions which you in error have done/read/watched/listened-to/
participated-in/neglected/received/attracted, in Jesus' name.)
A primary question in heaven will be what have you done with/to/for your family
and mate, rather than what have you done for/with/through Me (mainly applying to
healthy marriages,
where there was no abuse from your mate; such a dysfunctional union may not
always
be considered a covenant marriage, sometimes allowing
separation/divorce/remarriage).
The husband is suppose to be the bride's covering/ protection, spiritually and
physically.
(Nonetheless, scripturally, for those who remain married/faithful, the
born-again/Holy-Spirit baptized mate is the spiritual covering for the mate not
or not yet saved/healed/mature.)
Lamb, Joni - Marriage Programs
at
http://www.daystar.com/?s=marriage
Landry,
Curt & Chris - #1 -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=6099503147001 -
10/30/2019 - Do NOT be your mate's Holy Spirit. Instead, your praise will
enable God to intervene on mates behalf (via His angels/host/Spirit/ways).
Landry,
Curt & Chris - #2
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=6105490654001
11/19/2019 - Men in the business world need emotional intelligence.
Leaf, Dr Caroline -
Who Switched Off Your Husband's Brain? -
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=94076b635e58ff5b5dad
Marriage biological communication differences and guidelines
Leman, Kevin
(Christian psychologist & comedian) How to Have a New Husband by Friday
A wife saying, "We need to talk, does not mean anything is required of you."
Wife, if you
need him to talk, touch him. -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dsky8MJZ23s&feature=related
Understanding the Man Code -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84KPEEg63os&feature=related
7 Things He'll Never Tell You -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sqYiTVb674&feature=related
Meberg, Marilyn -
What to do when the Roof Caves In book 7 3/31/2009 or 4/6/2009 TV
http://www.lifetoday.org/site/PageServer?pagename=tel_USCalendar
www.womenoffaith.org -
Marilyn, comedian, believes that the best divorce buster is premarital
counseling. refreshing (We recommend one shop for counselors the same way one shops for a car, house,
etc.
If the counselor has been baptized in the Holy Spirit and has the
gift of knowledge,
God may
have more opportunity to work through that
individual. Regardless, pray before each counseling
secession that He will
have the liberty to do what He wants to do during that time.)
Mintle, Dr Linda -
http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/TV/Archive/20080114.htm
Never accept your automatic thoughts. Align your own thoughts with His
thoughts.
Agree
with His thoughts. Reject/cast down/cast out unproductive
thoughts.
Then replace the
rejected thoughts with positive/helpful/God's
thoughts. Critical words/ thoughts lead to
negative feelings, which lead to
being defensive, which leads to building walls.
Pray together with your
mate; it is difficult to stay angry with your prayer partner.
Give your
partner 5 affirmations for each critical word spoken. Emotional distance
is greatest
divorce trigger.
Do NOT allow yourself to be tormented by stinking
thinking.
View thoughts as
entering a computer mailbox. Many
thoughts are junk mail/spam and need to be NOT opened/deleted; we should only
click onto those thoughts which align with the Word of God.
In fact one can even
trigger good behavior by placing/speaking positive ideas into others heads.
A test was done; hotel cleaners/chamber maids were told they were getting the
government
regulated needed/adequate/sufficient exercise to maintain/ benefit
their health.
This group performed better than another group not told this.
Marriage Breaking
Spirits
Win Worley message -
http://www.jesusdelivers.com/promised/deliverance.html
www.marriagebuilders.com
www.marriagesavers.org
Murdock,
Cindy -
https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/her-story-pt-1-cindy-murdock
5/21/2020
Murdock, Cindy -
https://www.daystar.tv/joni-table-talk/season:1/videos/her-story-pt-2-cindy-murdock
5/22/2020
O'Brien,
Michael - Pornography Testimony:
Read
Michael O'Brien's story here -
Watch video now @
website:
Something About Us -
Billy Graham TV:
http://billygraham.org/TV_Index.asp?QR=163
Omartian,
Michael & Stormie
Praying through deep marital issues
www.lifetoday.org
12/31/2008
Webcast: Quicktime,
Flash,
MP3,
Download,
Transcript
Parrott, Les and Leslie -
http://www.realrelationships.com/
-
2 of the most important daily things to
help/maintain a good marriage are to:
1- Greet mate affectionately immediately
when he/she returns home from work, &
2- Relate positively/affectionately to
mate just before he/she falls asleep.
JN428-2.
PRAYER
FOCUS: Christian marriages and covenant relationships
2/4/2003 -
http://www.joelnews.org/news-en/jn428.htm
-
July 2002 Canadian prophet Pat Cocking shared a vision of a council of high
ranking demons meeting in what appeared to be the 2nd heaven, that were
discussing in detail how to sabotage and destroy marriages and covenant
relationships in the earth, especially those within the Christian community.
These relationships included marriages, family, friendships, ministry, &
business.
Special assignments were being launched against leaders.
Stand and fight in this battle. The Lord revealed that for many it will be easy
to give in and let relationships fail and fall due to the pressures, but He is
calling us to stand and resist through the power of His love and faith. It is
also vital that we do not take a defensive stand. An aggressive and offensive
posture is necessary. Fear is NOT to grip our hearts. Tenacious love and faith
towards the victory will motivate a plunge forward into establishing even
stronger relationships than before this planned assault.
Reconciling God's Way -
Reconciling your marriage -
www.reconcilinggodsway.org
Retrouvaille - Reconciling your marriage -
www.retrouvaille.org
Robison, James - 6/23/2011
Guest: Robert Morris , Jill Monaco
from
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/life-today/ -
After
deliverance we get freedom not from the fight but empowerment to
fight bondages and root issues like rejection.
Scott, Steven -
The Richest Man Who Ever Lived, with Steven Scott
- marriage insights for couples
2/18/2016
Smalley, Gary
Smalley Relationship Center
http://garysmalley.com/
http://www.zimbio.com/Gary+Smalley/articles/AseXpnsX6lO/Gary+Smalley
+Personality+Test+Classifies+Otter
Advocacy to legislate for marriage
to remain only between male and female
HRC | Testimony of Rev. Dr. Ray
Hammond
, senior pastor of
Bethel African Methodist
Episcopal Church in Boston, and
graduate of Harvard College, Harvard Medical School,
and
Harvard Graduate
School
www.hrc.org/Template.cfm?Section=Home&Template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&ContentID=13285
- 35k
View the webcast of the Sept. 4 hearing.
Worley, Win -
Demolishing the Hosts of Hell - Every
Christian's Job -
pg 61 gives deliverance suggestions
Regarding marriage braking evil spirits pages 5-8
are as follow:
http://www.jesusdelivers.com/index.php/marriage-breaking-spirits
XO Now marriage conferences -
https://www.daystar.com/ondemand/search/?search=xo
recommended
XO -
https://xomarriage.com/speakers/jimmyevans
Gender Identity Issues
Foster, David Kyle
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/search/?search=david+kyle+foster
-
End of program - shares we are to name - problem/addiction/demon/temptation/compulsion/addiction/thought/voice/self-talk/anxiety/fix/cigarette/candy
by what it is attempting to do (murder/rape/drink/drug/suicide/numb-pain) Then to command it to go - to the place that Jesus will send it, in Jesus’ name
(and not return) (and to replace-with/bind-to our soul the opposite virtue:
His lover for lust, His peace for fear, etc. in Jesus’ name)
Foster, David Kyle -
www.Purepassion.us
Kits
Sansby, Betsy - a Minnesota,
USA family therapist - The Ouch Kit -
www.theouchkit.com
Couples Therapy in a Box. Cards are used in time out period when there is no strife.
10/26/04 Lifestyles
www.thenews-press.com
DANGER
Holliday, Pat -
Under Sea Mysteries
Listen!
http://patholliday.com/channelz.m3u
Daniel
Olukoya
-
The Soul Traders - (CAUTION: Invite Holy Spirit
to counsel/test your insights.)
"Soul traders are those who
buy and sell the souls of
men."
Ezekiel 13:18
says,
'Say, Thus saith the Lord God: "Woe to the women that sew pillows to all
armholes":
Read Full Sermon
-
"The soul of somebody’s spouse could be sold and the
partner would be wondering what
happened to his wife or
her husband. Many
soul traders come to wedding
ceremonies."
Spas
Miraval sex spa and inn, Tucson, Arizona, USA - Couples workshops
by Dr David Taylor &
Dr Lana Holstein are NOT what Ophra Winfrey sells them to
be,
because of numerous secular/demonic origins/teachings.
DANGER:
The "yab yum" sexual position is a Buddhist sexual position. -
The Secret Teaching of Urgyen Sangharakshita -
http://www.fwbo-files.com/satires/sec_teach.htm
The "puja" love/sex/energy connection is a synonym for sacramental worship,
NOT of the God of
the Jews/Christians/Arabs,
but rather
Avatar Adi Da Samraj and other deities who claim that
word. http://www.adidam.org/adida/religion/dhome.htm?go=puja.htm
Rule #1 - Always check out the root religion of ANY thing
which has a rave review.
This is especially true with ANY spa treatment.
Satan is NO respecter of ignorance.
www.holsteinandtaylor.com/couples.lasso -
www.miravalresort.com/spa.php
Christian Aerobotics
& Other Dangerous Alternative Modalities.
One Demon Is One Too Many.
Israeli, Yohai -
http://www.israel21c.org/headlines/yohai-israeli-opens-the-gate-to-emotional-healing/?utm_source=Israel21c+Weekly+Newsletter&utm_campaign=db389e5e71-2014_09_10&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_a2ed5ed71b-db389e5e71-250424805
-
49% correct regarding -"Yohai
Israeli’s method aims to root out causes of distress symptoms & subconscious
blocks to fulfill a desired reality, without identifying them
or talking about
them. He
says the sessions bring out 'the automatic feeling-thinking-response patterns
that do
not serve us, and while the patterns are active, systematic work is done
to make their roots
disappear. A constant and accurate body-mind feedback guides
us until the process is complete.'
During a session, 'every relevant force
from the subconscious will surface, and then we
systematically weaken those
forces and eliminate them, and create new forces and patterns to
support the
process,' Israeli says." NO-NO regarding, "He started developing The Gate when he was 37, along
the way earning his
master’s degree and learning a bit of (DEMONIC)
kabala, reiki and shamanism to help clients.
'I almost gave it up
because it was too complex,' he recalls. 'And then on Dec. 24, 2010, every-thing came together. It was a quarter to 9 on a Friday. I had an "aha" moment.
All
my clients
that day received The Gate and it’s kept on evolving ever
since but the core is the same and it’s
simple to use.' The name comes
from his belief that the body is the gate to spiritual evolution,
and that the
physical and emotional system provides constant biofeed-back one can be trained
to
recognize.
'So many people in Western society are detached from their
emotions,' he says, 'so the 1st thing is to connect to your body & feelings.
'Then you reach a point I call "the opening," where a gate opens & you feel
you’re floating out of your body.
Some describe it as being in
outer space or
being touched by angels.
There’s a tremendous flow of energy and you feel
blissful.
This is a crucial part of the healing process.' Israeli is married to
a marketing manager he met 8
years ago at a workshop on shamanism. She is
also a practitioner of modalities including The Gate.
Israeli only agreed to
give facilitator training in the New York area, upon request."
Phillips, Theresa -
http://www.pmigloryinstitute.com/
St. Charles, Illinois, USA
http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/features/deliver-us-from-evil/story-e6frg8h6-1225967837921
Deliver Us From Evil - 12/8/2010
"Bishop Porteous sees a link between the growing demand for
exorcisms &
the spiritual adventurism of young Australians. He says the growth of
non-Christian alternative relaxation techniques such as yoga and
reiki, as well as forms of divination such as tarot cards,
fortune-telling & séances, pose temptations that could invite demonic trouble.
He also points his finger at popular culture, saying the Harry Potter books &
films, & the vampire-themed Twilight series, have revived curiosity with the
supernatural. 'While Twilight & Harry Potter are not (necessarily) in
them-selves demonic, they can lead to a fascination in this world & young people
can be drawn & become more attracted to these things.'” (Such things
become the open door/invitation/legal grounds to evil in one's life.
Any subsequent curses cannot be eliminated without repentance & renunciation.)
News
4/29/2011 -
Catherine,
Duchess of Cambridge and Prince William's
Wedding HOMILY by ANGLICAN
ARCHBISHOP of LONDON, England DR RICHARD CHARTRES, "
'BE
WHO GOD MEANT YOU TO BE AND YOU WILL SET THE WORLD ON FIRE'
So said St
Catherine of Siena whose
festival day it is today. Marriage is intended to be a way in which man &
woman help each other to become what God meant each one to be, their deepest and
truest selves."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_of_Siena
"In about
1366, Catherine
experienced what she described in her letters as a "Mystical Marriage" with
Jesus, later a popular subject
in art as the
Mystic
marriage of Saint Catherine"
Evans, Mike - Political Marriage headed for
Divorce? -
http://tool.donationnet.net/Images/Email/1032/nuclearbombofIslam.pdf -
6/30/2012 -
"Israel
has been warned by Mohammed Badie, head of the (Muslim) Brotherhood, that:
'We
are totally unhappy with the illicit marriage between Cairo and Tel Aviv.'
In the early days of the uprising in Cairo, & while maintaining plausible
deniability, the newly elected Muslim Brotherhood candidate Mohamed Morsi was
seen sitting behind Muslim cleric Yusuf al-Qaradawi as he delivered a diatribe
against Israel. He appeared to be nodding in agreement as the crowd was
zealously notified that Jerusalem would be designated the capital of a coming
Caliphate. According to an Iranian Fars news reporter, president-elect
Morsi stated that he wants to 'reconsider' the current peace treaty with Israel
in order to forge new ties with Iran. An aide to Morsi vehemently denied that
the Egyptian ever gave a statement to Fars. Iran then released a highly disputed
taped conversation between the reporter & Morsi.
Only time will tell how this debate might affect
relationships between the 2 Muslim countries."
Non Christian Sites
Amen,
Dr Daniel
-
http://www.creativityatwork.com/articlesContent/Brain/amen-optimize-brain.html
-
"Winnifred B.
Cutler, PhD and colleagues at the University of Pennsylvania & later at
Stanford University it was found that regular sexual contact had an important
impact on physical & emotional well being of women.
Sexual contact
with a partner at least once a week led to more fertile, regular menstrual
cycles, shorter menses, delayed menopause, increased estrogen levels, & delayed
aging. Brain imaging studies at UCLA have shown that decreased estrogen levels
are associated with overall decreased brain activity & poor memory.
Enhancing estrogen levels for women through regular sexual activity enhances
overall brain activity & improves memory...Orgasm was not as important as the fact that sex
was with another person.
Intimacy & emotional bonding may be the most influential factors in
the positive aspects of sex.
As a psychiatrist I have seen many people withhold
sex as a way to show hurt, anger, or disappointment.
Dr. Cutler's
research suggests that this is self-defeating behavior. The more you withhold
the worse it may be for you. Appropriate sex is 1 of the keys to the
brain's fountain of youth."
McGraw, Phillip C -
Relationship Rescue -
www.relationshiprescue.net
- McGraw is Dr Phil on USA TV, a Dallas, Texas psychologist, & president of Courtroom Sciences, Inc.
Secular book.
Smith, Dr Robin - Lies at the Altar
- The Truth about Great Marriages -
http://www.liesatthealtar.com/ -
Divorced psychologist on
Ophra Winfrey
TV show
Tough Love -
Especially Regarding
Rearing Children (but also healthy interactions with mate) -
http://www.vh1.com/shows/tough_love/ introduction
http://www.vh1.com/shows/tough_love/video/full-episodes/ selections
http://www.toughlove.com/blog-all.php?cat_id= blog
http://www.fulfilledcouple.com/better_way.html
-
This site reminds
us that the honeymoon seldom lasts forever.
The post-honeymoon period is
where one needs to guard against negative thoughts.
Bilotta, Larry -
book -
How Couples Can
Fulfill Each Other's Needs -
http://www.somethingyoushouldknow.net/December03_December14_2007.htm -
How To Save Or Kill A Marriage I -
Listen 12/5/2007
-
Transcript
+
How To Save Or Kill A Marriage II -
Listen 12/6/2007 -
Transcript
FAMILY LAW IN ANCIENT
IRAN
-
http://www.cais-soas.com/CAIS/Law/family_law.htm
Jewish
Proverb
- From every human being there rises a light that
reaches straight to heaven.
When 2 souls destined to be together, find
each other, their streams of light flow together; a single, brighter light goes
forth from their united being.
Matthew 19:4-6 KJVer He answered,
"Have you not read, that He Who made them at the
beginning made them male and female & said, 'For this cause shall a man leave
father & mother & shall
cling to his wife.
The 2 shall become 1 flesh?' They are no more 2 but 1
flesh.
What God has joined together, let no man put asunder."
Engagement/wedding contract/prenuptial according to Jewish Ketubah tradition
On the 1st day of the week, the
_______________ day of the month of _______________
in the year __________________in the city of ____________________ corresponding
to the secular
date ______________________ the holy covenant of marriage was
entered into between the groom __________________________ & bride
_________________________
The bride vowed to the groom, "Behold. You are consecrated unto me with
this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel. I shall honor, cherish, &
support you as is customary among the daughters of Israel."
signed _________________________
The groom vowed to the bride, "Behold.
You are consecrated unto me
with this ring according to the law of Moses & Israel.
I shall honor,
cherish, & support you as is customary among the sons of Israel." signed
______________
The bride and groom hereby enter into the sacred covenant of marriage. In
accordance with the traditions of Judaism, the bride & groom have accepted
this document in the presence of witnesses.
It is valid and binding.
Loneliness
Loneliness
-
http://www.betemunah.org/mashal.html -
"The (Jewish) Talmud
teaches us that a human being is a
husband and a wife,
together,
a single
soul
with
two halves. Before one
is married, he or she is only half a human being,
a male half
or a female half. This is why one feels loneliness for a mate.
It's like having "your better half" surgically amputated from your complete
self.
Loneliness disappears after one
lives with his or her soul mate."
"To experience a relationship with another person, we want to engage their
soul,
that which is inside.
We are not looking to just relate to their body.
Unfortunately, we can not see the
person, the
soul;
we can only see their body. We want to engage that aspect of a
person
that disappears a minute
after they die.
We want to engage the
soul,
which is the
essence of a person."
Robert D. Williams
counselor -
&
Attorney
psychologist Paris M. Finner-Williams
-
Empowers Singles, Divorcees, Widows & Widowers -
Single Wisdom -
Top 5 Ways to be Single, Wise & Happy
1.
Don't focus too much on the fact that you are single and unmarried. Instead
embrace your "singledom" & seek productive activities to fulfill your
God-given purpose in life, then your God-given husband or wife will arrive.
2.
Don't invest any more in a person than you are willing to lose.
3.
Don't expect someone to love you if you are incapable of loving yourself
first.
4.
Don't be scared to have candid and respectful communication to discover if
your mate is truly "the one.
5.
Don't resurrect old relationships. When the relationship is dead, place it
among dead things.
http://www.blacknews.com/pr/singlewisdom101.html
Investigative dating is not social dating. Be willing to SERVE each
other, to meet each other’s needs FOREVER.
Be committed to MARRIAGE as well as to the person.
Investigate
family as well as the individual.
Healing
& Deliverance Prayers
http://www.standforyourmarriage.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=132:deliverance-prayers&catid=38:different-kinds-of-evil-spirits-&Itemid=88
(edited)
Prayers: Satan, take your hands off my marriage. @
Mountain of fire - in Jesus name & resurrection power:
1. Every power preventing me (or my seed) as husbands from living as a true
head should be paralyzed.
2. Lord forgive any sin of abortion that may lead to blood crying
against our home.
3. Lord help us make the proper corrections in our marriage.
4. Let every (evil/wrong) imagination/thought/plan/decision/desire & expectation of
divorce & separation against my family (tree) be nullified.
5. Any (evil) spiritual power and activity that (would) put (our) marriages
asunder. be bound & rendered naught.
6. Satan, hear the word of the Lord, you will not break my (or my seeds'
heart or) marriage.
7. Every spirit of misunderstanding between me and my mate, be permanently
paralyzed.
8. All powers eating away the determination of my mate to
stay married to me, be bound.
9. Satanic birds eating away my love from the heart of my mate, vomit it.
10. (Pray in the spirit for at least 10 minutes.)
Deliverance prayers: Let marriage destroyers be destroyed,
in Jesus name &
resurrection power:
1. Every
evil counsel fashioned against my family (tree), dissolve and be nought.
2. Every spirit of Ahab, Jezebel, strife & home wreckers (opressing our
family tree), be bound.
3. Army Host, uproot, cut to pieces & burn the source of my (and my
seeds') marital problems.
4. Let every (evil) power militating against the divine purpose of marriage
in my family (tree) be destroyed:
a. (evil) Power
militating against companionship & completeness, be destroyed.
b. (evil) Power militating against marital faithfulness, be destroyed.
c. (evil) Power encouraging adultery & fornication, be destroyed.
d. (evil) Power militating against procreation, be destroyed.
5. Let
every wicked device of the enemy to defeat these (holy) purposes in
our lives, be frustrated.
6. Let every gadget of marriage destruction be frustrated in my family
(tree).
7. Let every evil arrow fired by demonic relatives, be uprooted.
8. Let every evil anti-marriage linkage with our parent, be dashed to pieces.
9. Let every evil effect of external interference in our marriages. be
completely neutralized.
10. Every power preventing me (and my seed) as a wife from accepting our
husbands' headship, be paralyzed.
Mark 10:7-9
For
this cause shall a man leave his father & mother, & cleave to his wife; & the
twain shall be one flesh so they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Wherefore
what God has joined together let no man put asunder.
CONFESSS
MATT.19:6:
They are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath join
together, let not man put asunder.
PRAISE
WORSHIP
Source:
Mountain of Fire and Miracles - in Jesus' name and resurrection power:
1. Thank (You) God for the institution of marriage.
2. Lord, I repent for and remit any unprofitable contribution that brings
about any unpleasant marital situation.
3. Lord, forgive me (and our seed) if the choice of our partner has been wrong from the
beginning.
4. Lord, walk back to the foundation of each marriage and carry out the
necessary surgical operation.
5. I register our protest in the demonic world for the wounds and injury done
to our family tree by the enemy.
6. Army host, I command you in love to
bind every strongman militating against our
homes.
7. Every evil spiritual marriage contacted by or on our behalf, be
dissolved.
8. Every evil spiritual marriage with (every evil) spirit mate, be
divorced.
9. Every evil spiritual home involving our family tree, be destroyed.
10. Army host, pursue, overtake and recover our marriages from the hands of home
breakers.
Isaiah
43:18-19:
Remember ye not the
former things, neither consider the things of Old.
Behold i will do a new things; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know
it?
I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.
(Source: Mountain of fire and miracles - Cancel the effect of the following
things.
Please pray aggressively if you are involved or feel you may be involved in
them.)
Regarding any of the following:
a.
Demonic water
pouring on the feet on the wedding day.
b. Contaminated wedding rings and shoes.
c. (Family) Background of polygamy and multiple husbands.
d. Familiar spirits and witchcraft spirits.
e. Satanic deposit in the home.
f. Collection of spiritual bride-price.
g. incest (in Jesus' name, blood and resurrection power:)
1. I cancel the related above spirits and command them to loose their hold
upon my marriage.
2. I break
and lose myself, in the name of Jesus from any anti-marriage curse issued
upon my family.
3. Father, let the Prince of peace reign in my marriage without any
hindrance.
4. I decree reconciliation between myself and my partner, in the name of
Jesus.
5. All powers conspiring with anyone to destroy our home/marriage lose your
hold.
6. All evil counsels against our home are frustrated.
Deliverance prayers: enemies of my marriage..collaspe and die!
-
Source: Mountain of fire & miracles
(Grid up
your spiritual loins; aggressively stand against the following local
home-wreckers.)
Job 22:28:
thou shall also decree a thing & it shall be established unto thee: and
the light shall shine upon the way
I stand
against any...(fit in the items listed below)...& command them to release
me
and my marriage, in Jesus' name.
a.
competition by
strange women or girls/men
b.
demonic in-law
c.
financial failure
and poverty, especially after the wedding
d. spirit husbands
and wives
e.
demonic marks
f.
anti-marriage
destruction
g. spirit of fear
h.
spirit of Jezebel
(domineering nature)
i. inherited spirit
from the father’s and mother’s sides.
j. marriage curses
k. anti-marriage
covenants
l. spirit of
misunderstanding, misinterpretation and exaggeration
m. ungodly
attachment to parents
CONFESSION
Mark
10:8-9:
They
twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
PRAISE
WORSHIP -
Source:
Mountain of fire and miracles - In Jesus name and resurrection power:
1. All conspiries to destroy our marriages and
good homes, be removed.
It is against God’s word for evil schemes to separate us.
2. All evil counsel against our home, collapse.
3. All evil assignments against our marriages, be sattered.
4. All strange women attached to our mates, be unattached.
5. Favor, love
(respect and admiration) from our mates, be downloaded.
Thank You Lord for Your (daily) mercies and grace.
By
Daniel Olukoya
(We invite) Ask (You) holy Spirit to help us pray to the point of
breakthrough.
1.
(Evil) hand
of household wickedness, be removed from our marriages.
2. Every
incantation/incision/hexe & spiritually harmful activity working
against us, be completely neutralized.
3.
All forces
of evil manipulating, delaying or hindering our marriages, be
completely paralyzed.
4. All
evil anti-marriage marks, be removed.
5.
DNA, be restored
to the perfect way in which God created me, my mate and seed.
6.
Every
satanic weapon fashioned against our marriages, be destroyed.
7.
All schemes and plans satan ever devised against us through
any source and any time, be exposed & deposed.
8. I (repent of, renounce and) forsake any personal (and family) sin that has given ground to the
enemy.
9. I reclaim (7-fold) all the ground our family tree has lost to the enemy.
10. I apply the name, blood & resurrection power of Jesus to our marriages.
Delayed marriage? My bones of bones, appear now
Isaiah 34:16:
Seek ye out of the book of the
Lord, and read: not one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my
mouth it hath commanded, and His spirit hath gathered them.
No word of God shall lack power of fulfillment! God’s words are always
backed by his authority and we know His words can not return to him void.
We serve a God that cannot lie. His dreams, vision and words concerning our
lives will surely come to pass. God is the one that instituted marriage and
He performed the 1st wedding ceremony in Genesis chapter 2. God has a man
for every woman. If you feel that you have lost God’s perfect will for
your life, don’t forget that for every Vashti there is an Esther.
Lateness in marriage can come as a result of collective capacity,
manipulation of
household wickedness, spirit husband/wife and other
anti–marriage forces.
In
His time God makes all things beautiful.
Ecclesiastes 3:11
The God that makes all things beautiful, will step into your situation,
break down every wall of partition gather you together by His spirit.
Isaiah 34:16; Ephesians 2:13
Our God is
faithful! He never comes late. He will hasten His words
(concerning your marriage)
to perform
it.
Jeremiah 1:12
CONFESSIONS
Philippians 2:9-10
Wherefore God also hath highly
exalted Him, and given Him a name which is above every name:
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven and
things in earth, and things under the earth;
Col. 2:13
You, being dead in your
sins and the un-circumcision of your flesh,
hath He quickened together with
him, having forgiven you all trespasses;
Rev. 12:11
They overcome him by the
blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony;
they loved not their
lives unto the death.
Luke 1:37
For
with God nothing shall be impossible.
PRAISE WORSHIP By Daniel Olukoya - In Jesus' name and
resurrection power:
1. Thank
the Lord because Your miracle has come.
2. I repent of any (personal and family) sin that would hinder answers to our
prayers.
3. Lord, make known to our family tree the secret of our inner lives, our
destinies (our books written by You).
4. Help us Lord, to discover our real self (the purpose for which we were
created in this generation).
5. Every imagination of the enemy against our marital lives, be rendered
impotent.
6.
Any anti-marriage spells and curses,
be exposed and deposed.
7. Every
bewitchment fashioned against our marriages, be cancelled.
8. Every
force magnetizing the wrong people to us (and our seed) be paralyzed
(disconnected/demagnitized).
9. Every covenant of marital failure and late marriage
(in our family tree) be broken.
10.
Every
(evil) spiritual wedding conducted consciously or unconsciously on our
behalf, be cancelled.
Marital Joy is my portion
- In Jesus' name and resurrection power:
1.
Stones hiding our marital blessings, be shattered and melt.
2. (Evil) powers blocking the sunlight of (God's holy) glory and
breakthrough, be dispersed.
3. All evil spirit masquerading (and) troubling our marital livesm be
bound.
4. The pregnancy of good things within our family tree will not be aborted by any
contrary power.
5. Lord, let wonderful changes begin this week.3.22.2015
6. I reject every spirit of the tail in all areas of our family tree.
7. I receive our right matches.
8. I stand against every spirit of discouragement, fear, worry and
frustration.
9. Lord, turn away all that would jilt, disappoint or fail us.
10. Thank (You) God for Your victory.
Deliverance Prayers For your Marriage -
DELIVERANCE PRAYER (TIME TO BREAK THE CHAINS OF THE PAST) -
Different Kind’s Of Evil Spirits -
DISCOURAGEMENT
Garment of Praise -
LONELINESS -
The Devil IS an Advocate
Twilight and why there is no "beautiful side of evil" -
Untangling Damaging Soul Ties -
Vampire bite
Olukoya, Daniel - articles -
http://www.sermoncentral.com/Sermons/SearchResults.asp?ContributorID=57287
Foundation Of Marital Failure -
When Your Marriage Needs Deliverance -
Prayers:
https://www.praywithme.com/marriage-prayer.html
Short
Marriage Encounters/Retreats for married couples
Catholic -
http://www.wwme.org/view-all-weekends.html recommended
Catholic -
http://www.retrouvaille.org/pages.php?page=2
testimonies of married couples
3 day Mentoring for Pastors -
https://www.livingwatersministry.com/
Marriage to Jesus
Ferrell, Ana Mendez - Seated in Heavenly Places -
www.voiceofthelight.com -
Chapter 4 Christ a Kingdom of Love -
Section The Spouse of Christ -
"Jesus'...greatest manifestation is as
'Groom'...to become His spouse...entering into a covenant and marital
unity with Him...now, as we are alive on earth...When we get married on
earth we become 'one flesh.' When we get married to Jesus, we become 'one
Spirit'...We don't see a wedding ceremony in Revelation Chapter 19,
but a supper...the communion table in which we partake of His flesh and His
blood. As we partake of these elements, the fusion takes place between
His Spirit and ours...
There are different levels of relationship with the Lord...of a son...of
servant...of the bride...
His 'bride' is not seeking inheritance or rewards or position or fame; she
wants Him...
This is His cry, 'That they all may be one,
as Thou, Father art in Me
and I in Thee.'
John 17:21...This is
what fills My heart with fullness, the true
and sincere worship of My beloved'...
It is to
the bride that the intimate secrets of the Groom are revealed...
This kind of
love kills (self)...It costs to truly love...'I am
choosing from among My people those who will be My bride...and
I am going to transfigure Myself into them...because
I honor those who honor Me....and are
(not) more afraid of man than of Me.'"
Ferrell, Ana Mendez - Blasting the
Enemy's Walls - 2007 DVD -
www.voiceofthelight.com -
(The Jewish engagement initiates the wedding vows and must not be terminated
except
by divorce. Likewise, our marriage to the Lamb of God begins
with the deposit of the
Holy Spirit at the time we are born again here on
earth.) When we, others, AND the devil recognize that we are NOW
operating on earth in the same manner that Jesus did, then we will be
spiritually operating from in a superior place ABOVE the earth and affecting
inferior things BELOW. This is because Jesus' Spirit has united with
our spirit, operating as one, under the direction of Father God.
Masturbation
Mentoring Men
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=4185051200001
John and Sam
Eldridge
http://www.daystar.com/ondemand/video/?video=4187333036001
John and Sam
Eldridge
5/5/2015
Jakes, TD - 7/13/2017 -
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/the-potters-house/he-motions-606105-full.html
Often wives process their dilemmas by being chatterboxes, which can turn off
mates,
who are not given anything specific to fix/remedy/hunt/rescue/repair.
Typically, men process their emotional dilemmas in
caves/isolation/self-imprisonment. Sometimes this male coping method
is related to the high suicide death rate,
especially when/where men are put
down rather than put on a pedestal.
Sometimes the festering/aching hole in the heart is from the absence of the
male in the family as a father (or grandfather).
Family
Multiple Mates/Partners
Polygamy
Schlafly, Phyllis -
Obama Makes Polygamy a 21st Century Issue
-
https://eagleforum.org/column/2009/nov09/09-11-06.html